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Christmas hope - our safe haven thread for bereaved parents.

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shabbapinkfrog · 11/12/2011 13:54

Hope....for the bereaved parent; even at Christmas, one of the most painful times of the year, there is an essence of hope. Hope....it is hope that sustains us through the days of grief and anger and frustration and loneliness.

The hope that someday the pain of the deaths of our children will be eased. The hope that someday our smiles will be real.

So, it is that for each of you I would hope....peace, compassion, love, sympathy, understanding, sharing and listening. In the sharing of our grief with one another, and in the emotional support we give to one another, we receive and understand all of these gifts.

Remembering my precious sons....and all of your precious children at this difficult time of year.

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everlong · 20/01/2012 22:12

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shabbapinkfrog · 20/01/2012 22:13

Ouzo - you have Ouzo -

Everlong - I am going to have a nosey at the thread you are talking about....you dont have to justify or defend yourself with me, my friend. None of us know what is going to happen with our children....if only we did.

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travellingwilbury · 20/01/2012 22:16

I do indeed Shabs , you can get your sunnies on and think of lying at that pool .

Only one vice everlong ?

I have eaten nearly all the revels and now feel a wee bit sick .

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shabbapinkfrog · 20/01/2012 22:21

Capstan full strength Everlong!!! Only the best for this classy bird (joke!!)

OK in about half an hour when we have had a few ouzo's we have to do this.....

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travellingwilbury · 20/01/2012 22:21

Nobody likes menthol light surely ? everlong that is not a vice that is a health kick .

shabbapinkfrog · 20/01/2012 22:23

ROFL.....good to have a laugh - and a party - even if it is a 'virtual' one - One day ladies, one day we will all have a get together. xxx

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everlong · 20/01/2012 22:26

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travellingwilbury · 20/01/2012 22:26

It would be good wouldn't it ? A whole evening of talking too much and drinking too much and dancing . We would need a big table for all the dancing .

travellingwilbury · 20/01/2012 22:27

I have got to work tomorrow which is rubbish , and I have got 10 boys coming over for two hours for Jamies party , how do I keep getting talked into that every year ?

everlong · 20/01/2012 22:27

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shabbapinkfrog · 20/01/2012 22:30

WOW sounds like a wonderful day TW - it will all be fine Hmm and Grin

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travellingwilbury · 20/01/2012 22:33

We have told them to wear scruffy clothes and the plan is (please God don't rain) to take them to a field and play football and then come home and eat pizza and rash the house .

I will make sure I have bought more vodka for when they leave Grin

shabbapinkfrog · 20/01/2012 22:38

Fab day by the sounds of it - totally great - they will all love it xxx

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travellingwilbury · 20/01/2012 22:51

I hope you are right Shabs , I mean what trouble can 11 8 year olds and a yr old get into ay ? ..........

I had better get to bed , thanks for the company , enjoy Grin

shabbapinkfrog · 20/01/2012 22:57

Grin no trouble whatsoever - night my friend xx

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MiaAlexandrasmummy · 20/01/2012 23:55

Just home from a night of pizza and alcohol with neighbours, but your own party sound fab, everlong, shabs and tw. FX for no hangovers tomorrow.

I miss my beautiful Mia. I wish she were here. And I know you miss your lovely DCs too. It's all so wrong...

shabbapinkfrog · 21/01/2012 00:11

Miss my lads like it all happened yesterday MiasM. Good night sweetheart xx

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chipmonkey · 21/01/2012 00:39

Mias I have had too much wine and am expecting my darling dh to appear at the door any minute with a kebab! Your pizza sounds far more ladylike!
Feck it, I have said too much on that thread, everlong But oh, how my blood was boiling!

LottieJenkins · 21/01/2012 05:34

Morning Ladies, i coudnt sleep and logged on, this lady looks like she needs some help

Whatevertheweather · 21/01/2012 07:42

Good night ladies? Grin Hope you're not too hungover this morning. Good luck with the party TW

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shabbapinkfrog · 21/01/2012 09:57

Morning girls xx

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hazygirl · 21/01/2012 13:46

afternoon girls,and welcome to all recently starting on this crappy weather,just been to cemetry and its bloody freezing, 2012 not been brillant yet,but live in hope, i know im not posting much now but think of you all constantlyxx