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Oh my god ... Help me please I don't know what to do!!!

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Mummy2TandF · 29/08/2007 09:48

my dh went fishing last night and at 11:30pm I had a knock on the door from the police .... My dh has been found dead on a footpath at the lake They think it was a massive heart attack, a stroke or a blood clot but will do a PM tomorrow, I don't know what to do, I have my family here with me but it is easier to talk on here How do I tell my dc's? WHAT do I tell my dc's - they are only 2.9 and 10 months Will they understand, what are they going to do without their daddy? How will I get through the days without my dh? I know we argued etc but I really, really, loved him and now he is gone Help please

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Nip · 29/08/2007 16:19

Sorry to hear about your sudden loss

My thoughts are with you and your family M2TF

Coolmama · 29/08/2007 16:19

So very sad to hear this -
I know that nothing can be said right now that will help, just know that we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
xx

hazygirl · 29/08/2007 16:21

i am so sorryx

NurseyJo · 29/08/2007 16:25

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Cadders · 29/08/2007 16:39

I am soooo sorry. What a shock.

totaleclipse · 29/08/2007 16:49

How devestating, so very sorry

sparkler · 29/08/2007 16:54

Oh my goodness. Wish I could think of some words that could help. What a terrible shock for you all. All I can offer is a {{{hug}}}.

MerlinsBeard · 29/08/2007 16:58

I am so so sorry M2T&F

goingfor3 · 29/08/2007 17:01

I am so sorry for you and your family, how awful

ggglimpopo · 29/08/2007 17:02

I am so very very sorry.

I wish you much strength in the days to come.

If you need a stranger to talk to, please feel that you can email me.

gggglimpopo at hotmail dot com

2shoes · 29/08/2007 17:02

omg so sorry my thoughts are with you and your family

podglet · 29/08/2007 17:06

OMG I am so sorry, we were on Nov '06 together. Sending my thoughts and prayers to you all.

Wallace · 29/08/2007 17:09

Oh sweetheart so sorry for you xxxxxx

DaDaDa · 29/08/2007 17:13

So sorry for your loss.

maman4 · 29/08/2007 17:17

So so sorry for your sudden loss.Am thinking of you ,lots of love and hugs to you and the children.

NAB3 · 29/08/2007 17:18

OMG. I am so so sorry. Where are you? Is there a MNetter nearby who can help? I am so sorry.

Theclosetpagan · 29/08/2007 17:19

Am so sorry to hear your news.

NAB3 · 29/08/2007 17:22

Just read the whole thread. So lovely that people can be so supportive. Take things a mionute at a time.

Spidermama · 29/08/2007 17:25

So sorry Mummy2.

Have you family around to help you at this time?

Let us know what you need and we will rally round. I think there are quite a few MNers down your way.

UCM · 29/08/2007 17:26

Thinking of you & your family. What a terrible tragedy xx

hertsnessex · 29/08/2007 17:27

oh no, my god, i am so so sorry to hear this mummy2tandf. i know we talked before (mile 4 maude) - please please if there is anything i can do, i am here.

cx

Spidermama · 29/08/2007 17:27

I don't know if this helps but he died doing something he loved. My dh is an angler. He's at his most peaceful and connected on the riverbank.

I'm so, so sorry. You must be all over the place at the moment.

Califrau · 29/08/2007 17:30

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IntergalacticWalrus · 29/08/2007 17:30

So sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you x

Keep talking on here, there is always someone here for you

hippipotami · 29/08/2007 17:31

I am truly sorry.

I hope you have friends and family with you to help you.

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