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AIBU to put out my autumn decorations now?

195 replies

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 18:15

I think I’ll put out my autumn decorations! Has anyone put there’s out yet (for those of you that do!) I’m late I know but I just didn’t feel autumny until this weekend 🤣

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bananaobama · Yesterday 14:27

Oh no hun! I’ve already been down to B&Ms and Home Bargains and bought up the orange plastic wreath and the pumpkin spiced candles

ive bought some nice fluffy throws and it’s all cosy indoors now

oooh and now the pumpkin spiced lattes are back in costas

imanastronaut · Yesterday 14:34

DoleWhipDiva · Yesterday 14:18

And i suppose if you're a superior bitchy type of person you'll always be that type of person too

I’d rather be called bitchy than be the type of person who buys b&m tat

AliasGrape · Yesterday 14:35

imanastronaut · Yesterday 14:34

I’d rather be called bitchy than be the type of person who buys b&m tat

Win win all round then.

Suchevilforebodings · Yesterday 14:36

I put mine out last week. My work did the same

ThisCouldBeTheEndOfEverything · Yesterday 14:38

It’s funny when people go on about tat and consumerism but don’t see how they have also been caught up in consumerism and will have added to landfill themselves.

SkyLark79 · Yesterday 14:44

I’m sorry but having autumn decorations just feels like home bargains/the range have won…. Who needs them? Just buy some lovely candles and wait for Xmas itll
be here soon!

MyManinCaracas · Yesterday 14:50

ExOptimist · Yesterday 13:22

What are you going on about? Which posters do you think were drunk in the middle of the night and what would make you think they were drunk?

I can see several comments around midnight, including OP, none of which appeared to be written by a drunk person. That's not the middle of the night though, presumably they were just about to go to bed.
There were a couple of posts about 4 and 5 am but again, did not appear to be drunk.

I’m “on about” @ExOptimist and her gem of a post at 00:05. Bellend, whether drunk or not.

MyManinCaracas · Yesterday 14:50

imanastronaut · Yesterday 14:34

I’d rather be called bitchy than be the type of person who buys b&m tat

And you are at least one of those.

ExOptimist · Yesterday 14:59

MyManinCaracas · Yesterday 14:50

I’m “on about” @ExOptimist and her gem of a post at 00:05. Bellend, whether drunk or not.

Yes that's me. Midnight isn't "the middle of the night", it's a normal bedtime, I like to have a quick scroll before reading my book, as I'm sure many people do.

As for being drunk, well that's quite funny, as I'm teetotal.

You can call me a bellend if you want but it doesn't affect me or change my opinion about people who succumb to consumerism and buy cheap tat from cheap shops.

DoleWhipDiva · Yesterday 15:13

imanastronaut · Yesterday 14:34

I’d rather be called bitchy than be the type of person who buys b&m tat

sorted then aren't you!

Uricon2 · Yesterday 15:23

When people are describing handmade decorations, adding a few throws and reusing things for years, the sneering about "consumerism" and "tat" is truly exposed for what it is, ie a misjudged attempt to assert social class and intellectual status.

May the Great Pumpkin have mercy on you, meanwhile I'm off to light an autumn candle.

pinck · Yesterday 15:25

itspubnight · 13/09/2026 19:50

I agree with others - it’s just unnecessary Americanised utter tat

If you buy cheap shit, that’s on you. My mom still has fall decorations from when I was a kid and I’m 37, and mine certainly isn’t cheap or “tat.” Calling all seasonal décor disposable junk just because you personally buy bargain-bin crap is not the devastating cultural critique you think it is.

itspubnight · Yesterday 15:41

I didn’t think for a second my comments were a “devasting cultural critique” 😆

Other than Christmas, the trend for seasonal decor is a pointless waste of money of, and let’s face it, 9 times out of 10 it is cheap tat.

lockinsideout · Yesterday 18:19

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · Yesterday 12:55

It’s been new since the shops realised that they could import vast amounts of autumnal-coloured tat from China, and people would be keen to buy it.

Basically this. It is new, at least in uk and Ireland, and led by shops

MagratsDanglyCharms21 · Yesterday 19:34

Seethethingis · Yesterday 14:20

Me! I buy the plastic autumn landfill tat! Not very much mind you and I’ve kept it out of landfill for years so I suppose it’s just tat for now.
I did treat myself to some new burnt orange tapered candles from Primark this year, because I’m the uneducated spawn of the devil apparently but ho hum, they look nice so… 🖕🏻🍂🎃🕯️

Given the media warnings of the impending apocalyse (or maybe a crap winter), having a few extra candles around is just practical innit! If the power goes out, nobody is going to say, "I refuse to have the room lit by those autumnal candles!" Blow them out and let me sit in darkness!"

Chipsahoy · Yesterday 19:40

We’ve had autumn decorations for years. I bought them in America (we are American British family) before my oldest was born. He’s an adult now. I’ve added some home knit pumpkins over the years and have some candles I bring out each year too.
I also have an autumn wreath. Then I add home grown gourds and pumpkins. None of this will be done until closer to end of September and will be added gradually I’d imagine. I enjoy changing the home for autumn.

MagratsDanglyCharms21 · Yesterday 19:46

Chipsahoy · Yesterday 19:40

We’ve had autumn decorations for years. I bought them in America (we are American British family) before my oldest was born. He’s an adult now. I’ve added some home knit pumpkins over the years and have some candles I bring out each year too.
I also have an autumn wreath. Then I add home grown gourds and pumpkins. None of this will be done until closer to end of September and will be added gradually I’d imagine. I enjoy changing the home for autumn.

I kept a pumpkin in my kitchen once. It wasn't decoration; I bought it to make a pumpkin pie. However, I'd never made a pumpkin pie so I kept putting it off. It turns out, pumpkins are a 'high risk' item. I came down one morning to find it had exploded all over my kitchen. I shit you not. Pumpkin innards draping off all surfaces, like bloody intestines. It would have been seasonal but it was well past Hallow'een / Samhain / Calan Gaeaf by that point. Never again.

BMW58 · Yesterday 20:46

aLFIESMA · Yesterday 10:30

I'm knocking on 70 too and I've always decorated for the season - at the moment pinecone garlands, autumnal branches, bunches of wheat ,knitted pumpkins and handmade bunting. Gourds and squashes when the time comes and lots of fairy lights & candles, it's lovely.
I'm going to try and make a corn dolly next Grin
I like a pumpkin spice latte in my local coffee shop too.

You cannot be in the UK

matrixes · Yesterday 20:59

MagratsDanglyCharms21 · Yesterday 19:46

I kept a pumpkin in my kitchen once. It wasn't decoration; I bought it to make a pumpkin pie. However, I'd never made a pumpkin pie so I kept putting it off. It turns out, pumpkins are a 'high risk' item. I came down one morning to find it had exploded all over my kitchen. I shit you not. Pumpkin innards draping off all surfaces, like bloody intestines. It would have been seasonal but it was well past Hallow'een / Samhain / Calan Gaeaf by that point. Never again.

😱😆

whatcanthematterbe81 · Yesterday 23:11

Wow, some proper nasty women on here. Imagine being like that. How sad to be bitching about what other people do in their homes. Gross

Neuronimo · Yesterday 23:16

Yes you may and please also use the term 'Ber months' to further enrage those that scoff at such trifles. Have a pumpkin spiced latte and they will positively froth!

TheBirdintheCave · Yesterday 23:19

5289843DM · 13/09/2026 18:25

The astronomical calendar doesn't start till 23 Sep, so I'd wait till to least then.
What exactly do you want to put up OP? Do you mean outside the house or inside? 🤷‍♀️

Yep! Still a week of summer left! :)

Neuronimo · Yesterday 23:25

St Eval have brought out a new candle called sacred forest I am dying to try. It was 24 degrees here at 10pm so I might have to wait a week or two. We have turned on the twinkle lights though.

ImmortalNowBabyDoll · Yesterday 23:28

God people are bloody miserable. I suppose they decorate their homes only with handwoven hemp curtains made by monks in the early 1800s and consider throw pillows frivolous.

We've bought some autumnal candles and DD6 and I will start making pretty autumn things over the next few weeks. And I will really horrify the puritans now- I've made her a Boo Basket full of books, craft activities and cosy PJs. Sorry not sorry.

Ijwwm · Today 01:35

When I saw the thread title, I knew it would be full of sneering 😂.

My autumn switchover usually happens between end of September and end of October - depends on when I can be arsed!

Two lots of curtains in living room and one lot in my bedroom get swapped over - duck egg blue for spring/summer, red and cream for autumn/winter. And same for cushions in living room. My bedding tends to change colour as well. Plus a garland over my inglenook fireplace goes from spring flowers to autumn leaves.

It’s an easy way to switch up the feel of the room without to much effort. Same curtains, cushion covers, garlands used for years here.

And not sure why people are being so judgy about celebrating the change of seasons - it’s woven through our history that seasonal changes were celebrated.