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AIBU to dispute Rover charge after pet sitter failed agreed care?

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slowingdown1 · Yesterday 01:30

I booked X through Rover to provide in-home pet sitting for one week at a cost of £431.
Before the booking, i met with the sitter, showed her the house and Pets and talked everything through. I provided a clear written routine for my dog. This included three walks each day: a morning walk, an evening walk and a short bedtime walk. I checked in with X regularly during the booking, and she did not tell me that she was unable or unwilling to follow this routine.
When I returned home, I found a hole in the stair wall, dirty floors, an unmade bed with a wet towel left on it, extensive dog mess throughout the garden and dried dog food left on a disposable plate, which the sitter would have had to dig through my
cupboard to even find it which is odd. It would have slipped on the tiled floor making it impossible for my dog to properly eat. My dog has a ceramic bowl and a designated area to eat which I showed her, so this makes no sense to me.
My dog had also urinated on carpets across four rooms and appeared distressed, panting and temporarily unable to bark.
After I reviewed the ring door bell footage, X later admitted in writing that she had not followed the agreed walking schedule. She said that during the first part of the booking she had skipped the bedtime walk, and during the second part my dog had received very limited walks. She confirmed that my dog had not been walked at all during the final two days and had only been allowed into the garden.
X initially offered a full refund through Rover and confirmed this in writing. I therefore contacted Rover and submitted a detailed complaint, including photographs, written statements and screenshots of X admitting that she had not provided the agreed care.
Despite repeated telephone calls and emails, Rover did not promptly resolve the complaint. X subsequently withdrew her offer of a full refund and stated that she had decided to offer only £120 because she had “walked the dog approximately 10 times but can’t remember” and cared for the car and house.
I did not accept the £120 offer because the service provided was substantially different from the service booked. The agreed walking routine was not followed, there were no walks during the final two days, my dog urinated throughout the house, and the property was left damaged and in an unacceptable condition.
AIBU to raise a credit card dispute? Is this futile? I’m utterly bemused as to how an incompetent and unsafe sitter can decide their refund amount!

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Anyahyacinth · Yesterday 18:49

Sounds absolutely awful definitely dispute and take further.

I thought perhaps it was during the heatwave when walking wasn't advised but no excuses for not keeping clean and toileted ...what an awful situation to return to.

PolkaDotPorridge · Yesterday 18:50

I would be arrested because she would be in receipt of some bruises. What a cruel bitch.

Chattanoogachoo · Yesterday 18:54

So sorry to hear of your experience.I went on holiday recently and my daughter moved in to look after my elderly dog.He was treated well but still got stressed, panting and lost his bark.
Your poor dog wasn't treated well and I really sympathize.

vegemitesandwiches · Yesterday 19:02

This is awful. I am so sorry your dog went through this.

However, Rover is just a directory/website. Anyone can upload their details on there - it doesn't mean they have experience or insurance or are in any way qualified to work with animals. The "Rover Guarantee" isn't worth the paper its' written on - all sitters in the UK need their own private insurance policy.

Please never, ever use Rover again. Look for a reputable company who can show you proof of insurance, qualifications and first aid training, and proper, verified reviews and photos from happy customers.

GreggsistentialCrisis · Yesterday 19:03

Owwdi · Yesterday 15:30

They do all this on Rover too. But it’s easy enough to get a few mates to say you’re good with animals.

Yeo. They should only allow verified reviews, so once a session has been finished.

21ZIGGY · Yesterday 19:13

I would post this far and wide and sue the fuck out of her and rover

CalliopeFosterBeauchamp · Yesterday 19:18

mondaytosunday · Yesterday 13:45

i and two friends use Trustedhousesitters.com. Never had an issue. And after the registration fee it’s free - you don’t pay the sitter. I get daily pix of my animals and the house is always tidy when I return and pets happy (two dogs and two cats last time I used them). My friends have been happy with the service too.

I used trustedhousesitters a few years ago. My sitter told me she had to leave early in the morning of the day I was due back. I said that was fine, just put down extra food for my cats, and lock up etc.

Got home around 5ish to find she’d left my front door not only unlocked but wide open. For 10 hours. On a busy road in London.

Obviously I complained, sent photos etc. THS could not have been less interested. Accused me of staging the photo (like I had nothing better to do while dealing with jet lag and three weeks’ worth of laundry). At least the cats seemed ok…

eviesparrowcottage · Yesterday 19:19

You are not being unreasonable at all. The company shouldn't let this person dog sit for them anymore! Do you have TikTok? Honestly if I were you I would create a video explaining everything and tag Rover in it. If it gets traction it wouldn't take long for them to do something about it! They would hate the negative press and try to rectify the situation (hopefully!)
If you create a video let us know and post it here so we can help you spread it.

Owwdi · Yesterday 19:19

GreggsistentialCrisis · Yesterday 19:03

Yeo. They should only allow verified reviews, so once a session has been finished.

They do once you’re up and running, but to register on there you have to get reviews from people you know, so could be your mum or whoever.

MyDeftDuck · Yesterday 19:19

This is appalling OP, your poor dog must have been distraught to have their routine broken and you’d gone to extreme lengths to get it organised and had faith that the dog would be well looked after. Dreadful service and one to avoid MNetters!

Porkpieandmustard · Yesterday 19:27

Mydogisagentleman · Yesterday 06:57

Can't come. Of course he can't comment

But if he could he’d say “thank you for not leaving me with the Rover lady”

foodiefil · Yesterday 19:32

Take photos and go to the media I promise you they will be interested and shame this awful company and person I am so sorry your poor dog!!! I’d do time if it was my dog. Actually no I wouldn’t cos I’d miss my dog but my god I would be so angry!!!

Schoolchoicesucks · Yesterday 19:41

Gosh that's shocking, your poor dog.
Initially I was wondering if there was any reason for fewer walks - eg due to the heatwave and not being able to take the dog out other than very early morning or late night - but there's no excuse for the absolute neglect of your dog and the impact on your home.
I'm glad your dog is recovering. If nothing else, at least you are making people aware of the risks of using a service like that. Word or mouth sitters or regulated kennels clearly the only way to go.

CountryMouse22 · Yesterday 19:45

You are NOT being unreasonable. It sounds like a nightmare appointment and I can't see how they could ever begin to repair the damage. And I am still reeling about the price!

Buildingthefuture · Yesterday 19:46

It is incredibly, incredibly difficult to find decent, reliable dog sitters. Lots of people promise the earth but do not deliver, as you have discovered op. It is the ONLY thing that makes me think I won’t have dogs in the future, because it is so ridiculously difficult, despite paying vast sums of money, to find anyone remotely competent and reliable.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · Yesterday 19:47

As for the cat, to be fair he was old and wouldn’t have lasted much longer. But whilst we were away he developed an abscess on his head which she didn’t notice or do anything about, and was too ill to go downstairs to go out, so spent his last days in the bathroom in a lot of pain, the bath mat was soaked with piss. He had to be put to sleep as soon as we got back and saw the state of him

.Oh Shock that is one of the saddest things I have read. I know cats can be very insular and recalcitrant ( I have two) but it is unbearable to think how his last days panned out because his sitter didn't think "Hmm the cat's acting a bit odd" and investigate .

JJWT · Yesterday 19:48

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 01:42

I submitted all this (with photo evidence) and they have come
back to say the sitter determines the refund amount. I feel like I’ve fallen down a hole in Alice in Wonderland!

Send them a legal letter before action. Make it clear you have a solicitor and are going to sue. That you intend to have a full refund and new carpets and house repairs plus compensation for distress. I think they will swiftly make an offer.

WiddlinDiddlin · Yesterday 19:49

Letter before action to both Rover and sitter.

Try the charge back on your card.

Then SCC, seeking refund as the service you paid for was not provided and partial service here = no service at all (as you would not have paid for less than the full service you needed).

And seeking recompense for the damage done and distress caused.

I think Rover CAN refund if they want to but they won't if they don't think you're serious. Do check how long you have for the charge back though, it won't be long.

SurferRona · Yesterday 20:03

slowingdown1 · Yesterday 02:26

I have left an honest review which doesn’t not seem to have been published on the site yet 🧐

Honest review of Rover on trip advisor and name the sitter. Can’t not publish that 🤷‍♀️

Ireallywantadoughnut36 · Yesterday 20:11

I think this is about more than just the money, it's neglect and animal cruelty from the sound of it, especially if your dog couldn't eat or toilet normally. I'd be following up in other ways. There are online groups to name and share bad pet sitters, they should also be registered/licensed so could try the council, and any online review options. I'd potentially see online if there is any recourse to stop her doing this to another family/pet. It's horrid leaving them and worrying, to return to this must have been awful.
I'd definitely keep following up for a refund, but my main worry would be ensuring she stops trading as this person should not be looking after animals.
We found our pet sitter on Rover and she was amazing! Still use her now and she is so good with our dog, sends me pictures of his walks and the cat having his dinner etc.

Humblebumbley · Yesterday 20:18

Oh how awful, I’m so sorry for your poor pup!

Unfortunately so many of these ‘middle man’ companies take sizeable chunks for booking fees or guarantees and then are absolutely useless and infuriating when the help they promise is needed.

I’ve had similar situations with Vinted and AirBnB where they either wash their hands of an issue immediately or make the situation worse.

The only thing these companies will answer to is public complaints so don’t let up. Tag them on Facebook and Instagram and Twitter with posts saying how poor the service is. One star reviews on Trust Pilot and the App Store and anywhere else with details of the situation. And in the meantime email them daily with complaint noted in capitals in the subject line and clearly stating a full refund is the only appropriate resolution. Good luck!

Oh and I would put a review of the actual sitter on the Facebook groups for the areas she lives/works in. What she’s done is animal neglect and people should be warned not to use her. Especially if she doesn’t even have the good grace to accept she was wrong and provide the full refund.

Jensword · Yesterday 20:23

Get in touch with your home insurance. Given there is damage to the property they may be able to pursue it on your behalf.

OohThatCat · Yesterday 20:32

That’s really awful OP, your poor dog. I was a cat sitter for 8 years on another platform when I lived in London and bent over backwards for all of them, and their owners, even emergency vet trips when needed! I can’t imagine anyone being so dishonest. The platform I used to sit on switched to Rover and tbh I’ve not used it since, it just didn’t seem as robust as the platform I was using. I have a friend on it who house sits for us and many others and she would be horrified as well.

I hope you can leave factual reviews on the sitter and site, look to add reviews on Google and Trustpilot regarding the platform and their customer service as well. I hope your dog is better now.

TheresMillionsOfGeoffreys · Yesterday 20:34

What terrible stories on here Sad
Have to say, if I was a criminal wanting free range in other peoples' houses with no real consequences, volunteering my services on these sorts of places would be an attractive option.

HollyhocksandPeons · Yesterday 20:36

Not dissimilar what would happen to the elderly relatives with failing faculties and their 'inhouse care workers' when you leave instructions for them. Basically, everything has to be videoed and stored in the cloud. Cameras everywhere, only solution.