Our special thread where we can be who we are. A thread to remember our children who are no longer physically here. Our 'safe haven.'

[LilyTheSavage]

This is it. Here we are. Thank you to Shabbs for noticing how far down the last thread we got.

Remembering all our precious children. Sending love to you all. This is just so wrong. I could howl to the moon tonight.

Happy birthday Hannah. Xx

Thank you. Have 'done well' today.... Feeling it now

Happy birthday to Hannah and thinking of you Dooby

Thank you

Happy Birthday Hannah - so sorry I am late with my birthday wishes. Thinking about you all and sending my love.

xxxxxx

Dooby you ARE the mum of a 25 year old - you always will be - just, heartbreakingly, she is not physically here. xxx

Well said, shabbs
Thinking of you and Hannah, Doobydoo

Hiya everybody. Hope everyone is doing ok xxx

Hi all. Its nice to see names that I recognise but I hate seeing new names. So sad. for everyone

Its been a while (I have nc) since I've posted on this type of thread... It has been 3 years since my twin boys were stillborn. I cant believe it. I am currently 40+7 with another boy (he is going to have their first names as his middle names) i am sooooo excited - i literally cannot wait anymore. I love him so much already but I've been thinking about the twins an awful lot too and how much I miss them. It seems like 5 minutes ago -I always think about them but recently their birth/ the labour/ the aftermath has been running through my mind non stop. Dd asks about them constantly (she was 2.5 at the time shes now in yr1) Everyone is so anxious about this baby its palpable. I cant believe im even having another baby. I had a mmc last year at 11 weeks and decided I wanted to be sterilized fairly dramatic I know I know that I wouldn't be having this baby if they were here. Its awful but true. shiney I know that feeling all too well. X

Doublebubble Congratulations and best wishes. I'm sorry it is such a bittersweet time.

Shiney So sorry. I am there too ... it is very difficult when I feel one way, but am buffeted by everyone continuing on and expecting me to participate in parties and constant requests.
You would think people would understand you wouldn't want to talk in front of your DC, and I can't believe you get flak about FB! Take care.

I'm now 10 days overdue. Getting induced Friday. Hopefully he'll come before that x

Has anyone organised a review of their baby's labour. After this bub is born I would like to go over the twins birth... I dont know where to start really x

Shiney I have come to the conclusion that more people are insensitive/self absorbed than not ...

Doublebubble Wow -- sending best wishes for a smooth delivery.

Happy to announce my son was born via emcs @ 11:26 yesterday. (he had mec in his waters, was in entirely the wrong position and is a very big boy 10lb 2oz x) He looks so much like his brothers (and sister its crazy) - poor mite - its crazy. X thinking about all of my boys xx hope everyone is doing well x

Wow, Doublebubble -- sounds like quite the excitement for your little guy's birthday! So glad you both are well. Congratulations flowers

Congratulations double enjoy your rather substantial little chap and put your feet up and take it easy.

Could I join x

Thank you shiney I feel glad that there is something like this X

Hi Purple
Sorry you have a reason for joining.

Welcome purple, sorry you have had to join us. The ladies on here have been a tremendous support to me since my dd died 18 months ago, just knowing that they know exactly how I feel keeps me going on my darkest days.