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AIBU to put out my autumn decorations now?

175 replies

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 18:15

I think I’ll put out my autumn decorations! Has anyone put there’s out yet (for those of you that do!) I’m late I know but I just didn’t feel autumny until this weekend 🤣

OP posts:
HoppityBun · 13/09/2026 21:01

lockinsideout · 13/09/2026 20:59

Yes buying shite for the sake of buying shite

Preferably coloured plastic shite.

YourAmberExpert · 13/09/2026 21:03

Excellentsausages · 13/09/2026 19:19

A series of classical (largely) musical concerts held every summer at the Royal Albert Hall in London. Really varied programmes. If you're in London over the summer they are good fun. You get hardcore 'prommers' who are audience members who queue (or these days buy online) for cheap standing tickets and are quite vocal.

It culminates in the Last Night where a professional singers sings Rule Britannia amongst other things, and the prommers dance along. If you search on YouTube for Susan Bullock's Rule Brittania performance where she's dressed in an armour thing that will give you an idea.

🤢

MajorSamanthaCarter · 13/09/2026 21:33

RikthePoet · 13/09/2026 20:59

I mean, that is tat. Handmade tat, maybe, but tat no less.

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One man's tat is another man's go duck yourself 🤷‍♀️

Anonomoso · 13/09/2026 22:58

Next week mine will go out. Just a few bits to brighten up the dark nights drawing in, but nothing that resembles anything to do with Halloween.

Zfactorstar · 13/09/2026 23:18

Middle of September is a perfectly acceptable time to set out fall decorations. I'm already getting my Halloween decorations ready but I've been told that I have to wait until October because my family are no fun killjoys.

matrixes · 13/09/2026 23:27

Abouteffingtime · 13/09/2026 18:27

I dont think its late is it? I put autumn bedding on last week

As for landfill 'tat' not that either. Mosyly woiden decorations, dried flower/foliage, felted etc that I have either made or bought from crafters, and had for over a decade....

No one ever confesses to buying the landfill tat!

matrixes · 13/09/2026 23:29

As far as I’m concerned: Autumn starts at the beginning of August-you can see it in the trees and the harvests

What?!

isitfridayyetttt · 13/09/2026 23:35

RikthePoet · 13/09/2026 20:59

I mean, that is tat. Handmade tat, maybe, but tat no less.

Edited

ouch 😂

BiteSizeByzantine · 13/09/2026 23:38

HoppityBun · 13/09/2026 21:00

As far as I’m concerned:

Autumn starts at the beginning of August-you can see it in the trees and the harvests.

Winter starts at the beginning of November.

Spring starts at the beginning of February with the first crocuses and bulb shoots.

Summer starts, traditionally, on May Day.

it’s the equinox in a weeks time!

You must be from my timeline where Autumn is August, September, October!

BMW58 · 13/09/2026 23:38

Well I'm knocking on 70 and have never, EVER, seen any "Autumn Decorations" nor have I ever heard family, friends, colleagues or anyone refer to putting some up!

It does sound like an American Import. Fuck that.

ExOptimist · 13/09/2026 23:46

BMW58 · 13/09/2026 23:38

Well I'm knocking on 70 and have never, EVER, seen any "Autumn Decorations" nor have I ever heard family, friends, colleagues or anyone refer to putting some up!

It does sound like an American Import. Fuck that.

Quite. Never known anyone do this in real life, the only place I've seen it mentioned was about a week ago on here.

I think it must be a certain demographic that does it.

It wouldn't be bad if they were decorating using locally sourced real foliage, flowers and fruit, at least those could be composted afterwards. But that doesn't seem to be what they do.

jezlifecoach · 13/09/2026 23:50

And what demographic would that be?

Floatlikeafeather2 · 13/09/2026 23:53

BMW58 · 13/09/2026 18:17

WTF are "Autumn decorations"????

Tat but mainly orange and brown tat.

RunningForCalm · Yesterday 00:00

Zfactorstar · 13/09/2026 23:18

Middle of September is a perfectly acceptable time to set out fall decorations. I'm already getting my Halloween decorations ready but I've been told that I have to wait until October because my family are no fun killjoys.

“Fall”? Please tell me you’re American.

Zfactorstar · Yesterday 00:04

RunningForCalm · Yesterday 00:00

“Fall”? Please tell me you’re American.

Yeah I am, and what's the problem? Is there something wrong with having fun and adding color to your day?

ExOptimist · Yesterday 00:05

jezlifecoach · 13/09/2026 23:50

And what demographic would that be?

Working class, not well educated, low cultural capital, relatively low pay, shops at Primark, B&M etc, likes to buy tat to get the dopamine hit, changes decor frequently and succumbs to all the latest trends flogged on social media, probably wears lots of make up, scrapes their hair back into a ponytail, wears those nude coloured up the bum leggings for everyday wear, that type of person.

Kitchenbattle · Yesterday 00:14

ExOptimist · Yesterday 00:05

Working class, not well educated, low cultural capital, relatively low pay, shops at Primark, B&M etc, likes to buy tat to get the dopamine hit, changes decor frequently and succumbs to all the latest trends flogged on social media, probably wears lots of make up, scrapes their hair back into a ponytail, wears those nude coloured up the bum leggings for everyday wear, that type of person.

This is not me at all so not just a certain demographic…sorry

OP posts:
Wetleggg · Yesterday 00:28

I couldn’t be bothered last year and we all ended up missing the pre Halloween transition and taking the autumn inside. I think I’ll mark the changing season again this year -I like to get creative and mix in seed heads and real dried sycamore leaves, hazelnuts and branches. Thanks for reminding me OP! I think it’s more of an elemental ritual than a US import ( that never crossed my mind & been doing it for donkeys) contrary to the snobbery in the responses to OP.

2Rebecca · Yesterday 00:29

I had never heard of them. I am trying to declutter atm though so seasonal tatt doesn’t appeal

DoubleDoubleDown · Yesterday 04:18

Do it. I love a bit of seasonal decor to brighten the place up. I went to my local Michael's today (craft store). They had the most amazing Halloween trees, yep full on black trees with Halloween decorations. I really want one but DH said no :( So pumpkins and candles it is. 🎃

BooksandSlippers · Yesterday 05:12

ExOptimist · Yesterday 00:05

Working class, not well educated, low cultural capital, relatively low pay, shops at Primark, B&M etc, likes to buy tat to get the dopamine hit, changes decor frequently and succumbs to all the latest trends flogged on social media, probably wears lots of make up, scrapes their hair back into a ponytail, wears those nude coloured up the bum leggings for everyday wear, that type of person.

To be fair, this post doesn't exactly show your 'well educated' side.

I'm afraid I shop at Primark on occasion, finding the things I choose to be of a decent, lasting quality and I do put my hair in a ponytail at times.

Interestingly, seasonal decorating in Germany is very traditional and has been for generations. My mother has a small box for Easter/Autumn from when they lived there which still comes out year after year.

I can't stand the colour orange so don't do Autumnal decorating, though the flames of the log burner will look very cosy so that will do for me.

DoleWhipDiva · Yesterday 06:44

i put mine out yesterday as it was cold and o wanted some extra cosiness i have an autumn leaf foliage garland that goes over my mantle with some warm fairy lights, and some wraught iron pumpkins that go in my fireplace with some orange dried flowers. they swap out some summer candles and plants. The fun sponges can sue me - i like having some seasonal decor in my front room (and have had the same stuff for years so am not "adding to landfill").

Nofeckingway · Yesterday 06:51

MyManinCaracas · 13/09/2026 19:58

I’m thinking about having a grabby “Autumn Decor-themed” baby shower just to piss ya’ll off.

😂😂😂

Sartre · Yesterday 06:54

Go for it. Switched to my autumn wreath last week. It isn’t landfill tat either, I have a wreath per season and use them each year. Ditto Halloween, Christmas and Easter decor.

Iocanepowder · Yesterday 06:58

It’s 25c degree here today, so not quite yet! Don’t see much of that stuff around here though until Halloween.