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AIBU to dispute Rover charge after pet sitter failed agreed care?

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slowingdown1 · Yesterday 01:30

I booked X through Rover to provide in-home pet sitting for one week at a cost of £431.
Before the booking, i met with the sitter, showed her the house and Pets and talked everything through. I provided a clear written routine for my dog. This included three walks each day: a morning walk, an evening walk and a short bedtime walk. I checked in with X regularly during the booking, and she did not tell me that she was unable or unwilling to follow this routine.
When I returned home, I found a hole in the stair wall, dirty floors, an unmade bed with a wet towel left on it, extensive dog mess throughout the garden and dried dog food left on a disposable plate, which the sitter would have had to dig through my
cupboard to even find it which is odd. It would have slipped on the tiled floor making it impossible for my dog to properly eat. My dog has a ceramic bowl and a designated area to eat which I showed her, so this makes no sense to me.
My dog had also urinated on carpets across four rooms and appeared distressed, panting and temporarily unable to bark.
After I reviewed the ring door bell footage, X later admitted in writing that she had not followed the agreed walking schedule. She said that during the first part of the booking she had skipped the bedtime walk, and during the second part my dog had received very limited walks. She confirmed that my dog had not been walked at all during the final two days and had only been allowed into the garden.
X initially offered a full refund through Rover and confirmed this in writing. I therefore contacted Rover and submitted a detailed complaint, including photographs, written statements and screenshots of X admitting that she had not provided the agreed care.
Despite repeated telephone calls and emails, Rover did not promptly resolve the complaint. X subsequently withdrew her offer of a full refund and stated that she had decided to offer only £120 because she had “walked the dog approximately 10 times but can’t remember” and cared for the car and house.
I did not accept the £120 offer because the service provided was substantially different from the service booked. The agreed walking routine was not followed, there were no walks during the final two days, my dog urinated throughout the house, and the property was left damaged and in an unacceptable condition.
AIBU to raise a credit card dispute? Is this futile? I’m utterly bemused as to how an incompetent and unsafe sitter can decide their refund amount!

OP posts:
user784970 · Yesterday 07:07

I am so sorry OP, I would not drop this. As PP have said, contact card provider and dispute the charges or take to small claims court.

I have not used Rover since my one of their sitters allowed my dog to roam free in their front garden which didnt have a fence, was right next to a road, and she got hit by a car. This woman was allegedly a dog behaviourist too and was advertising herself online as one. Up until that point she had great reviews. Thankfully my dog was ok but the vets bills for x rays and scans of her paw ended up costing £5000. How she didnt break anything was an absolute miracle.

Rover did reimburse me the money through their insurance. The sitter did apologise profusely and kept telling me she was sorry, she apparently couldn't afford a fence in her front garden so why the hell she allowed my dog to run around in it still remains a mystery (her back garden was fenced).

I am not unreasonable, I accept that people make mistakes but deliberately allowing a dog to wander around in an area right next to a road when I had specifically told her not to is unfathomable to me- its sheer carelessness and stupidity and I told Rover this. I kept checking and she remained on the Rover for a few weeks after that, I noticed she started getting more negative reviews and then she disappeared so I hope she isnt still working as a dog sitter somewhere.

moose62 · Yesterday 07:12

This was unbelievably cruel to your pet.

I would leave a factual review, not only on their website as you have done, but on Trust Pilot, Facebook and any other social media you can find them on. Just to make sure what happened is 'out there' Just jeep posting.....

I would also try using the bank 'charge back' but if not, as others have said, threaten with the small claims court to get your money back.

Duvetdayneeded · Yesterday 07:22

Small claims court

Shatenoeuf · Yesterday 07:35

QuirkyHorse · Yesterday 02:53

Dog sitters need to be licensed and abide by the Animal Welfare Act, just like kennels and home boarders do.
People see it as making a quick buck - they charge as much/more as home boarders without the the overhead of paying to be licensed.

Glad your dog has settled with time.
There will be decent sitters near you, you just need to find them.

Do you mean they should be? At present theres no requirement for either dog sitters who come to your home, or dog walkers,to be licensed. It would be very difficult to impose as most people will occasionally have a friend pop in to feed a pet or walk a dog.

OP, I've actually moved away from "professional" pet sitters, there are too many out there who have realised its a license to print money and arent really bothered about the animals. I now have a cat worshipping local teenager who comes to feed and care for my cat when i go abroad. He is delighted to be paid about a third of what the "professionals" want & i see him on my back garden door camera fussing over the cat for hours & giving her treats.

My friend has a dog & has a group of dog owning friends who all help each other walk/check in on dogs if they are away & cant take pup. I would say most dog owners seem to do holidays where they take the dog rather than leaving it home for long periods

Owwdi · Yesterday 07:37

QuirkyHorse · Yesterday 02:53

Dog sitters need to be licensed and abide by the Animal Welfare Act, just like kennels and home boarders do.
People see it as making a quick buck - they charge as much/more as home boarders without the the overhead of paying to be licensed.

Glad your dog has settled with time.
There will be decent sitters near you, you just need to find them.

Sadly this is wrong. Dog sitting in the client’s home is unregulated and there is no licence and no legal requirement to have any insurance or anything. Conscientious sitters will have insurance, first aid training and a DBS check, but you don’t HAVE to.

Boarding is different and yes you do need a licence for this, although there are many unlicensed home boarders.

QuirkyHorse · Yesterday 07:52

@Shatenoeuf I said sitters need to be licensed.
Yes it will be difficult, there are many many home boarders already operating under the radar and sitters will be harder to police. Sadly, the people who do the licensing are responsible for inspecting food outlets, which takes precedent over tracking down subversive home boarders.

A friend popping in to feed a pet isn't the same as someone taking cold hard cash to care for your pet.

@Owwdi it isn't wrong, they aren't licensed and neither are dog walkers.
Both of these are currently under review by DEFRA, hopefully there will be change in the future.

WaitingForMojo · Yesterday 07:52

All these horror stiries of pet sitters are shocking and terrifying. Your poor dog, OP, you must be so angry.

I had an experience with a crappy one last year, who similarly trashed my house, let dogs out on the road without leads, and I don’t think she was walking them as often or for as long as she promised. I paid £900 for a fortnight, and it wasn’t through an agency - but i just left it and I wish I’d been more assertive and insisted on a refund. Do all you can, OP. There’s so much trust involved with pet sitters, this makes me so angry.

WaitingForMojo · Yesterday 07:54

QuirkyHorse · Yesterday 07:52

@Shatenoeuf I said sitters need to be licensed.
Yes it will be difficult, there are many many home boarders already operating under the radar and sitters will be harder to police. Sadly, the people who do the licensing are responsible for inspecting food outlets, which takes precedent over tracking down subversive home boarders.

A friend popping in to feed a pet isn't the same as someone taking cold hard cash to care for your pet.

@Owwdi it isn't wrong, they aren't licensed and neither are dog walkers.
Both of these are currently under review by DEFRA, hopefully there will be change in the future.

Edited - I read your post in the same way @owwdi did, as saying that pet sitters require a licence.

Platypusdiver · Yesterday 08:04

Sorry to the OP. That sounds awful!

I also had a bad experience with Rover. We interviewed 3 people to walk our lovely dog Only 1 seemed competent. She turned out to be unable to handle him and gave up immediately, leaving us screwed.

We used Facebook and asking around. Since, we have found very trustworthy people (neither of whom have any problems with the dog).

I wouldn't use rover again. What's the point when there is no guarantee and it just costs more?

MsGreying · Yesterday 08:12

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:26

I have left an honest review which doesn’t not seem to have been published on the site yet 🧐

Trust pilot.

RunningJo · Yesterday 08:16

Reading that makes my heart ache - your poor dog.

I’ve heard some very mixed things about Rover, this was after I’d contacted someone, discussed details with them, tried to sort a date and then radio silence. That was enough to put me off.

I would email Rover to say that have 7 days to reimburse you in full for the booking, and that you are currently obtaining quotes to get your carpets cleaned and any repairs made due to the negligence of one of their sitters.
I’d absolute do small claims court for it all if they mess you around. I’d also be putting this on local Facebook pages as well to make people aware. I’d also contact the press I’d be so enraged!

I can’t imagine having someone’s pet to look after and just not doing it, not caring enough to not do your best for them.

BeKhakiReader · Yesterday 08:19

Nothing to add other than to agree with pp about going nuclear.

Please give beautiful doggy a big kiss from me and tell she is the best girl. Bloody hell, I’d have violent inclinations if this was my animal.

Gemilo · Yesterday 08:20

Did you pay by credit card? I would definitely try to claw it back. Is it also worth threatening to take her to court for animal abuse and neglect. Give her a fright to make her reimburse you.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · Yesterday 08:26

Your poor dog.
I would definately go down the Small Claims route (just checked it is up to £10,000)

Not only the damage to your property but the neglect to your dog .
You didn't ask a neighbour or the teeenager next door to pop in and throw some food down and let the dog out for a pee .

You actively engaged a service . They failed to provide the service . Not just failed but spectacularly failed .

DancingNotDrowning · Yesterday 08:27

QuirkyHorse · Yesterday 07:52

@Shatenoeuf I said sitters need to be licensed.
Yes it will be difficult, there are many many home boarders already operating under the radar and sitters will be harder to police. Sadly, the people who do the licensing are responsible for inspecting food outlets, which takes precedent over tracking down subversive home boarders.

A friend popping in to feed a pet isn't the same as someone taking cold hard cash to care for your pet.

@Owwdi it isn't wrong, they aren't licensed and neither are dog walkers.
Both of these are currently under review by DEFRA, hopefully there will be change in the future.

Need implies a requirement - your post wasn’t clear

CatGuardian · Yesterday 08:33

Rover have now taken over Cat in a Flat which is where I found my lovely regular cat sitter. It's a real shame as there are great sitters on there who now have to work with stupid systems, such as now payment is taken when you make the booking - even if it's months away - rather than on the first day as it used to be. Lots of people unhappy including good pet sitters.

Iheartmysmart · Yesterday 08:47

Your poor dog OP, the sitter sounds utterly incompetent and uncaring.

We used to home board our spaniel as he couldn’t cope in a kennel environment. The first few times were great and he had a lovely time living with a couple of different families.

The third time was a disaster though. Our dog was very territorial and we made it clear he would have to be the only dog. Unknown to us, the boarder took on a second dog at the same time and of course ours was not happy. When we got home, our dog had been sent miles away to a person we’d never met and who lived in a very built up area so the poor chap had only had short pavement walks for two weeks rather than his usual chasing around the fields for ages.

We complained and got a partial refund but never boarded him again. He either came with us or went to my parents.

Nopenousername · Yesterday 09:00

I had a horrible experience with Rover. Just clicking on this thread gave me PTSD. Nothing useful to add apart from good on you for disputing their nonsense T&C’s

youandmeandadognamedboo · Yesterday 09:03

How absolutely awful for you and your dog. I am so sorry that this has happened to you and really disappointed that this particular dog sitter did not have any respect for you, your dog or indeed your home. I am a dog sitter and I abide by every single instruction given to me. I leave the home clean and tidy, in fact one of my client’s asked which bed had I slept in because everything was so tidy! I also take a little toy for the dog to keep that I am looking after. It’s just my thing!

I take lots of photos and videos daily, I even make them into little funny stories and captions, because I am a dog lover and owner, but mainly because I care!

BiteSizedLife · Yesterday 09:10

What the duck

and that is only what you witnessed. Your poor dog I'd wonder if she was even kind to him.

Ellie1015 · Yesterday 09:54

Awful, I would expect a full refund and assurance from Rover they would not be using this pet sitter anymore. Your poor dog.

Coco1379 · Yesterday 10:09

Post up your complaint on Trustpilot, and threaten to go to small claims court to recover money for damages for breach of contract and damage to your house and garden.

maudelovesharold · Yesterday 10:23

It’s infuriating, we had a sitter years ago (not through Rover) who didn’t stay at the house, killed the cat, rode the horses without permission, damaged our property…the list goes on. Never got a penny or even an apology from the sitter when caught out.

That sounds horrific. How can these people be allowed to get away with it? Could you have proved any criminality - animal cruelty or the like?

RunningJo · Yesterday 11:35

youandmeandadognamedboo · Yesterday 09:03

How absolutely awful for you and your dog. I am so sorry that this has happened to you and really disappointed that this particular dog sitter did not have any respect for you, your dog or indeed your home. I am a dog sitter and I abide by every single instruction given to me. I leave the home clean and tidy, in fact one of my client’s asked which bed had I slept in because everything was so tidy! I also take a little toy for the dog to keep that I am looking after. It’s just my thing!

I take lots of photos and videos daily, I even make them into little funny stories and captions, because I am a dog lover and owner, but mainly because I care!

You sound perfect! I wish more were like you, then I’d not struggle to find someone

EverMissWicklowSometimes · Yesterday 11:40

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