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AIBU?

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In thinking Mumsnet is not what it was?

381 replies

TurnOutTheLight · 22/03/2010 19:52

I have been a poster here for seven years, my first post was asking for help after a DX on DS1 regarding medication, I was overwhelmed by the amount of people who took the time to respond and give advice and share stories.
I remember there being a lot of jokes and support, one poster who lost family in 9/11 was an inspiration and at any time day or night there was someone about for a chat, it made night feed more fun.

Yes there were times when people "fell out" this is life, and the odd nut job who tried to convince people that 4 times the amount of calpol was safe but on the whole it was a nice place to be, however just lately (mostly since AIBU was added) it seems people are getting really nasty.

No longer can you have a good debate with out the usual stupidness and name calling, if you question immigration there is no debate you just get called racist, people with problems get called troll, the term Jog on is used daily as is daily mail reader, and I ask myself when did this site become a playground with the childish name calling, where are all the grown up, funny, articulate women who you could have a grown up discussions with.

It is so boring seeing the same old faces spouting the same old crap lines.

I guess someone will say if I don't like it leave, and I just might do that as mumsnet is not the place it was

OP posts:
JollyPirate · 22/03/2010 21:24

Am watching Glee (for the first time ever) and now KNOW who SuSylvester is too.

Quattrocento · 22/03/2010 21:27

dp you are being denser than dense Read the thread to find out what question you asked, and read the thread again to find the answer to the question you asked ...

Rockbird · 22/03/2010 21:29

I'm in a bad mood today and probably going to get a slap in a minute.

wukter · 22/03/2010 21:29

i'm thinking captain birdseye

the roguish black sheep of the Clause family

AnyFucker · 22/03/2010 21:29

< hides in corner >

daftpunk · 22/03/2010 21:31
bibbitybobbityhat · 22/03/2010 21:37

OP, I have seen many threads where endlessly patient people are prepared to engage in debates with our more entrenched posters. Particularly on homophobia, racism, extreme right wingism. Don't know how they have the patience, tbh.

YOU SAY IT BEST

... WHEN YOU SAY NOTHIN' AT ALLLLLLLLLL

toldyouso · 22/03/2010 21:39

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MorrisZapp · 22/03/2010 21:40

I agree bibbity. I've posted endless long, thoughtful posts engaging with the DM crew, but all you ever get back are one line answers reiterating their already stated entenched judgement, with no explanation for exactly why they feel that way or how they feel about the alternative pov's.

You end up starting a post earnestly, and midway through you just think, oh sod it.

SpringHeeledJack · 22/03/2010 21:42

at Ronan Keating hijacking thread

I would be proper miffed if he ever invaded my flounce, I tell thee

2shoes · 22/03/2010 21:42

well now we have had the "mn is not what it used to be" thread, does that me tomorrow we will have a P&T one?

toldyouso · 22/03/2010 21:42

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AnyFucker · 22/03/2010 21:43

no, dp

you are fick and must accept it

ooojimaflip · 22/03/2010 21:44

NOTHING is as good as it used to be. This is because you/we are old and jaded.

AnyFucker · 22/03/2010 21:45

yes !!

everything was brilliant in the 1970's !!!

< shows age >

MorrisZapp · 22/03/2010 21:47

Isn't anybody going to link to that 'life cycle of a talk forum' thing from 1993 or whenever?

All forums go like this.

SpringHeeledJack · 22/03/2010 21:48

I watched The Damned United last night, AF, and spent the whole of it carrying on v loudly in that vein

dp was fucking delighted

AnyFucker · 22/03/2010 21:49

oh, are you as old as me then spring ?

OrmRenewed · 22/03/2010 21:53

I am not what I used to be. I am not yet what I will become. And I have no idea what I am at present. Anyone got any idea?

SpringHeeledJack · 22/03/2010 21:55

orm is that a riddle, or are you musing?

AF I should think so, dear. Would you like a mint?

AnyFucker · 22/03/2010 21:55

I would prefer a Werther's

OrmRenewed · 22/03/2010 21:56

Riddle! That was genuine home-spun cod-philoso-bollocks I'll have you know

AnyFucker · 22/03/2010 21:57

dp...you have mail

if you choose to accept it

Quattrocento · 22/03/2010 21:58

Orm, you'll find the answer in Nietzche

OrmRenewed · 22/03/2010 21:59

Bless you!