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AIBU to dispute Rover charge after pet sitter failed agreed care?

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slowingdown1 · Yesterday 01:30

I booked X through Rover to provide in-home pet sitting for one week at a cost of £431.
Before the booking, i met with the sitter, showed her the house and Pets and talked everything through. I provided a clear written routine for my dog. This included three walks each day: a morning walk, an evening walk and a short bedtime walk. I checked in with X regularly during the booking, and she did not tell me that she was unable or unwilling to follow this routine.
When I returned home, I found a hole in the stair wall, dirty floors, an unmade bed with a wet towel left on it, extensive dog mess throughout the garden and dried dog food left on a disposable plate, which the sitter would have had to dig through my
cupboard to even find it which is odd. It would have slipped on the tiled floor making it impossible for my dog to properly eat. My dog has a ceramic bowl and a designated area to eat which I showed her, so this makes no sense to me.
My dog had also urinated on carpets across four rooms and appeared distressed, panting and temporarily unable to bark.
After I reviewed the ring door bell footage, X later admitted in writing that she had not followed the agreed walking schedule. She said that during the first part of the booking she had skipped the bedtime walk, and during the second part my dog had received very limited walks. She confirmed that my dog had not been walked at all during the final two days and had only been allowed into the garden.
X initially offered a full refund through Rover and confirmed this in writing. I therefore contacted Rover and submitted a detailed complaint, including photographs, written statements and screenshots of X admitting that she had not provided the agreed care.
Despite repeated telephone calls and emails, Rover did not promptly resolve the complaint. X subsequently withdrew her offer of a full refund and stated that she had decided to offer only £120 because she had “walked the dog approximately 10 times but can’t remember” and cared for the car and house.
I did not accept the £120 offer because the service provided was substantially different from the service booked. The agreed walking routine was not followed, there were no walks during the final two days, my dog urinated throughout the house, and the property was left damaged and in an unacceptable condition.
AIBU to raise a credit card dispute? Is this futile? I’m utterly bemused as to how an incompetent and unsafe sitter can decide their refund amount!

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slowingdown1 · Yesterday 01:31

ETA: Rover have said it is up to the sitter to determine the refund amount. Eh?!

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CharityShopMensGlasses · Yesterday 01:38

Absolutely awful. I think id be tryijg to recoup bew carpet costs and wall repair costs from Rover too actually.

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 01:42

CharityShopMensGlasses · Yesterday 01:38

Absolutely awful. I think id be tryijg to recoup bew carpet costs and wall repair costs from Rover too actually.

I submitted all this (with photo evidence) and they have come
back to say the sitter determines the refund amount. I feel like I’ve fallen down a hole in Alice in Wonderland!

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Sesquioxides · Yesterday 01:59

This is awful! God I thought we’d had it bad this week with Justeat refusing a refund on a takeaway we never received. Definitely pursue it through your bank/credit card.

Ocelotfeet27 · Yesterday 02:11

Yes I agree with PPs raise a dispute and send Rover a letter before action telling them to get this resolved within 7 days, with compensation for the property damage, or you will take them to small claims court.

Friendlygingercat · Yesterday 02:21

Dont forget to leave a strongly worded factual review on the appropriate sites.If you cannot launch a successful cc dispute via your card provider then the small claims court is the way to go. Letter before action will probably focus their minds,

Ella31 · Yesterday 02:22

Disgraceful and so neglectful of her. Can you also leave a bad review?

Owwdi · Yesterday 02:23

Holy shit, that’s awful OP. I’m a sitter myself and I started out on Rover. I realised straightaway that Rover doesn’t cover insurance for sitters, so I took out my own insurance from the get go. But lots of people on there either don’t realise or don’t care they need their own insurance. It’s shocking really. So I wouldn’t count on your sitter having insurance, she doesn’t seem like the diligent type.

However you as the client are covered by the Rover guarantee. Rover takes a significant percentage of each booking payment, and this is to cover the client if anything goes wrong. Don’t let it drop, they should absolutely pay up.

It’s infuriating, we had a sitter years ago (not through Rover) who didn’t stay at the house, killed the cat, rode the horses without permission, damaged our property…the list goes on. Never got a penny or even an apology from the sitter when caught out.

FlamingoFloss · Yesterday 02:23

Your poor baby :(

DivaEx · Yesterday 02:23

I have never heard anything good about Rover. Hope they give you a full refund. I would post this on X and FB too if possible.

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:25

Owwdi · Yesterday 02:23

Holy shit, that’s awful OP. I’m a sitter myself and I started out on Rover. I realised straightaway that Rover doesn’t cover insurance for sitters, so I took out my own insurance from the get go. But lots of people on there either don’t realise or don’t care they need their own insurance. It’s shocking really. So I wouldn’t count on your sitter having insurance, she doesn’t seem like the diligent type.

However you as the client are covered by the Rover guarantee. Rover takes a significant percentage of each booking payment, and this is to cover the client if anything goes wrong. Don’t let it drop, they should absolutely pay up.

It’s infuriating, we had a sitter years ago (not through Rover) who didn’t stay at the house, killed the cat, rode the horses without permission, damaged our property…the list goes on. Never got a penny or even an apology from the sitter when caught out.

I am so sorry, this is heartbreaking. What on earth is wrong with people?

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slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:26

Ella31 · Yesterday 02:22

Disgraceful and so neglectful of her. Can you also leave a bad review?

I have left an honest review which doesn’t not seem to have been published on the site yet 🧐

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Ella31 · Yesterday 02:33

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:26

I have left an honest review which doesn’t not seem to have been published on the site yet 🧐

I'm not normally a go public person but I'd be raging at this. I hope your dog is ok by the way 🥰

Owwdi · Yesterday 02:35

And in future, and to anyone thinking of booking a sitter, find someone who is DBS checked, first aid trained and insured, with plenty of reviews. You’re unlikely to find this on Rover. I get pretty much all my work through my Facebook page and word of mouth. People see the fancy website and it comes across as legitimate, but in reality the people on there could be anyone. Rover is a bit of a swear word amongst ‘proper’ pet professionals.

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:37

Ella31 · Yesterday 02:33

I'm not normally a go public person but I'd be raging at this. I hope your dog is ok by the way 🥰

thank you 🥹she’s ok now. She was very, very distressed though. Panting so heavily I was worried and had lost her bark. Took about 3 days for her to calm down and stop frantically following me around. Back garden is utterly tiny, so to have been confined in the house and only allowed there for the last 2.5 days is so sad. And no bedtime stroll along the pavement all week. It’s just so cruel and odd, it was an easy job and I was (I think) kind and welcoming and made it clear she could have a friend over, access to Sky movies, log fire etc. I’ll never know what went wrong but something did.

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slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:37

Owwdi · Yesterday 02:35

And in future, and to anyone thinking of booking a sitter, find someone who is DBS checked, first aid trained and insured, with plenty of reviews. You’re unlikely to find this on Rover. I get pretty much all my work through my Facebook page and word of mouth. People see the fancy website and it comes across as legitimate, but in reality the people on there could be anyone. Rover is a bit of a swear word amongst ‘proper’ pet professionals.

I had no idea, thank you for sharing this. Lesson well and truly learned sadly.

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Ella31 · Yesterday 02:38

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:37

thank you 🥹she’s ok now. She was very, very distressed though. Panting so heavily I was worried and had lost her bark. Took about 3 days for her to calm down and stop frantically following me around. Back garden is utterly tiny, so to have been confined in the house and only allowed there for the last 2.5 days is so sad. And no bedtime stroll along the pavement all week. It’s just so cruel and odd, it was an easy job and I was (I think) kind and welcoming and made it clear she could have a friend over, access to Sky movies, log fire etc. I’ll never know what went wrong but something did.

So awful but at least you know and will never book them again. I bet you aren't the first either she has done this to

Owwdi · Yesterday 02:41

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:37

I had no idea, thank you for sharing this. Lesson well and truly learned sadly.

I’m so sorry for you and your poor dog, if you happen to be in the south west give me a shout next time you need someone and if I can’t help you, I’ll know someone trustworthy who can. But honestly, don’t let this drop, Rover need to pay up. From memory I think it’s 20% of each booking in their pockets, and this situation is exactly what the Rover guarantee is for.

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:42

Owwdi · Yesterday 02:41

I’m so sorry for you and your poor dog, if you happen to be in the south west give me a shout next time you need someone and if I can’t help you, I’ll know someone trustworthy who can. But honestly, don’t let this drop, Rover need to pay up. From memory I think it’s 20% of each booking in their pockets, and this situation is exactly what the Rover guarantee is for.

that is so kind 🥹sadly very far north or I’d bite your hand off! (No dog pun intended 😊)

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QuirkyHorse · Yesterday 02:53

Dog sitters need to be licensed and abide by the Animal Welfare Act, just like kennels and home boarders do.
People see it as making a quick buck - they charge as much/more as home boarders without the the overhead of paying to be licensed.

Glad your dog has settled with time.
There will be decent sitters near you, you just need to find them.

GrumpyPanda · Yesterday 03:10

Owwdi · Yesterday 02:23

Holy shit, that’s awful OP. I’m a sitter myself and I started out on Rover. I realised straightaway that Rover doesn’t cover insurance for sitters, so I took out my own insurance from the get go. But lots of people on there either don’t realise or don’t care they need their own insurance. It’s shocking really. So I wouldn’t count on your sitter having insurance, she doesn’t seem like the diligent type.

However you as the client are covered by the Rover guarantee. Rover takes a significant percentage of each booking payment, and this is to cover the client if anything goes wrong. Don’t let it drop, they should absolutely pay up.

It’s infuriating, we had a sitter years ago (not through Rover) who didn’t stay at the house, killed the cat, rode the horses without permission, damaged our property…the list goes on. Never got a penny or even an apology from the sitter when caught out.

I'd be very much surprised, even if OP's sitter had taken out insurance, at it paying out for her in what is surely a case of gross negligence. Thankfully from what you're saying OP doesn't have to worry about that.

ClayPotaLot · Yesterday 03:46

I would be trying a charge back on the card and then issue a letter before action to the sitter for the damage to the house.

CoffeeAndCats3 · Yesterday 04:28

What a disaster. And incredibly frustrating.I'd be leaving negative reviews wherever possible slating Rover and their process.

They just want to collect their commission and not have to deal with any of the fallout when things go wrong. It's total BS.

Mydogisagentleman · Yesterday 06:57

We are going away for 2 nights in November. Our placid but anxious dog can't comment, and his usual overnight sitters (my parents) are attending the same event.i had looked at Rover, and contacted one woman.
I've decided not to go ahead with the booking as the carer was so disinterested.
He is staying with our friends and his doggy boyfriend

Mydogisagentleman · Yesterday 06:57

Can't come. Of course he can't comment