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AIBU to dispute Rover charge after pet sitter failed agreed care?

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slowingdown1 · Yesterday 01:30

I booked X through Rover to provide in-home pet sitting for one week at a cost of £431.
Before the booking, i met with the sitter, showed her the house and Pets and talked everything through. I provided a clear written routine for my dog. This included three walks each day: a morning walk, an evening walk and a short bedtime walk. I checked in with X regularly during the booking, and she did not tell me that she was unable or unwilling to follow this routine.
When I returned home, I found a hole in the stair wall, dirty floors, an unmade bed with a wet towel left on it, extensive dog mess throughout the garden and dried dog food left on a disposable plate, which the sitter would have had to dig through my
cupboard to even find it which is odd. It would have slipped on the tiled floor making it impossible for my dog to properly eat. My dog has a ceramic bowl and a designated area to eat which I showed her, so this makes no sense to me.
My dog had also urinated on carpets across four rooms and appeared distressed, panting and temporarily unable to bark.
After I reviewed the ring door bell footage, X later admitted in writing that she had not followed the agreed walking schedule. She said that during the first part of the booking she had skipped the bedtime walk, and during the second part my dog had received very limited walks. She confirmed that my dog had not been walked at all during the final two days and had only been allowed into the garden.
X initially offered a full refund through Rover and confirmed this in writing. I therefore contacted Rover and submitted a detailed complaint, including photographs, written statements and screenshots of X admitting that she had not provided the agreed care.
Despite repeated telephone calls and emails, Rover did not promptly resolve the complaint. X subsequently withdrew her offer of a full refund and stated that she had decided to offer only £120 because she had “walked the dog approximately 10 times but can’t remember” and cared for the car and house.
I did not accept the £120 offer because the service provided was substantially different from the service booked. The agreed walking routine was not followed, there were no walks during the final two days, my dog urinated throughout the house, and the property was left damaged and in an unacceptable condition.
AIBU to raise a credit card dispute? Is this futile? I’m utterly bemused as to how an incompetent and unsafe sitter can decide their refund amount!

OP posts:
IrisApril · Today 09:06

user784970 · Today 08:26

She didnt leave her dog- this was IN HOME pet sitting so the sitter stays in your house...

Perhaps read the OP properly first before you go on the attack 🙄

Edited

Not clear at all from the OP actually, it sounds like the sitter was only doing three visits. And it seems like she barely did that. How can you guarantee someone is going to stay in your house and not leave your dog for extended periods, especially if your not checking the camera?

Super weird not to check your ring doorbell all week, and weird not to have an internal cameras when leaving your dog, and even weirder to trust a stranger in your home.

The more normal part of Rover (sending your dog to someone’s house to stay) is always very good in my experience.

user784970 · Today 09:13

IrisApril · Today 09:06

Not clear at all from the OP actually, it sounds like the sitter was only doing three visits. And it seems like she barely did that. How can you guarantee someone is going to stay in your house and not leave your dog for extended periods, especially if your not checking the camera?

Super weird not to check your ring doorbell all week, and weird not to have an internal cameras when leaving your dog, and even weirder to trust a stranger in your home.

The more normal part of Rover (sending your dog to someone’s house to stay) is always very good in my experience.

Well the rest of us probably got it from this:

I booked X through Rover to provide in-home pet sitting for one week at a cost of £431.

They provide IN HOME PET SITTING

Noone else was confused about this except you and perhaps if you werent sure you could have checked first instead of making out this distressing situation was all OP's fault.

I posted about my experience earlier in the thread but I have used Rover myself where my dog went to stay with a pet sitter and she got hit by a car because they allowed her to roam free in their unfenced garden which was next to a road so no, I dont agree that Rover is always "very good".

TheresMillionsOfGeoffreys · Today 09:15

IrisApril · Today 09:06

Not clear at all from the OP actually, it sounds like the sitter was only doing three visits. And it seems like she barely did that. How can you guarantee someone is going to stay in your house and not leave your dog for extended periods, especially if your not checking the camera?

Super weird not to check your ring doorbell all week, and weird not to have an internal cameras when leaving your dog, and even weirder to trust a stranger in your home.

The more normal part of Rover (sending your dog to someone’s house to stay) is always very good in my experience.

It's described in the op as in-home pet-sitting, where the sitter was supposed to 'care for the car and house'.

I don't know how that's unclear?!

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · Today 09:17

@slowingdown1

Legal position
Assuming this happened in England or Wales, the owner has a credible claim. A credit-card dispute is not futile, but it should be pursued alongside, rather than instead of, a formal claim against the sitter.
Rover’s current terms say the pet-care contract is between the pet owner and the sitter. Rover facilitates payment as the sitter’s limited payment agent. Rover nevertheless retains discretion to issue a full or partial refund where a sitter failed to provide the agreed services.
1. Claim against the sitter for breach of contract
The clearest claim is that the sitter expressly agreed to:

  • provide in-home care for seven days;
  • follow the written care routine;
  • provide three walks per day; and
  • look after the home with reasonable care.
The sitter’s written admission that she omitted the bedtime walks, provided very limited walks later in the week and gave the dog no walks for the final two days is strong evidence of breach. If the sitter provides Rover services as a business, trade or profession, the Consumer Rights Act 2015 should apply. It requires services to be carried out with reasonable care and skill. Information given about the service and relied upon by the consumer can also become contractually binding. The statutory remedies include repeat performance or an appropriate reduction in price. Here, repeat performance is plainly impractical because the particular week has passed. A price reduction can, in a sufficiently serious case, amount to the full price. Even if the sitter were not legally regarded as a trader, there would still be an ordinary contractual claim based on the specific services she agreed to perform. Is a full £431 refund certain? No, but it is properly arguable. The sitter apparently provided some feeding, occupation of the house and approximately ten walks. A judge or card provider might therefore conclude that the service retained some value and award a substantial partial refund rather than 100%. The case for a full refund is strengthened by:
  • the repeated nature of the failures;
  • complete failure to walk the dog during the final two days;
  • the dog’s condition on the owner’s return;
  • urine throughout four rooms;
  • the state of the property;
  • the sitter’s failure to disclose the problem while the booking was continuing;
  • the sitter’s written admissions; and
  • her original offer of a full refund.
The sitter does not have the legal right simply to decide that £120 is the correct amount. That is only a settlement offer, which the owner is free to reject. 2. Potentially enforce the original full-refund agreement The exact wording matters. If the sitter unequivocally offered a full refund and the owner accepted that offer before it was withdrawn, there may be a separate binding settlement agreement. This is particularly arguable if the owner agreed to accept the refund in resolution of the dispute or acted on that agreement by submitting the request through Rover. If the sitter merely said something like “I have asked Rover whether they can refund you”, it may not be an enforceable promise. But even then, it is valuable evidence that the sitter initially recognised the seriousness of the failure. The owner should preserve:
  • the exact offer;
  • the acceptance;
  • any Rover confirmation;
  • dates and times; and
  • any indication that the refund was intended to settle the complaint.
3. Demand a formal decision from Rover The owner should make clear that this is not a cancellation request. It is a complaint about failure to perform the booked service. Rover’s terms expressly allow it to issue a full or partial refund where it decides that a sitter failed to provide the agreed care. Its terms also say that after payment has been released, Rover has no obligation to mediate payment disputes, but that does not prevent Rover exercising its discretionary refund power. The complaint should demand:
  1. a written final decision;
  2. a full refund of £431, or a reasoned calculation of any proposed reduction;
  3. a separate determination under the Rover Guarantee for property damage and veterinary costs;
  4. confirmation that the sitter’s account has been referred to Trust and Safety; and
  5. preservation of all booking records, messages and payment information.
The owner should specifically cite the written routine, the sitter’s admissions and the original full-refund offer. 4. Make a Rover Guarantee claim for damage and veterinary costs Rover’s current Guarantee covers eligible veterinary costs and property damage directly caused by a sitter’s acts or omissions. It is separate from the refund for the defective service. There are strict deadlines in the published terms:
  • Rover must generally be notified during the booking or within 48 hours of the injury or damage;
  • veterinary documentation must be supplied within 14 days;
  • property-damage evidence must be supplied within 14 days;
  • eligible veterinary treatment or property remediation generally has to take place within 30 days; and
  • the UK minimum contribution is £50 per incident.
The wall damage appears to be the most obvious Guarantee claim, provided there is evidence that the sitter caused it. The urine damage is more complicated. Rover’s Guarantee excludes damage caused by the owner’s own pet. Rover may therefore reject carpet damage on that basis, even though the dog may have urinated because the sitter failed to provide walks. That exclusion only affects the Rover Guarantee. It does not necessarily prevent the owner claiming carpet-cleaning or replacement costs directly from the sitter as foreseeable losses caused by the contractual breach. Given the panting and temporary loss of bark, a veterinary examination should be obtained promptly. The vet should be given the factual history and asked to record:
  • the dog’s condition;
  • any diagnosis;
  • treatment;
  • whether the symptoms could be consistent with stress, dehydration, excessive barking or inadequate care; and
  • whether follow-up treatment is necessary.
One important warning: Rover’s published Guarantee terms say Guarantee benefits terminate if the claimant initiates legal action against Rover concerning a Guarantee claim. The enforceability of that term could potentially be challenged, but the safer course is not to sue Rover while the Guarantee decision remains outstanding. 5. Raise a chargeback now Yes, the owner should raise a card dispute promptly. The correct basis is: Services not as described or defective services It should not be described as an unauthorised transaction, fraud or complete non-delivery, because the sitter did attend and performed part of the service. Chargeback can apply where services do not match their description, were defective or where a promised refund was not received. Banks normally require evidence that the customer first attempted to resolve the matter with the supplier. The usual time limit is approximately 120 days, although the precise scheme rules vary. The evidence bundle should contain:
  • the Rover booking confirmation and payment;
  • the written three-walk routine;
  • messages showing the sitter accepted the arrangement;
  • the sitter’s admissions;
  • her original full-refund offer;
  • her later £120 offer;
  • photographs and video;
  • veterinary records;
  • repair and cleaning quotations;
  • the complaint history with Rover; and
  • a concise chronology.
The owner should claim the full £431 and explain why the failures went to the central purpose of the booking. It would also be sensible to state, in the alternative, that the bank should recover whatever substantial partial refund it considers supported if it will not process the full amount. Chargeback is not guaranteed. Rover may respond that the service was partly performed. The written admissions and original refund offer considerably improve the case. 6. Make a Section 75 claim as well If the payment was made directly with a credit card, rather than a debit or charge card, the owner should ask the card issuer to consider both:
  • chargeback; and
  • a claim under section 75 of the Consumer Credit Act 1974.
The £431 cash price falls within the usual section 75 range of more than £100 and no more than £30,000. Section 75 can make the card provider jointly liable for a supplier’s breach of contract or misrepresentation. There is a complication. Rover describes itself as a payment facilitator and limited payment agent, while the sitter is the contractual supplier. The involvement of an intermediary can create an argument about whether the necessary debtor-creditor-supplier relationship exists. The bank may therefore reject section 75 even though it processes a chargeback. The Financial Ombudsman says the identity and contractual relationship between the customer, supplier and lender must be examined in each case. It is nevertheless worth submitting both claims. The owner should not allow the bank to dismiss the matter merely by saying “contact Rover”. If the card provider rejects or mishandles the claim:
  1. make a formal complaint to the card provider;
  2. request its final response;
  3. escalate to the Financial Ombudsman Service after the final response, or after eight weeks if no final response is provided.
The Ombudsman can examine whether the bank reasonably handled both chargeback and section 75. 7. Claim consequential financial losses In addition to a refund or price reduction, the owner may claim reasonable losses caused by the breach, including:
  • repair of the stair wall;
  • professional carpet cleaning;
  • replacement of permanently damaged carpet or underlay, allowing for age and previous condition;
  • specialist cleaning or deodorising;
  • reasonable garden clean-up costs;
  • veterinary examination and treatment;
  • replacement of damaged bedding or other property; and
  • other directly caused, reasonably foreseeable expenditure.
The owner must show that each loss was:
  • caused by the sitter’s breach;
  • reasonably foreseeable;
  • properly evidenced; and
  • reasonably mitigated.
Photographs should be taken before cleaning or repair. Receipts and quotations are much stronger than estimates. The owner should not replace an older carpet with a significantly better one and expect the entire improvement to be paid for. The claim should concentrate on financial loss. Compensation for the owner’s upset, the ruined end of the holiday or the dog’s emotional distress is much less straightforward and should not be the centre of the case. 8. Send a letter before action to the sitter If Rover and the bank do not resolve it, the next step is a formal letter before action addressed to the sitter. Rover’s terms make the sitter the primary contracting party, so the sitter is normally the clearest defendant. The letter should set out:
  • the agreed services;
  • the relevant written instructions;
  • the admitted failures;
  • the legal basis of the claim;
  • the amount of the refund sought;
  • each additional loss;
  • the evidence relied upon;
  • details of the original full-refund offer;
  • a deadline, normally 14 days for a straightforward claim; and
  • notice that court proceedings may follow without further warning.
Civil procedure expects parties to exchange enough information to understand each other’s position, attempt settlement and consider alternative dispute resolution before proceedings. The owner will need the sitter’s full legal name and a postal address for service. If that is not known, the owner should request it from the sitter and ask Rover either to provide an appropriate service address or forward the letter. Rover may resist disclosing a home address without consent or a court order. 9. Bring a small claim If the letter does not resolve matters, the owner can issue an online County Court money claim against the sitter. The claim could include:
  • £431 as a full refund or price reduction;
  • alternatively, a substantial partial refund;
  • repair and cleaning costs;
  • veterinary expenses;
  • the court issue fee; and
  • interest, if claimed and awarded.
Claims below £10,000 are normally dealt with on the small-claims track. A money claim can be started online where the defendant has an address in England or Wales. A straightforward contractual claim normally has a six-year limitation period, although there is no advantage in waiting. The small-claims track limits recoverable legal costs, but it is not entirely risk-free. Court fees, certain expenses and costs arising from unreasonable conduct can still matter. I would be cautious about naming Rover as a defendant unless there is a clearly identified breach by Rover itself, such as failure to honour an approved Guarantee claim or its own unequivocal refund promise. Rover’s contractual role is much more limited than the sitter’s, and suing Rover prematurely may affect the Guarantee claim. 10. Animal-welfare and regulatory reports Someone who temporarily assumes responsibility for an animal can owe duties under the Animal Welfare Act 2006 to take reasonable steps to meet the animal’s welfare needs. Those needs include an appropriate environment, diet, normal behaviour and protection from suffering. Two days without walks does not automatically prove a criminal offence. Relevant factors would include:
  • the dog’s breed, age and medical needs;
  • how long it was left alone;
  • access to the garden;
  • food and water;
  • signs of actual suffering;
  • whether the sitter ignored visible distress; and
  • veterinary evidence.
A report to Rover’s Trust and Safety team is plainly appropriate. A report to the RSPCA or local authority may also be justified if the evidence suggests actual neglect or suffering, but it should be made factually and separately from the refund demand. It should not be used as leverage in settlement negotiations. Citizens Advice Consumer Service may also advise and, where appropriate, refer potentially systemic trader conduct to Trading Standards. That route is primarily regulatory and does not itself guarantee compensation. Best practical course The strongest sequence would be:
  1. Arrange and document the veterinary examination.
  2. Preserve the original Ring footage, rather than edited clips.
  3. Submit or update the Rover Guarantee claim immediately.
  4. Demand Rover’s formal refund decision under its failure-to-perform provision.
  5. Open a card dispute now, asking for chargeback and section 75 where applicable.
  6. Obtain itemised repair and cleaning quotations.
  7. Send a letter before action to the sitter if no satisfactory refund is provided.
  8. Issue a small claim if necessary.
Overall, the owner has a strong case that the contract was breached and a good basis for seeking a substantial refund plus documented losses. A full £431 refund is defensible, especially because of the admissions and original offer, but it is not automatic because some care appears to have been provided. The £120 figure is simply the sitter’s offer, not a binding assessment of what the owner is legally entitled to.
vegemitesandwiches · Today 09:22

IrisApril · Today 08:21

Obviously you should get the refund, but leaving your dog home alone for a week is SO weird???? Even paying someone to visit thrice a day. So the dog is alone every night???

How do you know some of the poo/wee in the house wasn’t done overnight?

Why do you not have internal cameras to keep an eye on your dog?

We use Rover - met some fantastic people and never had an issue actually. The sitters always adore our dog, send lots of pics and he has a fab holiday. But obviously the dog goes to their house for the week. He doesn’t stay in our empty house alone. I wouldn’t dream of it.

I think a big part of the blame is on you as well. A dog isn’t a cat or a guinea pig. You can’t just leave it loose in the house by itself for a week, and alone overnight.

I think you’ve totally misunderstood what happened - OP was paying for someone to stay in her home for a week, she wasn’t just paying for three visits a day.

user784970 · Today 09:24

Also, this doesn't make sense either:

How can you guarantee someone is going to stay in your house and not leave your dog for extended periods,

You could equally ask- how can you guarantee if your pet stays with the sitter they arent going to leave your dog for extended periods at a time?

SaturdayGiraffe · Today 09:54

I’ve had to start using the Rover site as they bought out Catinaflat where I was registered as a cat carer.

The difference between the sites is huge, Rover just seems so basic and sterile. Without telling me they set me up with a dog sitting page complete with fake blurb. I didn’t write any of it and don’t want to dog sit!

I will have to look for another cat sitting site I think. I don’t want to support Rover now.

electionday4724 · Today 10:27

Dear SINGLESEXSPACESINSCHOOLS, your post is authoritative and clearly worded. You have taken time and effort offering practical advice. Thank you.

SylvanMoon · Today 10:33

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:26

I have left an honest review which doesn’t not seem to have been published on the site yet 🧐

Have you left the same review on Trust Pilot?

Friendlygingercat · Today 12:06

One of my relatives does house sitting and looks after animals of various kinds while the owners are on holiday or away on business. Not just dogs and cats - even ducks, geese and once a pot bellied pig.These types of homes almost always have ring type doorbells and cctv so the owner can check in that the animals are being walked and cared for as per the contract. Many contracts stipulate that the home cannot be left empty (and the animals alone) for more than a set period. It was foolish of the sitter to think she could get away with not walking the dog as agreed

Arthur2shedsJackson · Today 12:41

Every dog owner I know wouldn’t touch Rover with a barge pole.

Moonchild90 · Today 12:53

I'd report her for animal cruelty

KindnessIsKey123 · Today 13:55

Small claims court, both Rover and her as defendants. Serve them a claim form. You’ll soon be refunded after that

LightlyRoamingOcelots · Today 14:06

YANBU at all and it is quite right to expect a full refund. Give all the details to the Credit Card company and ask them for a chargeback, the sitter does not get to choose how much to be paid after breaking the agreement so spectacularly.

Macinae · Today 16:36

This makes me so angry! Do whatever you need to do but don't let this go. I'd even be getting legal advice and going to the media if this isn't resolved to your satisfaction. Treatment like this cannot go unresolved and be swept under the rug as god forbid this happens to someone else, not only the damage to your property but the obvious neglect of your pet. To think of my dog treated this way would send me into an absolute raging spiral. As others have said avoid Rover at all costs and use someone DBS checked, insured, first aid trained etc.

sanityisamyth · Today 16:40

electionday4724 · Today 10:27

Dear SINGLESEXSPACESINSCHOOLS, your post is authoritative and clearly worded. You have taken time and effort offering practical advice. Thank you.

🤣 it’s a simple search on Google and a copy and paste of the AI response!

4t4 · Today 17:32

I find this kind of thing so terrifying. We haven’t been on a family holiday for several years all together as we always leave one or two family members at home with the dog - we vary who stays according to timing/interest in holiday. (Kids are 18/20 so not little). People are just so untrustworthy these days. I won’t be going on holiday this summer, despite loving holidays. I can afford one, but can’t risk my dog.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · Today 19:37

sanityisamyth · Today 16:40

🤣 it’s a simple search on Google and a copy and paste of the AI response!

Actually it was a ten minute agent session with ChatGPT Sol 5.6. Cost me quite a chunk of tokens.

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