In memory of my beloved Fraser and all our children.Little buds sown on earth to bloom in heaven

[frasersmummy]

A new haven for us all to say exactly what is in our heart or on our minds knowing that everyone understands and wont judge

Lovely thread title. xxxx

fm waves thanks from cornwall. In loving memory of my beloved son Richard missed so much.

xx

Just marking myself as "here" on the new thread. Thanks for starting FM - beautiful title.

Lovely title FM, I think it sums up all our babies and children so well.

Thanks Shabs, I agree about being honest I just don't think I could say the words at the time.

Just received an anniversary card from one of DH's workmates. We're friends with her but not close. She wrote the most beautiful letter along with the card, it was so heartfelt and sincere, it made me cry but I just thought how kind of her. She doesn't have children herself but she was more thoughtful than some friends with kids who I thought could put themselves in our position more easily iykwim. It was also nice to know people are still thinking of us and Malachy as everyone seems to have moved on.

marking my place whilst I lurk

xx

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Not posted for a while sorry!
I found this quote and thought it suitable.......
can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength." - Christopher Reeves

try again....
can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength." - Christopher Reeves

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!
can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength." - Christopher Reeves third time lucky

I give up will try again tomorrow!

Morning girls xx

morning girlsx

lottie let me help you ?Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength.? - Christopher Reeve

Hoping we can all find that strength, thanks Lottie. xx

Thanks Lavandes!!! My copy and paste was playing up! I have had a quiet week this week here in Suffolk as Wilf and his best friend have gone camping near Thetford with some other special needs children all organised by a local group!Ive been thinking of Jack a lot again (more than normal) He would have been going into his last school year in September!

lottie sending hugs. You have had so much to bear over the years, it must have been so difficult for you. Hope Wilf has a great time and you can recharge your batteries. Reading how all you ladies have coped gives me hope for the future. xx

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morning

I've been a bit low lately but I'm a bit brighter today.

Nice to see you lottie.. I've been wondering about you and Wilf.

Minione .. its lovely when someone unexpectedly remembers your child isnt..restores your faith in humanity for a little while

Sassy the feelings of guilt are unfortunately normal too... but please dont let them take you over. Guilt is a terrible emotion that can really drag you down.
Like you say you did everything you could for Catherine- everyone including Catherine knows this

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sassy that says it all. xx

Thanks for such a lovely titles thread FM.

Minione - I understand that the NHS is a huge machine blah blah, but it's just so insenstive to have your appointment on that date. Call/write to them a change the date. The day is going to be hard enough for you anyway, nevermind having to attend the pm.

lavandes - I am very that you saw all of those bands with Richard. What a great son

Am so glad you found the prints Dee, I remember you mentioning that they were lost not that long ago.

It would/will?? be Cole's 4th birthday tomorrow and this time 4 years ago I was going into labour. I feel strangely calm today. I hope that doesn't mean it's the calm before the storm?

xxx

Here's our special and precious list. Please add anything you would like to put on it.

JANUARY

18th January 1998 Sydney's birthday (NinaJane)
20th Jan,1992 Billie's birthday (Chegirl)
28th January 1998 Sydney's remember day (NinaJane)
30th January 1998 Sydney's funeral (NinaJane)

FEBRUARY

28th Feb,2008 Lucia's birthday (Crumpette)

MARCH
4th March 2007 Gregor's birthday (PPM)
11th March 2008, Eris's Birthday & Remember Day (FeedMeNow)
15th March 2009 Gregor's remember day (PPM)
26th March 2008, Noah's Birthday (TheLighthouseKeeper)

APRIL

3rd April,2007 Benjamin's remember day (Charleymouse)
10th April 2002 Georgie's remember day (AtACompleteLoss)
12th April,2009 Lucia's remember day (Crumpette)
13th April, 2005 Fraser's remember day (FMummy)
15th April, 2005 Fraser's birthday (FMummy)
23rd Apirl, 2002 Georgie's funeral (AtACompleteLoss)
27th April, 2006 Billie's remember day (chegirl)

MAY

10th May,1992 Matt's remember day (Shabbs)
24th May,1993 Christina's birthday (B.Butterfly)

JUNE

04th June 2008, Noah's Remember Day (TheLighthouseKeeper)
25th June,1993 Christina's remember day (B.Butterly)
28th June 1987 Matt's birthday (shelleylou)
30th June, 2009 Niamh's birthday and remember day (Woolly Jo)
30th June, 1984 Matt's birthday (Shabbs)

JULY

13th July - Callum's remember day (LittleMissPMeno)
21st July, 1982 Gareth's remember day (Shabbs)
23rd July,2009 Nimah's funeral (Woolly Jo)
29th July, 2008 Caitlin's birthday (Olissa)
30th July. Cole's birthday (Liketomoveit)

AUGUST

3rd August, 2008 Caitlin's remember day (Olissa)
5th August,2009 Felix's birthday and remember day (Tinkerbelle)
8th August - Callum's funeral (LittleMissPMeno)
28th August 2009 - Daisy's brithday and remember day (LunaticFringe)

SEPTEMBER

9th September Ciaran's birthday and remember day (Deemented)
11th September 2009 Daisy's funeral (LunaticFringe)
18th September,2006 Jayden's birthday (Hazygirl)

OCTOBER

1st October - Ciaran's funeral (Deemented)
7th October,2000 Harry's birthday (TWilbury)
19th October 2009 Matt's Remember day (shelleylou)
28th October 2009, Archie's birthday (AbiAbi)

NOVEMBER

6th November 2008 - Oliver's Remember Day (Everlong)
7th November - Cole's remember day (ILiketomoveit)
20th November 1987 - Oliver's Birthday (Everlong)

DECEMBER

1st December,2006 Jayden's remember day (Hazygirl)
2nd December,2001 Harry's remember day (TWilbury)
18th December,2006 Jayden's funeral (Hazygirl)
22nd December,1994 Jack's birthday and remember day (Lottie), Archie's remember day (AbiAbi)
28th December,1981 Gareth's (and Danny's) birthday
31st December 2001 Georgie's birthday (AtACompleteLoss

I can see from the list that it is Orissa's dd Caitlin's birthday today.

I know we haven't see Olissa on here for a while but that won't stop me wishing Caitlin a very happy birthday today. And just incase you are reading this Olissa, I'm thinking of you all today xxx

There's a candle lit for Caitlin here in Welshy Wales x