AIBU to miss my sister's Moroccan wedding with an eight-week-old?

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My Sister is getting married next year abroad in Morocco. I am due to give birth to my 2nd child about 8 weeks before. Our other child is 3yo.

Do you think it would be completely mad of us to go to the wedding with an 8 week old baby who’s only just had their first set of vaccinations?

Then there’s the whole fact we probably will be generally very sleep deprived too.

DH thinks we should just miss it and avoid the stress. I do obviously want to go but maybe it would be too much?

YABU - go to the wedding (with newborn, 3yo and DH)

YANBU - you should stay at home and miss the wedding.

Even if she wasn't breastfeeding, leaving a newborn to go abroad would leave her baby highly distressed without mum.

Personally I’d just say you won’t be coming now. Removes all pressure and any talk of letting them down last minute. You can wish them well and celebrate when they are back in Uk.
Too many variables. If baby 2 weeks late, you need c section etc.

Morocco is not a place to go with a new born baby.

This post nails it.