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AIBU to put out my autumn decorations now?

195 replies

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 18:15

I think I’ll put out my autumn decorations! Has anyone put there’s out yet (for those of you that do!) I’m late I know but I just didn’t feel autumny until this weekend 🤣

OP posts:
imanastronaut · Yesterday 07:00

YABVU to have autumn decorations at all. It’s not an occasion, it’s a season.

DoleWhipDiva · Yesterday 07:10

imanastronaut · Yesterday 07:00

YABVU to have autumn decorations at all. It’s not an occasion, it’s a season.

so what's wrong with having a few seasonal decorations? if it brings a person some joy?

Cantyouseethishorselovesme · Yesterday 07:13

I occasionally visit a hospital at the bottom of a very steep hill, and halfway down, at this time of year, there's a house with Autumn decorations in the front garden. There are leaf garlands wound through the picket fence with red, brown and golden leaves, and the same colours of fairy lights intertwined with them. The lady who lives there makes it look so beautiful, and it cheers me up to see it. I think you'd be fine putting them up now, OP.

Kitchenbattle · Yesterday 07:45

imanastronaut · Yesterday 07:00

YABVU to have autumn decorations at all. It’s not an occasion, it’s a season.

I’m well aware it’s a season…What’s wrong with celebrating a season?

OP posts:
Stompythedinosaur · Yesterday 07:54

It isn't hurting anyone so you should do what brings you joy!

Randomchat · Yesterday 08:00

I don't feel autumnal yet so I'm waiting a bit. Start of October for me probably

BEAchDays2 · Yesterday 08:05

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 19:27

It’s funny that those of you who are aghast at the idea of autumn decorations se to know where to buy some…although I don’t have a b&m here (I’m not in England)

It’s not really funny, if you go into the home bargains to get anything, it sells everything like cleaning stuff, food, hygiene products, medicines… They have around three aisles full of autumn tat, stuff like little pumpkins, things with writing on, doormat with autumn leaves on, autumn wreaths, Garlands, that kind of thing. You can’t avoid seeing it. Any of those big cheap shops are the same, Isles of plastic stuff.

MajorSamanthaCarter · Yesterday 08:07

isitfridayyetttt · 13/09/2026 23:35

ouch 😂

Do you think she meant to be so rude?

MajorSamanthaCarter · Yesterday 08:08

ExOptimist · Yesterday 00:05

Working class, not well educated, low cultural capital, relatively low pay, shops at Primark, B&M etc, likes to buy tat to get the dopamine hit, changes decor frequently and succumbs to all the latest trends flogged on social media, probably wears lots of make up, scrapes their hair back into a ponytail, wears those nude coloured up the bum leggings for everyday wear, that type of person.

Wow, are you spying on me?

Agatha1989 · Yesterday 08:13

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 19:27

It’s funny that those of you who are aghast at the idea of autumn decorations se to know where to buy some…although I don’t have a b&m here (I’m not in England)

Yes, the mention of plastic tat from cheap shops made
me laugh. I have autumnal decorations going back to when the children were tiny (now all in their 30s), mostly hand made or bought from charity shops and craft sales. I have an autumn heart rug and autumn cushion covers, they come out every year. The only ‘new’ thing I buy is a fresh pumpkin for carving on Halloween 🎃

isitfridayyetttt · Yesterday 08:16

Agatha1989 · Yesterday 08:13

Yes, the mention of plastic tat from cheap shops made
me laugh. I have autumnal decorations going back to when the children were tiny (now all in their 30s), mostly hand made or bought from charity shops and craft sales. I have an autumn heart rug and autumn cushion covers, they come out every year. The only ‘new’ thing I buy is a fresh pumpkin for carving on Halloween 🎃

Reminds me of my husbands aunt. She brings the same old dirty/tatty decs out year on year. Sometimes less is more.

LlynTegid · Yesterday 08:29

Wait until the autumn equinox. Hope these are used every year not cheap tat used only a couple of times and then going to a tip.

Morecoffeeneedef · Yesterday 08:32

ginasevern · 13/09/2026 18:36

I've never had autumn decorations. Maybe something autumnal in a vase from the garden but that's about it. Is this a newish thing?

I think it's been around in America for a long time and has crossed the Atlantic .

Kitchenbattle · Yesterday 08:51

Well none of mine is plastic or from those stores

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SleeplessRoads · Yesterday 08:58

If I accept autumn decorations as a thing… the weather is (even where I am in the north) mild enough to not need a warm coat, the leaves are still green on the trees and I’m keeping my garden furniture out in hope of one more dry weekend.

It feels far too early to be looking at pumpkins! Late September is the start of autumn in my book (and maybe even the start of October if I can eke a few extra weeks out of summer!)

goingtotown · Yesterday 09:03

I’ve never decorated my home with Autumn tat.

thinkfast · Yesterday 09:04

Cringe

Kitchenbattle · Yesterday 09:06

goingtotown · Yesterday 09:03

I’ve never decorated my home with Autumn tat.

Neither have I as I do t use “tat”…

OP posts:
FannybygaslightinGovan · Yesterday 09:06

ExOptimist · Yesterday 00:05

Working class, not well educated, low cultural capital, relatively low pay, shops at Primark, B&M etc, likes to buy tat to get the dopamine hit, changes decor frequently and succumbs to all the latest trends flogged on social media, probably wears lots of make up, scrapes their hair back into a ponytail, wears those nude coloured up the bum leggings for everyday wear, that type of person.

My goodness, what a horrid and judgemental post.

TooLateForAnything · Yesterday 09:11

We put ours up last week, lights inside and out, garlands, wreaths, candles, cushions, blankets, bedding and ornaments, 🍂

We have had an awful year and this brings a bit of joy.

MajorSamanthaCarter · Yesterday 09:15

You know I don't actually disagree that we should all be buying less and buying more intentionally.
What I do disagree with is the horrible, bitchy comments about tat and only impoverished thickos decorating for different seasons and occasions. All the head tilting "what's Autumn OP, never heard of it" crap.
You're not going to change anyone's mind by being a dick.

Thebinisrightthere · Yesterday 09:22

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 18:31

I don’t put too much around to be honest. Just these and then an autumn wreath (which I have ordered and is en route) and then I top it up with a more Halloween feel in late Oct

Blimey, a few little pumpkins & a wreath. If that's the extent of your autumn decorations it's hardly worth asking if it's ok to put them out. Just go ahead if that's what you want. (And why wouldn't you put out your autumn decs if it is indeed autumn?)

pasanda · Yesterday 09:27

TooLateForAnything · Yesterday 09:11

We put ours up last week, lights inside and out, garlands, wreaths, candles, cushions, blankets, bedding and ornaments, 🍂

We have had an awful year and this brings a bit of joy.

Good for you 😊
I am sooo glad I am not a spiteful, judgemental twat.

Everyone is different and different things make people happy.

pasanda · Yesterday 09:28

MajorSamanthaCarter · Yesterday 09:15

You know I don't actually disagree that we should all be buying less and buying more intentionally.
What I do disagree with is the horrible, bitchy comments about tat and only impoverished thickos decorating for different seasons and occasions. All the head tilting "what's Autumn OP, never heard of it" crap.
You're not going to change anyone's mind by being a dick.

I could not agree more

RunningForCalm · Yesterday 09:37

Zfactorstar · Yesterday 00:04

Yeah I am, and what's the problem? Is there something wrong with having fun and adding color to your day?

No problem if you’re American. Brits don’t say “Fall”. If you’d been British and used that word I’d despair at the impact social media is having on our culture. ‘Seasonal decorations’ are bad enough (again, no problem if you’re American). I’m half-expecting Brits to start celebrating Thanksgiving at some point so a pumpkin-pie photo can be uploaded alongside shiny smiley lip-glossed faces.