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AIBU to dispute Rover charge after pet sitter failed agreed care?

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slowingdown1 · Yesterday 01:30

I booked X through Rover to provide in-home pet sitting for one week at a cost of £431.
Before the booking, i met with the sitter, showed her the house and Pets and talked everything through. I provided a clear written routine for my dog. This included three walks each day: a morning walk, an evening walk and a short bedtime walk. I checked in with X regularly during the booking, and she did not tell me that she was unable or unwilling to follow this routine.
When I returned home, I found a hole in the stair wall, dirty floors, an unmade bed with a wet towel left on it, extensive dog mess throughout the garden and dried dog food left on a disposable plate, which the sitter would have had to dig through my
cupboard to even find it which is odd. It would have slipped on the tiled floor making it impossible for my dog to properly eat. My dog has a ceramic bowl and a designated area to eat which I showed her, so this makes no sense to me.
My dog had also urinated on carpets across four rooms and appeared distressed, panting and temporarily unable to bark.
After I reviewed the ring door bell footage, X later admitted in writing that she had not followed the agreed walking schedule. She said that during the first part of the booking she had skipped the bedtime walk, and during the second part my dog had received very limited walks. She confirmed that my dog had not been walked at all during the final two days and had only been allowed into the garden.
X initially offered a full refund through Rover and confirmed this in writing. I therefore contacted Rover and submitted a detailed complaint, including photographs, written statements and screenshots of X admitting that she had not provided the agreed care.
Despite repeated telephone calls and emails, Rover did not promptly resolve the complaint. X subsequently withdrew her offer of a full refund and stated that she had decided to offer only £120 because she had “walked the dog approximately 10 times but can’t remember” and cared for the car and house.
I did not accept the £120 offer because the service provided was substantially different from the service booked. The agreed walking routine was not followed, there were no walks during the final two days, my dog urinated throughout the house, and the property was left damaged and in an unacceptable condition.
AIBU to raise a credit card dispute? Is this futile? I’m utterly bemused as to how an incompetent and unsafe sitter can decide their refund amount!

OP posts:
Ilovewatchingthedrama · Yesterday 20:47

Raise a credit card dispute and also send a letter before action for a small claims case

MuttsNutts · Yesterday 20:50

@slowingdown1 I am so sorry for you and your poor girl, I would be absolutely raging if someone had treated my dog like that and it’s hard to understand how someone could abuse your trust so badly. I’m sure you should be able to pursue a CC claim if Rover won’t refund you in full - I wouldn’t waste any more time on them to be honest, I’d contact my bank straight away.

I’m not a dog sitter but I’ve always had dogs and if you were close enough (I’m in the north east) I’d be happy to help you out if you were ever stuck, rather than think of your poor wee girl suffering anything even close to what happened to her ever again. Obviously I realise you don’t know me either but the offer’s there. I’m just so upset on your behalf!

ARingtoit · Yesterday 20:52

I was planning to book on Rover this weekend for our holidays 🙃. Glad you've posted this!

ny20005 · Yesterday 21:06

Absolutely raise a chargeback with your credit card company. You’ve got much more payment protection with a credit card

Pistachiocake · Yesterday 21:32

If your dog was effectively mistreated and your house damaged I would speak to a lawyer/the police to ask what specific charges can be brought. I wouldn't be as worried about compensation (though yes, you deserve it in the same way as if a nanny let your house get wrecked) as about making sure this person faced consequences, as next time a sitter could fail to leave water/without the right can of food, some dogs could literally die (some breeds have to have particular food/medication at particular times).

VivIsBlonde · Yesterday 21:36

Owwdi · Yesterday 02:23

Holy shit, that’s awful OP. I’m a sitter myself and I started out on Rover. I realised straightaway that Rover doesn’t cover insurance for sitters, so I took out my own insurance from the get go. But lots of people on there either don’t realise or don’t care they need their own insurance. It’s shocking really. So I wouldn’t count on your sitter having insurance, she doesn’t seem like the diligent type.

However you as the client are covered by the Rover guarantee. Rover takes a significant percentage of each booking payment, and this is to cover the client if anything goes wrong. Don’t let it drop, they should absolutely pay up.

It’s infuriating, we had a sitter years ago (not through Rover) who didn’t stay at the house, killed the cat, rode the horses without permission, damaged our property…the list goes on. Never got a penny or even an apology from the sitter when caught out.

The sitter I used to use when I had my dog was also registered with DEFRA

EastEndQueen · Yesterday 21:42

The Rover site is American and private equity owned and awful. You won’t get anywhere with them, although you are absolutely in the right

I used Cat in a Flat for years and they have been bought by Rover. It’s now impossible to navigate. I tried to extended my booking to include a few extra visits and it literally took about a week of arguing with AI bots. I only continue as I have a nice local sitter who books through them and she won’t take unofficial bookings

IFancyABaconSarnie · Yesterday 22:11

I would be livid. How cruel! Your poor dog! 😞

StrikeForever · Yesterday 22:40

I had a similar bad experience (not through Rover). It resulted in me using a very good boarding Kennals instead of a home sitter. God help us if the place ever closes because I wouldn’t usually trust Kennels either.

SomeOtherUser · Yesterday 23:31

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:26

I have left an honest review which doesn’t not seem to have been published on the site yet 🧐

Post one on Trustpilot and not on their website - that way they dont control whether it is public or not!

Maisey1991 · Yesterday 23:58

Someone legal needs to advise you surely this is some kind of breech of contract AND neglect???

PloddingAlong21 · Today 07:13

Wow.

I am not a dog owner, I actually don’t even like dogs…but this post has made me really cross!! The ‘pet sitter’ sounds utterly vile and honestly really quite cruel to treat your dog this way.

I think you’re being too calm - I would go to town with Rover on this, I would most definitely be raising a dispute with the bank and wouldn’t let them have a penny. I would also be pursuing costs for the carpets.

Your poor poor dog. My friend is a vet nurse who runs a pet sitting business on the side. It can be worth asking Vets Practice for recommendations for pet sitting services as many reputable ones drop leaflets in to them, so when asked they can suggest. I can’t imagine the dodgy ones would do this (you never know though).

Also what on earth happened for there to be a hole under the stairs?!?

PloddingAlong21 · Today 07:15

As poster above me says - I would be posting this in legal section.

Floratheexplorer57 · Today 07:51

I would be writing to Rover to say that you will be taking this up with your bank - if you paid by credit card you have additional protection. I might also threaten to let a national newspaper consumer columnist know about it as I think it would be a good story for them. I think with a dog involved as well - your poor dog having to put up with this!

dottiedodah · Today 07:59

I think pet sitters are often dodgy.friends abroad left their home and dogs for 2 weeks with some sitters.house was trashed completely! Hole in ceiling and water damage.dogs mess not cleared up.

Emeraldforest · Today 08:01

I'm so furious on your behalf, I hope you get some recompense. Honestly, it makes you wonder who you can trust.

Kokonimater · Today 08:12

Name and shame on all social media sites. This is appalling.
Rover needs to step up.
and that person needs to be outed.

IrisApril · Today 08:21

Obviously you should get the refund, but leaving your dog home alone for a week is SO weird???? Even paying someone to visit thrice a day. So the dog is alone every night???

How do you know some of the poo/wee in the house wasn’t done overnight?

Why do you not have internal cameras to keep an eye on your dog?

We use Rover - met some fantastic people and never had an issue actually. The sitters always adore our dog, send lots of pics and he has a fab holiday. But obviously the dog goes to their house for the week. He doesn’t stay in our empty house alone. I wouldn’t dream of it.

I think a big part of the blame is on you as well. A dog isn’t a cat or a guinea pig. You can’t just leave it loose in the house by itself for a week, and alone overnight.

user784970 · Today 08:26

IrisApril · Today 08:21

Obviously you should get the refund, but leaving your dog home alone for a week is SO weird???? Even paying someone to visit thrice a day. So the dog is alone every night???

How do you know some of the poo/wee in the house wasn’t done overnight?

Why do you not have internal cameras to keep an eye on your dog?

We use Rover - met some fantastic people and never had an issue actually. The sitters always adore our dog, send lots of pics and he has a fab holiday. But obviously the dog goes to their house for the week. He doesn’t stay in our empty house alone. I wouldn’t dream of it.

I think a big part of the blame is on you as well. A dog isn’t a cat or a guinea pig. You can’t just leave it loose in the house by itself for a week, and alone overnight.

She didnt leave her dog- this was IN HOME pet sitting so the sitter stays in your house...

Perhaps read the OP properly first before you go on the attack 🙄

LancashireButterPie · Today 08:45

QuirkyHorse · Yesterday 02:53

Dog sitters need to be licensed and abide by the Animal Welfare Act, just like kennels and home boarders do.
People see it as making a quick buck - they charge as much/more as home boarders without the the overhead of paying to be licensed.

Glad your dog has settled with time.
There will be decent sitters near you, you just need to find them.

Do dog sitters really need to be registered? And if so with whom?

I didn't even know that house/ pet sitters get paid. There are several sites (Trusted house sitters and House sitters UK) where no money changes hands at all.

DH and I have recently registered with one as we are retired, love dogs and fancy seeing the country for free. We don't expect any payment at all.

QuirkyHorse · Today 08:47

LancashireButterPie · Today 08:45

Do dog sitters really need to be registered? And if so with whom?

I didn't even know that house/ pet sitters get paid. There are several sites (Trusted house sitters and House sitters UK) where no money changes hands at all.

DH and I have recently registered with one as we are retired, love dogs and fancy seeing the country for free. We don't expect any payment at all.

No, they don't need to be registered as yet but there are moves afoot for them to be licensed.

My "need" was misinterpreted.
I meant they need to be licensed rather than they have to be licensed.

FunnyOrca · Today 08:58

I am so sorry. We once had a similar problem that a sitter was booked for two visits per day but only did one. We had a family member take over as it was during our honeymoon and causing a lot of unnecessary stress. She never admitted it, but Pawshake agreed to remove her from the app. I highly recommend Pawshake because of this. The money didn’t matter to me so much as the fact she had neglected my pets and put them at risk.

Though, saying that there was no damage to our home because of her actions. I would defiantly be wanting my money bank to cover repairs in your situation, but also get this person taken off Rover and have a look at Pawshake, lots of vet nurses and students around.

Agapornis · Today 09:04

Reviews get published either after you've both left reviews, or after two weeks.

I'm a catsitter and Cat In A Flat and Rover (same thing) takes 15% from me, 15% from the cat owner (used to be 19%+£2.50 booking fee before CIAF got bought out). It's not my only source of bookings as I think 30% is extortionate.

Have you reminded them that as they operate in the UK, they need to follow consumer law? Services must be performed with reasonable care and skill
https://www.which.co.uk/consumer-rights/regulation/consumer-rights-act-aKJYx8n5KiSl#:~:text=Consumer%20Contracts%20Regulations-,Supply%20of%20a%20service

Perhaps consider somewhere like Trusted Housesitters.

Consumer Rights Act 2015 - Which?

The Consumer Rights Act protects you in almost all purchases you make. Here we explain what it means when buying goods or services

https://www.which.co.uk/consumer-rights/regulation/consumer-rights-act-aKJYx8n5KiSl#:~:text=Consumer%20Contracts%20Regulations-,Supply%20of%20a%20service

Agapornis · Today 09:06

Do you have legal support with your home insurance?

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · Today 09:06

Take what you have written here and put it on any local facebook groups for local dog people, dog walkers etc etc. this is a terrible thing to happen and the bad publicity will be a huge thing for them

id also contact the RSPCA and see if they can have a word that could have a bigger effect

and damaging your house sounds like you could take firther

id be tempted to write a legal sounding threat to the sitter themselves. The arrangement you have is with them, not Rover. I’d be asking for a full refund and the costs of all the damage

if anyone did this to my dog I’d be printing pictures of them and putting them up around the local park

awful awful person