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AIBU to put out my autumn decorations now?

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Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 18:15

I think I’ll put out my autumn decorations! Has anyone put there’s out yet (for those of you that do!) I’m late I know but I just didn’t feel autumny until this weekend 🤣

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DrCoconut · 13/09/2026 18:52

Steady on, last night of the proms was only yesterday! It's a kind of unofficial transition from summer into (crappy) autumn in our house.

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 18:54

DrCoconut · 13/09/2026 18:52

Steady on, last night of the proms was only yesterday! It's a kind of unofficial transition from summer into (crappy) autumn in our house.

What is the proms?

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AliasGrape · 13/09/2026 18:54

I have an autumn leaf garland that my crafty MIL made, which we put on the fireplace and I put it up the other day because we’re going through the garage ahead of having some work done and I came across it. I’ve had candles lit the last few evenings but they’re either plain or a more summery fragrance - I can’t use anything too scented as it gives me a headache but if I come across anything more autumnal/ wintery that isn’t too strong I’ll probably swap those in as the current ones run out.

I’ve also got a ceramic toadstool and pumpkin that to be honest they sit on the bookshelf all year but I might push them to a slightly more prominent position now! And when I get flowers for the dining room I’ll probably go for a more seasonal type too.

We’ll put more up in October in the run up to Halloween and we will buy and carve pumpkins.

I actually still have a spring wreath on the door (MIL again) we put up at Easter and it’s so pretty I haven’t wanted to take it down but I probably should.

I like decorating for the different events and seasons, it makes me feel cheerful and DD loves it, so I really don’t care what others think. I don’t post pictures on social media of our home, and I definitely don’t think what we do is particularly instagram worthy but we like it. We’ve reused the same stuff since DD was tiny. I don’t agree with a massive home bargains haul, with themed pyjamas to match, every time the month changes just for the sake of it, but I think it’s fine to have a few special things that you reuse if they add to your enjoyment of your home.

BooksandSlippers · 13/09/2026 19:03

squashyhat · 13/09/2026 18:46

I'm going to leave it until the first firing of the woodburner (cue even more MN frothing) Grin

Our fresh log order should arrive this week, I can't wait to get ours lit.

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 19:06

I do miss a fire at this time of year. We have none. I don’t miss cleaning it out though!

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SeriousTissues · 13/09/2026 19:09

Mine are out. Definitely feeling autumnal. Temperature has dropped.

LemonLass · 13/09/2026 19:10

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 18:15

I think I’ll put out my autumn decorations! Has anyone put there’s out yet (for those of you that do!) I’m late I know but I just didn’t feel autumny until this weekend 🤣

Hi @Kitchenbattle
What do you usually do?

MajorSamanthaCarter · 13/09/2026 19:11

LemonLass · 13/09/2026 19:10

Hi @Kitchenbattle
What do you usually do?

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Wut?

Ralstan · 13/09/2026 19:12

Wtaf are autumn decorations. Just weird

Excellentsausages · 13/09/2026 19:19

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 18:54

What is the proms?

A series of classical (largely) musical concerts held every summer at the Royal Albert Hall in London. Really varied programmes. If you're in London over the summer they are good fun. You get hardcore 'prommers' who are audience members who queue (or these days buy online) for cheap standing tickets and are quite vocal.

It culminates in the Last Night where a professional singers sings Rule Britannia amongst other things, and the prommers dance along. If you search on YouTube for Susan Bullock's Rule Brittania performance where she's dressed in an armour thing that will give you an idea.

OneOpalOwl · 13/09/2026 19:19

I bought a small glass pumpkin from Tesco today and I think it’s very cute, I might buy another one. I’ve also got my candle warmer on and a new candle going so I’m feeling autumnal! It has been quite warm here in the highlands the last few days but it’s to get colder again so I’m not worried about it being too early.

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 19:20

Ralstan · 13/09/2026 19:12

Wtaf are autumn decorations. Just weird

I can definitely think of weirder things…🤣

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WingnutSOS · 13/09/2026 19:24

Autumn decorations? What in the B&M Home Bargains Pumpkin spice plastic hell is this then?

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 19:27

It’s funny that those of you who are aghast at the idea of autumn decorations se to know where to buy some…although I don’t have a b&m here (I’m not in England)

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BeeDavis · 13/09/2026 19:39

There really are some miserable bastards in this world, aren’t there!! Don’t mine me just off to light my spiced pomegranate candle and admire my lovely autumn decor, could not give a shiny shit whether anyone despises the idea of it ☺️☺️☺️☺️

itspubnight · 13/09/2026 19:50

I agree with others - it’s just unnecessary Americanised utter tat

MyManinCaracas · 13/09/2026 19:58

I’m thinking about having a grabby “Autumn Decor-themed” baby shower just to piss ya’ll off.

Millytante · 13/09/2026 20:49

‘Autumn decorations’?!

MagratsDanglyCharms21 · 13/09/2026 20:54

Castletickedoff · 13/09/2026 18:24

Cue the sanctimonious comments from people who know perfectly well what autumn decor is 🙄
I haven’t yet OP, probably will the last week of September.

I just have a few pumpkin candles leftover from last year I’ll be bringing back out and some cosy throws with autumn designs on. It doesn’t have to be extravagant and new items each year for landfill as no doubt some horrified posters will be coming on here to say next!

Genuinely never heard of autumn decorations in a 'home' sense. I mean I've created shop windows with an autumn theme, but thats it. I am in my 50s. Is it a newer thing that has passed me by? Not even being facetious here.... genuinely mystified!

RikthePoet · 13/09/2026 20:56

mondaytosunday · 13/09/2026 18:21

Im going tomorrow to storage to dug them out (was going to do it a couple days ago. It may be warm early thus week but will drop to the teens by the end. I’m taking my DD back to uni next weekend and the Christmas decs will be up when she gets back so want her to see them .
As to those who are going ‘autumn decorations?!’, I mean I’ll replace the summer bunting across the glass wall overlooking the garden with a autumn foliage garland, I have a matching one for the mantle. I have an autumnal wreath for the door and in October will get some pumpkins (that I’ll carve for Halloween) to put on the front steps. Looks lovely and with candles added to the mantle very cosy.

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Classy.

RikthePoet · 13/09/2026 20:56

MagratsDanglyCharms21 · 13/09/2026 20:54

Genuinely never heard of autumn decorations in a 'home' sense. I mean I've created shop windows with an autumn theme, but thats it. I am in my 50s. Is it a newer thing that has passed me by? Not even being facetious here.... genuinely mystified!

Mental USA-inspired QVC consumerist nonsense.

RikthePoet · 13/09/2026 20:58

Kitchenbattle · 13/09/2026 18:34

Yeah mine is definitely not tat. I buy simple nice things that I can use over and over.

Sure.

It's Quality Value and Convenience, I'm sure.

lockinsideout · 13/09/2026 20:59

bigplate · 13/09/2026 18:27

A lot of mumsnetters are complete killjoys around seasonal decor apart from Christmas and even then you must adhere to 'the rules'

It just seems very American / Instagram / Consumer culture. In a depressing way.

Yes buying shite for the sake of buying shite

RikthePoet · 13/09/2026 20:59

MajorSamanthaCarter · 13/09/2026 18:39

I have my handmade, by me, pumpkins out, I made them from yarn that was leftover from other projects. No tat, no future landfill just something to inject a bit joy into my least favourite time of year 🤷‍♀️

I mean, that is tat. Handmade tat, maybe, but tat no less.

HoppityBun · 13/09/2026 21:00

DrCoconut · 13/09/2026 18:52

Steady on, last night of the proms was only yesterday! It's a kind of unofficial transition from summer into (crappy) autumn in our house.

As far as I’m concerned:

Autumn starts at the beginning of August-you can see it in the trees and the harvests.

Winter starts at the beginning of November.

Spring starts at the beginning of February with the first crocuses and bulb shoots.

Summer starts, traditionally, on May Day.

it’s the equinox in a weeks time!

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