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AIBU to dispute Rover charge after pet sitter failed agreed care?

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slowingdown1 · Yesterday 01:30

I booked X through Rover to provide in-home pet sitting for one week at a cost of £431.
Before the booking, i met with the sitter, showed her the house and Pets and talked everything through. I provided a clear written routine for my dog. This included three walks each day: a morning walk, an evening walk and a short bedtime walk. I checked in with X regularly during the booking, and she did not tell me that she was unable or unwilling to follow this routine.
When I returned home, I found a hole in the stair wall, dirty floors, an unmade bed with a wet towel left on it, extensive dog mess throughout the garden and dried dog food left on a disposable plate, which the sitter would have had to dig through my
cupboard to even find it which is odd. It would have slipped on the tiled floor making it impossible for my dog to properly eat. My dog has a ceramic bowl and a designated area to eat which I showed her, so this makes no sense to me.
My dog had also urinated on carpets across four rooms and appeared distressed, panting and temporarily unable to bark.
After I reviewed the ring door bell footage, X later admitted in writing that she had not followed the agreed walking schedule. She said that during the first part of the booking she had skipped the bedtime walk, and during the second part my dog had received very limited walks. She confirmed that my dog had not been walked at all during the final two days and had only been allowed into the garden.
X initially offered a full refund through Rover and confirmed this in writing. I therefore contacted Rover and submitted a detailed complaint, including photographs, written statements and screenshots of X admitting that she had not provided the agreed care.
Despite repeated telephone calls and emails, Rover did not promptly resolve the complaint. X subsequently withdrew her offer of a full refund and stated that she had decided to offer only £120 because she had “walked the dog approximately 10 times but can’t remember” and cared for the car and house.
I did not accept the £120 offer because the service provided was substantially different from the service booked. The agreed walking routine was not followed, there were no walks during the final two days, my dog urinated throughout the house, and the property was left damaged and in an unacceptable condition.
AIBU to raise a credit card dispute? Is this futile? I’m utterly bemused as to how an incompetent and unsafe sitter can decide their refund amount!

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user784970 · Yesterday 11:57

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You think its reasonable for OP to pay £431 for "a bit of neglect", dog wee all over her carpets and dog shit not being cleared up in the garden?

🙄

AlphaApple · Yesterday 12:00

I'm guessing that Rover is a bit like AirBnB, people are suckered into trusting them because of the slick website but individual arseholes can register and get business through them.

Absolutely raise hell OP, not just for your refund but to stop other animals from suffering like yours did. The sitter needs to be perma-banned.

I've heard too many bad stories about Rover and Trusted Housesitters now that I will never, ever use them. Thankfully my dog is very content in kennels.

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 12:49

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I don’t think any living being should “cope with a bit of neglect”. I can only hope you don’t work with humans or animals. The sad part was she hadn’t been able to eat; the paper plate was covered in dried food meaning she had not been able to eat it, likely because the plate was sliding around the tiled floor.

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Gemilo · Yesterday 13:02

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Wow! what a horrible thing to say.

Hankunamatata · Yesterday 13:04

Could you try through small claims court?

Glidinglikeaswan · Yesterday 13:11

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:37

thank you 🥹she’s ok now. She was very, very distressed though. Panting so heavily I was worried and had lost her bark. Took about 3 days for her to calm down and stop frantically following me around. Back garden is utterly tiny, so to have been confined in the house and only allowed there for the last 2.5 days is so sad. And no bedtime stroll along the pavement all week. It’s just so cruel and odd, it was an easy job and I was (I think) kind and welcoming and made it clear she could have a friend over, access to Sky movies, log fire etc. I’ll never know what went wrong but something did.

Losing her bark suggests to me that she was actually left alone for long periods, ditto the following you around.

BillieWiper · Yesterday 13:16

So what's the point in them as a business when they have no responsibility for the quality of the work or refunds? You may as well just find a random on gumtree.

mondaytosunday · Yesterday 13:45

i and two friends use Trustedhousesitters.com. Never had an issue. And after the registration fee it’s free - you don’t pay the sitter. I get daily pix of my animals and the house is always tidy when I return and pets happy (two dogs and two cats last time I used them). My friends have been happy with the service too.

GreggsistentialCrisis · Yesterday 14:01

RunningJo · Yesterday 08:16

Reading that makes my heart ache - your poor dog.

I’ve heard some very mixed things about Rover, this was after I’d contacted someone, discussed details with them, tried to sort a date and then radio silence. That was enough to put me off.

I would email Rover to say that have 7 days to reimburse you in full for the booking, and that you are currently obtaining quotes to get your carpets cleaned and any repairs made due to the negligence of one of their sitters.
I’d absolute do small claims court for it all if they mess you around. I’d also be putting this on local Facebook pages as well to make people aware. I’d also contact the press I’d be so enraged!

I can’t imagine having someone’s pet to look after and just not doing it, not caring enough to not do your best for them.

That happened to me with Rover. Exactly the same, radio silence. She then messaged a week later (after we’d found someone else) apologising with some long fangled story etc. I tried giving the benefit of the doubt and rearranged another slot but she did it again so gave up.

nevergreen · Yesterday 14:43

As a sitter for TrustedHousesitters, they checked our identities pretty thoroughly, required references from previous sits (either professional or friends/family) and the service recipients provide references when you have taken care of their pets. They seem very professional.

AlphaApple · Yesterday 14:47

nevergreen · Yesterday 14:43

As a sitter for TrustedHousesitters, they checked our identities pretty thoroughly, required references from previous sits (either professional or friends/family) and the service recipients provide references when you have taken care of their pets. They seem very professional.

And yet Ariana Rose was on TrustedHousesitters....

nevergreen · Yesterday 15:17

AlphaApple · Yesterday 14:47

And yet Ariana Rose was on TrustedHousesitters....

Wow, just googled her! I take your point 😮

Owwdi · Yesterday 15:28

maudelovesharold · Yesterday 10:23

It’s infuriating, we had a sitter years ago (not through Rover) who didn’t stay at the house, killed the cat, rode the horses without permission, damaged our property…the list goes on. Never got a penny or even an apology from the sitter when caught out.

That sounds horrific. How can these people be allowed to get away with it? Could you have proved any criminality - animal cruelty or the like?

The difficulty is that it’s difficult to prove anything. I feel weird about sitting if there are cameras in the house, because I can’t relax and feel like I’m in Big Brother, but I can see why people do it. We know she didn’t sleep there because the bed clearly hadn’t been slept in, and there were stains all over the wood floor where the dogs had weed because she hadn’t been there to let them out. But she just argued she had been there. She also claimed we’d given her permission to ride the horses, we absolutely had not and not only that, she’d had her partner over with his kids and they’d been riding too! Then the silly cow put photos on her business Facebook page of them all riding around the arena (including her partner AND one of his kids on the same horse). They damaged a very expensive brand new saddle, in the photos the horses were all tacked up incorrectly, and they even used our riding hats and clothes! But she just argued (successfully) with NARPS who she was registered with that we’d said all that was fine to do.

As for the cat, to be fair he was old and wouldn’t have lasted much longer. But whilst we were away he developed an abscess on his head which she didn’t notice or do anything about, and was too ill to go downstairs to go out, so spent his last days in the bathroom in a lot of pain, the bath mat was soaked with piss. He had to be put to sleep as soon as we got back and saw the state of him.

But yeah, she got away Scot free, and believe me we REALLY tried to hold her accountable.

Owwdi · Yesterday 15:30

nevergreen · Yesterday 14:43

As a sitter for TrustedHousesitters, they checked our identities pretty thoroughly, required references from previous sits (either professional or friends/family) and the service recipients provide references when you have taken care of their pets. They seem very professional.

They do all this on Rover too. But it’s easy enough to get a few mates to say you’re good with animals.

alwaysusethebiglight · Yesterday 15:34

I’d push the insurance angle for the damage caused.m, especially if you can prove it wasn’t like that before you went away. Maybe even the small claims court.

elastamum · Yesterday 15:45

I used to use Animal Aunts for dogs and horses. They were really good and the house and pets really well looked after. However, they are not cheap, but I think it is worth it.

maudelovesharold · Yesterday 16:09

Owwdi · Yesterday 15:28

The difficulty is that it’s difficult to prove anything. I feel weird about sitting if there are cameras in the house, because I can’t relax and feel like I’m in Big Brother, but I can see why people do it. We know she didn’t sleep there because the bed clearly hadn’t been slept in, and there were stains all over the wood floor where the dogs had weed because she hadn’t been there to let them out. But she just argued she had been there. She also claimed we’d given her permission to ride the horses, we absolutely had not and not only that, she’d had her partner over with his kids and they’d been riding too! Then the silly cow put photos on her business Facebook page of them all riding around the arena (including her partner AND one of his kids on the same horse). They damaged a very expensive brand new saddle, in the photos the horses were all tacked up incorrectly, and they even used our riding hats and clothes! But she just argued (successfully) with NARPS who she was registered with that we’d said all that was fine to do.

As for the cat, to be fair he was old and wouldn’t have lasted much longer. But whilst we were away he developed an abscess on his head which she didn’t notice or do anything about, and was too ill to go downstairs to go out, so spent his last days in the bathroom in a lot of pain, the bath mat was soaked with piss. He had to be put to sleep as soon as we got back and saw the state of him.

But yeah, she got away Scot free, and believe me we REALLY tried to hold her accountable.

How awful that your poor animals (and you) were treated so badly. I can’t imagine what it must have been like to come back to find what you did.

EmmaB1309 · Yesterday 18:23

Your poor dog! And how stressful for you.
Definitely do not let this go. And negative social media reviews if you can.

CrayonCritic · Yesterday 18:24

I recommend visiting pet sitting threads on Reddit to get more specific advice on how to deal with Rover. There are a lot of active people on there. I am a pet sitter myself and I do it for free through another app (it’s a value exchange that you can stay in the house). Me and all the sitters on the same app who Ive connected with online have extremely high standards, so it’s disgusting to see someone being paid for it being so neglectful and also giving us a bad name.

Kaney19 · Yesterday 18:27

I had a really awful experience with Rover. The whole thing was utterly tragic. It was a sitter for 6 hours, for a funeral. I had no choice but to take the dogs with me, and I couldnt get hold of the sitter. My nans funeral was in 2 hours at this point. I phoned Rover, who couldnt help, and in the end a friend helped out. For clarity, I moved to a different country, and the funeral was in my home town, hence my friend stepping in. It turned out that the sitter had taken her own life which is truly awful, but Rover, not knowing this, did nothing to help. They had their money and gave not one don't shiny shite.

I appreciate the upset, I really do, but I don't think you'll get anywhere with them. They're a disaster of a company, focused on money, not animals.

We have 4 dogs and I'm very particular about who I leave them with after that experience.

Where are you based? Id love to help with your pup if you're close by.

Sending you so much love xxx

WaryCyanStork · Yesterday 18:34

Keep pushing with Rover. They definitely can refund you.

My friend was a Rover sitter. She had money deducted from her pay when she couldn't get the carpets perfectly clean after a dog had diarrhoea (which started before the sit but the owners went away anyway!) I guess Rover are just awful to both sitters and owners.

Smallfamilyofbadgers · Yesterday 18:43

That’s dreadful and really gives us sitters a bad name! Did you not receive Rover cards which are gps tracked for walks. I’m a cat sitter and still send rover cards to all my clients.
I have star sitter status and make sure I honour all of my bookings. I’m very proud of my 5* reviews and have built up quite a few regulars.
I would pursue it through the small claims court if you get no joy with credit card.
Breaks my heart to think an animal was poorly treated by someone who’s getting paid to do a job.

Marieb19 · Yesterday 18:43

This is an appaling situation and Rover can't dodge its responsibilities as the management company. Write this review on Trustpilot. I find companies go out of their way to deal with complaints. I would also show this communication stream to Rover. I've never heard of them but I certainly wouldn't use them on the back of your experience. If you still don't get satisfaction, I'd let them know you will be taking them to the small claims court and will also seek compensation for cleaning bills etc.

ThreadGuardDog · Yesterday 18:45

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:26

I have left an honest review which doesn’t not seem to have been published on the site yet 🧐

Do it on Trustpilot. Rover will then have to post a reply if they don’t want the negative publicity.

Sometimessmiling · Yesterday 18:48

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 01:42

I submitted all this (with photo evidence) and they have come
back to say the sitter determines the refund amount. I feel like I’ve fallen down a hole in Alice in Wonderland!

Who was your contract with? The company/person you employed is the who is due you a refund due to breach of contract