Anyone up? Dad not expected to last the night.

[MyGuideJools]

Me and mum been in hospital since 10am. Dad has pneumonia and lung cancer and isn't expected to last the night
I've been expecting this but now I'm so scared. I know I shouldn't be on MN but I'm sat holding his hand. His breathing is so laboured now. All monitoring and obs stopped, just meds to calm him
He is still in a ward with 3 other men who are all sleeping. There are no side rooms apparently
He's been in pain for so long, he's not been my strong old dad for weeks. This is killing me.....

Jools I remember reading this thread

Little did I know that I would be in the same position a month later with my DF

You, along with others, have given me support over the last few months, so I would like to thank you too

Myguide I'm in.a.similar boat six months on from dfs death.Cancer gave him a rough.last few months.At least we have good memories of our lovely Dads xx

ineed and whatis
I recognise you from another thread. I'm sorry you've both gone through the same thing⚘
I agree the support on here is great. And we may only have memories now, but they won't ever go.♥️