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To think Taylor Swift is a big meanie for not releasing just 1 photo of her in her wedding dress?

158 replies

GallopingConsumption · 19/07/2026 21:01

Before anyone says "maybe she just wants to keep her entire wedding - including dress - private"...

  1. She's made her whole career about her personal life

  2. Her fans are often young girls who idolise her. (I have 2 nieces age 10 and 12 who are really disappointed they have seen nothing).

  3. Said fans have made her a billionaire and essentially therefore paid for the huge wedding!

  4. It's been over 2 weeks since said wedding so plenty of time for her to have relaxed afterwards and then selected a single sodding photo to release

  5. It's not like she needs to sell the photos for money

I think it's quite mean of her tbh. It would be less bad if she TOLD these young fans either "you will see the dress in my forthcoming documentary" or "I've decided to keep it private". At lease then they would know.

Signed

A 43 year old woman who no longer believes in romantic love but remembers what it was like to be 10-12 years old and fascinated by weddings and wedding dresses.

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Raquelos · 20/07/2026 14:54

Shloopie · 20/07/2026 14:15

the 'incel internet'? Ah yes, that would be a phrase coming from a crazed Swift fan who takes any criticism of their 'girl boss queen' as a personal slight.

Best of luck to you!

Edited

You sound deranged 😂

ApplebyArrows · 20/07/2026 14:54

If it had just been a small family and friends wedding I would understand more, but with the whole 1000 celebrity guests thing treating it as just a private thing doesn't really wash with me.

Raquelos · 20/07/2026 14:58

ApplebyArrows · 20/07/2026 14:54

If it had just been a small family and friends wedding I would understand more, but with the whole 1000 celebrity guests thing treating it as just a private thing doesn't really wash with me.

It's mildly fascinating to me that, even with that many people attending, there have been no substantive leaks. They really are keeping it private pretty effectively.

Shloopie · 20/07/2026 14:59

Raquelos · 20/07/2026 14:54

You sound deranged 😂

And again, best of luck.

SnowflakeSmasher86 · 20/07/2026 15:01

She didn’t publish the whole MSG debacle though did she? It was as hushed as it could be at the time, with nobody confirming it was even being used by them until the day itself. She tried her best to keep it on the lowdown but knowing that she’d be hunted by paps whatever she did, this was a solution that made sense. I certainly didn’t get the impression she was desperate for people to know about their big day, despite her clearly being very happy to share parts of her life with us.

In the words of Taylor herself “We tell the world to leave us the fuck alone, and they do. Wow”. Just give her a few weeks to enjoy being married to her gorgeous new husband without wanting “more more more.”

Raquelos · 20/07/2026 15:06

Shloopie · 20/07/2026 14:59

And again, best of luck.

with what?

mysterytwister · 20/07/2026 15:31

Empress13 · 20/07/2026 13:51

And how pray are you privy to this information? Wow you’ve even outdone the Daily Fail!

Travis was photographed training in Florida on Thursday so they equivocally not on some secret honeymoon together.

My magical, mystical insider information tells me there might be a long range photo of them at her Rhode Island house in the next few days though.

Saltysweetspicy · 22/07/2026 08:55

She will release something when it's time to make some money.

Or maybe when it's time to take the shine off another female like she usually does. Charli XCX releases her album in 2 days, maybe then?

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