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AIBU to dispute Rover charge after pet sitter failed agreed care?

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slowingdown1 · 24/07/2026 01:30

I booked X through Rover to provide in-home pet sitting for one week at a cost of £431.
Before the booking, i met with the sitter, showed her the house and Pets and talked everything through. I provided a clear written routine for my dog. This included three walks each day: a morning walk, an evening walk and a short bedtime walk. I checked in with X regularly during the booking, and she did not tell me that she was unable or unwilling to follow this routine.
When I returned home, I found a hole in the stair wall, dirty floors, an unmade bed with a wet towel left on it, extensive dog mess throughout the garden and dried dog food left on a disposable plate, which the sitter would have had to dig through my
cupboard to even find it which is odd. It would have slipped on the tiled floor making it impossible for my dog to properly eat. My dog has a ceramic bowl and a designated area to eat which I showed her, so this makes no sense to me.
My dog had also urinated on carpets across four rooms and appeared distressed, panting and temporarily unable to bark.
After I reviewed the ring door bell footage, X later admitted in writing that she had not followed the agreed walking schedule. She said that during the first part of the booking she had skipped the bedtime walk, and during the second part my dog had received very limited walks. She confirmed that my dog had not been walked at all during the final two days and had only been allowed into the garden.
X initially offered a full refund through Rover and confirmed this in writing. I therefore contacted Rover and submitted a detailed complaint, including photographs, written statements and screenshots of X admitting that she had not provided the agreed care.
Despite repeated telephone calls and emails, Rover did not promptly resolve the complaint. X subsequently withdrew her offer of a full refund and stated that she had decided to offer only £120 because she had “walked the dog approximately 10 times but can’t remember” and cared for the car and house.
I did not accept the £120 offer because the service provided was substantially different from the service booked. The agreed walking routine was not followed, there were no walks during the final two days, my dog urinated throughout the house, and the property was left damaged and in an unacceptable condition.
AIBU to raise a credit card dispute? Is this futile? I’m utterly bemused as to how an incompetent and unsafe sitter can decide their refund amount!

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PinkNailPolish2026 · 26/07/2026 23:12

slowingdown1 · 26/07/2026 22:58

I’ve no experience of small claims and am in Scotland - can anyone advise how costly this might be?

You can make a claim online here.

What a horrible thing to have happened to your dog, it’s totally unacceptable. I’m glad your dog is fine after an ordeal like that.

Edited to add you can do it all online.

https://www.scotcourts.gov.uk/taking-action/simple-procedure/guide-to-simple-procedure

Agapornis · 26/07/2026 23:30

Oddly, Rover don't pay out to the sitter until 2-3 days after the final visit. So if you notified them same day, they wouldn't even have paid the sitter yet.

slowingdown1 · 27/07/2026 00:02

I did this and they didn’t even get to my complaint emails /
calls for a week by which time they’d paid her in full and then it was up to the sitter to choose how much to give back 😵‍💫🤯

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slowingdown1 · 27/07/2026 00:04

With small claims court - would I be claiming against the sitter herself or Rover? Of the first, I only have her first name and contact number and I highly doubt she would be forthcoming with more details.

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Bamboozledbylife · 27/07/2026 06:22

That's terrible. Charge back, trust pilot feedback and pick it up on social media.

Yetone · 27/07/2026 08:04

@slowingdown1
I have only used the small claims once in England. It was a long time ago but the holiday company who had previously ignored my complaints and tried to fob me off immediately caved in when the claim came from the court. It was only a small fee for me. I think googling ‘small claims Scotland’ would be a good starting point. My daughter had good results with leaving bad reviews everywhere when she had a problem with a company. If you have photographs I would even try a newspaper.

MyJulyUsername · 27/07/2026 08:25

slowingdown1 · 27/07/2026 00:04

With small claims court - would I be claiming against the sitter herself or Rover? Of the first, I only have her first name and contact number and I highly doubt she would be forthcoming with more details.

In my experience just sending the smalls claims claim makes people pay up. Who did you send the money to, Rover or the pet sitter? That’s who you would claim against. I would also kick up a stink on social media. This is the sort of story that goes viral.

slowingdown1 · 27/07/2026 08:35

I paid in advance to Rover, but they insisted the refund would come direct from sitter (which it then didn’t when she changed her mind) so it feels blurry to me with regard to who I would be naming as responsible. I also only have the sitter’s name, no contact details.

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Gemilo · 27/07/2026 08:39

Do they have an instagram or facebook account? If so post on there every day about your experience. Warn people off. Hit them where it hurts. In my experience they do something to make it stop.

slowingdown1 · 27/07/2026 08:40

Unfortunately I am a tech dinosaur and don’t have any social media. Rarely do I wish I did but this is one of those times!

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AbzMoz · 27/07/2026 08:52

slowingdown1 · 27/07/2026 00:04

With small claims court - would I be claiming against the sitter herself or Rover? Of the first, I only have her first name and contact number and I highly doubt she would be forthcoming with more details.

I’d pause the reviews and credit card reclaim etc with Rover and pursue small claims against the sitter for failure to deliver service, damages caused to your carpets etc as a result of failing to deliver that service, and negligence against the dog.
Maybe ask on the legal forum for specific guidance in Scottish small claims (though a quick google makes this sound straightforward).

PurpleVine · 27/07/2026 08:57

your poor dog, hopefully she is ok now.

small claims definitely - friend used it and it's quite straightforward there's guidance on the website for what you need to do.

Agapornis · 27/07/2026 09:34

slowingdown1 · 27/07/2026 08:35

I paid in advance to Rover, but they insisted the refund would come direct from sitter (which it then didn’t when she changed her mind) so it feels blurry to me with regard to who I would be naming as responsible. I also only have the sitter’s name, no contact details.

You paid it to Rover - you should claim from Rover. You paid at the point of booking - the sitter doesn't get paid by then until after the booking is completed.

You need to claim for the full amount you paid, which is not what the sitter received. Rover charged you a fee as well as the sitter, normally 15% to the sitter and another % to you. For example, for my petsitting I charge £14, of which Rover takes 15% so I get £11.90. I think owners pay £17, so that means they pay another 20% on top of what I ask. It comes down to me only getting 70% of what owners pay Rover. Yes, their fees are extortionate.

You could claim for damages separately against the sitter but that's a legal issue rather than a straight refund. Do you have legal advice services with your home insurance? They'll likely advise you to claim through your bank in the first instance.

Bigmove25 · 27/07/2026 12:29

Chat GPT is your friend. It will talk you through what to do. Credit card/bank charge back first. Then smalls claims court for the company/sitter (including damage to your property) and contact the RSPCA as this is cruelty and I’d want to report the company (and they might be some one somewhere building a case against them already!). Poor dog.

HayzeeFantayzee · 27/07/2026 12:33

I haven't read the entire thread so not sure if anyone else has recommended this already, but I suggest you email the CEO Brent Turner. I find that this is most likely to get an outcome in these type of instances. His email address should be [email protected] or [email protected]
Worth a try and if you put the basic info into AI then it will create an appropriate email complaint for you.
Best of luck.

Caramac045 · 27/07/2026 13:06

Gross negligence and abuse. Your poor dog. Happy to read that she has settled now but what awful behaviour from the sitter.

Agapornis · 28/07/2026 17:19

Correction to my earlier post re it taking 2 weeks for a review to appear - it's actually 21 days / 3 weeks. See screenshot below.

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