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AIBU to put out my autumn decorations now?

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Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 18:15

I think I’ll put out my autumn decorations! Has anyone put there’s out yet (for those of you that do!) I’m late I know but I just didn’t feel autumny until this weekend 🤣

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ChocolateApples · Yesterday 12:22

Castletickedoff · 13/09/2026 18:24

Cue the sanctimonious comments from people who know perfectly well what autumn decor is 🙄
I haven’t yet OP, probably will the last week of September.

I just have a few pumpkin candles leftover from last year I’ll be bringing back out and some cosy throws with autumn designs on. It doesn’t have to be extravagant and new items each year for landfill as no doubt some horrified posters will be coming on here to say next!

I'm just appalled OP isn't painting her front door afresh for each season like I saw on Instagram.

imanastronaut · Yesterday 12:23

Kitchenbattle · Yesterday 11:53

@imanastronaut ok…do you not decorate your house at all? It must be lovely to be able to absolve yourself of any contribution towards landfill in this world (nigh on impossible I would say though…)

I’ve been using the same Christmas decorations since the 90s. It’s just tacky and classless. Do you need pumpkins to remind you it’s September?! Really?!

ListenToYourSong · Yesterday 12:25

imanastronaut · Yesterday 12:23

I’ve been using the same Christmas decorations since the 90s. It’s just tacky and classless. Do you need pumpkins to remind you it’s September?! Really?!

I’m sure you’ve put plenty in landfill in your time.

OP, Autumn is my favourite season and we always decorate the house for it. We did it over the weekend and it looks lovely.

Kitchenbattle · Yesterday 12:39

imanastronaut · Yesterday 12:23

I’ve been using the same Christmas decorations since the 90s. It’s just tacky and classless. Do you need pumpkins to remind you it’s September?! Really?!

Do you need Christmas decorations? Does anyone really NEED any decor In their house?

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IamEarthymama · Yesterday 12:46

I try to live in tune with the seasons, making the most of a connection with Earth, following the Wheel of The Year. I know that makes me sounds wanky on MN these days but I really don't care.
My decorations are very much based on the Nature Table from my infants school when we were encouraged to bring in things we found or that grew in the garden. I've never really stopped doing this!
20 years ago a dear friend bought us beautiful hand sewn pumpkins and it's a joy to bring them out each year.
It has felt Autumnal here in South Wales for a few weeks now and I've needed a blanket across my lap on the last few evenings.
OP enjoy your Autumn decorations, don't be put off by professional misery guts on here!
I might treat myself to a current copy of Country Living, I'm sure the items recommended therein will meet the criteria of those who would never be seen in Home Bargains!

Here's what the British Pilgrimage Trust has to say about Manon also known as the Autumn Equinox.

Celebrating Mabon at home: feasts and traditions
Here are some simple ways to bring Mabon into your life, drawing inspiration from ancient harvest traditions and modern pagan practices:
Hosting a meal for friends or family: a beautiful way to mark the season and reflect on the themes of balance and gratitude. Include seasonal fruits and vegetables such as apples, squash, pumpkins, and root vegetables, which symbolise the earth’s bounty. Apples, in particular, are significant for Mabon, representing the Cornucopia, or Horn of Plenty, a symbol of abundance.
Create an altar: Set up a simple altar at home with autumnal items like leaves, nuts, berries, and candles. This can serve as a focal point for your thoughts on gratitude and letting go.
Acts of charity: Mabon is also a time to think of those less fortunate. Donating to food banks or volunteering in your community connects you to the traditional spirit of sharing the harvest.
Mindfulness and meditation: Use the Equinox to meditate on balance and transition. Focus on the changes in nature and how they reflect your own life’s cycles.
HTH ☺️🍄🍂🍁🐿️🧙🏻‍♀️

SabreIsMyFave · Yesterday 12:50

ChocolateApples · Yesterday 12:22

I'm just appalled OP isn't painting her front door afresh for each season like I saw on Instagram.

Do people really paint their front door? 😆

SabreIsMyFave · Yesterday 12:51

@IamEarthymama I love all of that! 😘

Kitchenbattle · Yesterday 12:51

SabreIsMyFave · Yesterday 12:50

Do people really paint their front door? 😆

I don’t paint it but an add a seasonal wreath. 🙌🙌

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SabreIsMyFave · Yesterday 12:54

Kitchenbattle · Yesterday 12:51

I don’t paint it but an add a seasonal wreath. 🙌🙌

Me too. 😘 I still have the summery one with pink and lilac flowers, but it just says 'welcome' on it, not anything to do with summer. I will be putting the Autumn wreath on the front door around 24 Sept, (with the rest of the autumn decor,) and a smaller one on the side door. Smile

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · Yesterday 12:55

ginasevern · 13/09/2026 18:36

I've never had autumn decorations. Maybe something autumnal in a vase from the garden but that's about it. Is this a newish thing?

It’s been new since the shops realised that they could import vast amounts of autumnal-coloured tat from China, and people would be keen to buy it.

Bridang · Yesterday 13:11

My inner snob feels this is tacky. Whilst I will
never do autumn decorations, I reckon some tasteful examples must exist. I will go google.

Bridang · Yesterday 13:12

Hmm, back from a brief google. The autumn decor images are all a bit too ‘country cottage’ and twee for me. Each to their own, as they say.

hourglass2 · Yesterday 13:16

Keymoment · 13/09/2026 18:16

It’s hardly autumn surely, so you can’t be late. I think it would be weird in this warm weather

September October and November are Autumn..

imanastronaut · Yesterday 13:20

Kitchenbattle · Yesterday 12:39

Do you need Christmas decorations? Does anyone really NEED any decor In their house?

I mean there’s a difference between Christmas and “autumn decor”

ExOptimist · Yesterday 13:22

MyManinCaracas · Yesterday 11:04

I’d rather be a tacky American than a drunk middle class English snob, posting on MN in the middle of the night. Many of these comments are utterly disgraceful.

What are you going on about? Which posters do you think were drunk in the middle of the night and what would make you think they were drunk?

I can see several comments around midnight, including OP, none of which appeared to be written by a drunk person. That's not the middle of the night though, presumably they were just about to go to bed.
There were a couple of posts about 4 and 5 am but again, did not appear to be drunk.

hourglass2 · Yesterday 13:31

ListenToYourSong · Yesterday 12:25

I’m sure you’ve put plenty in landfill in your time.

OP, Autumn is my favourite season and we always decorate the house for it. We did it over the weekend and it looks lovely.

Edited

I love Autumn too, I've got a wreath for the front door and some apple and cinnamon candles for the evening...I love all the seasons though.

AllaMova · Yesterday 13:37

Floatlikeafeather2 · Yesterday 10:23

For some reason I heard and saw Katherine Hepburn when I read that!

When I read that comment, I thought of Tallulah Bankhead.

I have a small collection of Autumn decorations too, OP. I have a wreath and a pumpkin garland to drape over the mantlepiece. We re-use the same ones every year.

On Halloween, we like to carve a pumpkin to display in the window for the Trick o Treaters. 😊

I’m hoping to put mine out this weekend, if that helps? I don’t think you’re too late at all.

(I’m sorry that there are some very nasty comments on this thread.)

ThisCouldBeTheEndOfEverything · Yesterday 13:38

We put our autumn decorations up yesterday and the house looks so welcoming. I bloody love Autumn! We will add to the decorations for Halloween. 🎃 🍂

Purplebunnie · Yesterday 14:01

I decorate for autumn. Decorations are wooden or actually gleaned from the countryside, you know acorns, conkers and fir cones I find on a walk and throw in a bowl, sometimes chuck some colourful leaves in there as well.

AliasGrape · Yesterday 14:09

I'd rather be a tacky, pony tail sporting, Primark shopping povvo than a prick who gets pleasure from being insulting to strangers online. I'd even rather be .... gasp ... American.

When I lived and worked in New England, I actually really came to love the way every season and event was seen as something to celebrate. Yes, there's awful consumerism in there too, but honestly I found it joyful in lots of ways. You'd be surprised how much fun you can have when you're not being a nasty, judgy cow looking down your nose at someone else's pine cones or pretending you couldn't possibly work out what the words 'Autumn' and 'decorations' might mean when placed next to each other.

I wasn't going to add anything to ours this year, but I can feel a trip to B&M coming on now, I've been inspired.

piscofrisco · Yesterday 14:10

My Dh actually requested I put ours up yesterday. I am going to do it on Wednesday .

MagratsDanglyCharms21 · Yesterday 14:14

Well well. You live and learn. I mean, each to their own, but I had never heard of this as a 'thing'. As IAmEarthyMama said above, there are festivals of the year, and yes, I have decorated the altar for the festivals, but then moved the tributes , decor and libation outdoors, but that is just for the festival. I can see that it seems as if it may come from Germany originally, which would be why it is totally normal for some and anathema for others. Isn't culture interesting. Yes, it does sound as though there is some commercial manipulation going on as well, but if most are saying that they avoid that, use natural or handmade stuff, and it doesn't bother anyone, then have at it!

I shall not be joining in until mainly Calan Gaeaf however, with a small altar nod at the equinox. I also wonder who does buy the plastic tat that everyone is mentioning too! Clearly not Mumsnetters by this sample.

DoleWhipDiva · Yesterday 14:18

imanastronaut · Yesterday 10:33

I suppose if you’re that type of person you’ll always be that type of person

And i suppose if you're a superior bitchy type of person you'll always be that type of person too

Seethethingis · Yesterday 14:20

Me! I buy the plastic autumn landfill tat! Not very much mind you and I’ve kept it out of landfill for years so I suppose it’s just tat for now.
I did treat myself to some new burnt orange tapered candles from Primark this year, because I’m the uneducated spawn of the devil apparently but ho hum, they look nice so… 🖕🏻🍂🎃🕯️

Purplebunnie · Yesterday 14:24

@MagratsDanglyCharms21 my ex neighbour spent many years in Germany and indoctrinated me into the seasonal decorating. My DD's used to love popping next door over Christmas - her house was so beautiful and nothing tacky she has exceptional taste. Halloween was also sublime.

"Ex" as we've both moved away from where we used to live. Loved going round the garden centres together looking for stuff. Must give her a call

edited for a missing word