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Confused how neighbour not impacted by hosepipe ban and I am...

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Confused876196 · 18/07/2026 13:26

Hose pipe ban - neighbour doesn't seem impacted...confused?!

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Noshadowsinthedarkness · 18/07/2026 13:27

In that they are still using it?

Maybe they have an exemption or maybe they are breaking the rule.

GCAcademic · 18/07/2026 13:28

Why are you confused? It will be either that they’re ignoring it or have an exemption.

HappiestSleeping · 18/07/2026 13:28

I am not sure what you mean? If you're saying that you are not using your hose, and they are, there are many possibilities. They could just be ignoring it, or they may have an exemption.

Confused876196 · 18/07/2026 13:29

Pressure.washer going!

Yeah, guess they could be disabled.

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HollyGolightly4 · 18/07/2026 13:30

Stop being passive aggressive! You aren't confused, you're irritated/annoyed by your neighbour.

Mydogisagentleman · 18/07/2026 13:30

My parents are allowed because mum has a blue badge

Darragon · 18/07/2026 13:30

HollyGolightly4 · 18/07/2026 13:30

Stop being passive aggressive! You aren't confused, you're irritated/annoyed by your neighbour.

Yeah the faux naivety is tedious.

Tel12 · 18/07/2026 13:30

We have one and I'm really fed up with it already. Soaked my feet this morning using the watering can. Dog is determined to drink as much as possible. Apparently there's no water shortage it's a distribution issue. Which probably means lack of investment.

Notonthestairs · 18/07/2026 13:31

HollyGolightly4 · 18/07/2026 13:30

Stop being passive aggressive! You aren't confused, you're irritated/annoyed by your neighbour.

Yes, this.
Just say what you mean to say and stop dancing around it.

frenchnoodle · 18/07/2026 13:31

Or maybe the word is jealous. Which is perfectly valid way to feel.

fost · 18/07/2026 13:31

Confused876196 · 18/07/2026 13:29

Pressure.washer going!

Yeah, guess they could be disabled.

That's a bit of a dick move unless they urgently need to clean a path for safety reasons.

I'm exempt but I'm still only using the hose to water my vegetables and not the lawn or other unneccessary uses.

RampantIvy · 18/07/2026 13:31

We had a lengthy hosepipe ban last summer but received a letter from Yorkshire Water to say that we are exempt.

DH is on the priority list with npower as he uses a CPAP machine so I think they must share data. However, a hosepipe ban doesn't affect him negatively so we stopped using our hosepipe because we aren't self entitled arseholes (and we live near several reservoirs which were scarily low and could see the impact of using too much water).

Thelonelyshrew · 18/07/2026 13:32

Fail to see why someone being disabled means the can use a hosepipe.

concertinacornflake · 18/07/2026 13:32

Some people genuinely don't know.
Some people have exemptions.
Some people break the law.

You can report if you wish to.

fost · 18/07/2026 13:32

Thelonelyshrew · 18/07/2026 13:32

Fail to see why someone being disabled means the can use a hosepipe.

You can't see how someone might be able to hold a hose but not lift a heavy watering can repeatedly? really?

concertinacornflake · 18/07/2026 13:33

Thelonelyshrew · 18/07/2026 13:32

Fail to see why someone being disabled means the can use a hosepipe.

Really? You can't see why someone with a disability might need an adjustment?

Carsexitthroughthecarpark · 18/07/2026 13:33

Tel12 · 18/07/2026 13:30

We have one and I'm really fed up with it already. Soaked my feet this morning using the watering can. Dog is determined to drink as much as possible. Apparently there's no water shortage it's a distribution issue. Which probably means lack of investment.

We live 100yds from a chalk stream river. There is definitely a shortage of water in the south.

frenchnoodle · 18/07/2026 13:33

Thelonelyshrew · 18/07/2026 13:32

Fail to see why someone being disabled means the can use a hosepipe.

Cleaning pathways, hoists and transportation equipment are three reasons.

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 18/07/2026 13:34

It's only on MN I see all this hysteria around the hosepipe ban. Most people are just cracking on as normal.

Thechaseison71 · 18/07/2026 13:34

Hmm up the road from me are 2 large houses next door to each other. One has a hosepipe ban and the other doesn't

Reasoning being they are in 2 different water areas. One is ES water so no ban, next door is Anglian water which has it

ShetlandishMum · 18/07/2026 13:35

fost · 18/07/2026 13:32

You can't see how someone might be able to hold a hose but not lift a heavy watering can repeatedly? really?

You don't have to have an official diagnosis to be in that situation.
People might be annoyed that it seems totally random with
exemptions.

frenchnoodle · 18/07/2026 13:35

Tel12 · 18/07/2026 13:30

We have one and I'm really fed up with it already. Soaked my feet this morning using the watering can. Dog is determined to drink as much as possible. Apparently there's no water shortage it's a distribution issue. Which probably means lack of investment.

There is a lack of water, and it's absolutely not helped by labour building more and more houses, for more and more people.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 18/07/2026 13:36

@Confused876196 Talk to them and find out that way.

concertinacornflake · 18/07/2026 13:38

frenchnoodle · 18/07/2026 13:35

There is a lack of water, and it's absolutely not helped by labour building more and more houses, for more and more people.

You really can't blame the Labour government, as much as you are desperate to, they have only been in power two years!

Plus climate change may be playing a teeny tiny part in the flood/drought cycle we now see.

TheSmallAssassin · 18/07/2026 13:39

ShetlandishMum · 18/07/2026 13:35

You don't have to have an official diagnosis to be in that situation.
People might be annoyed that it seems totally random with
exemptions.

They're not totally random, they are based around statuses that people already have, do you think someone should be going round to do a survey especially for this? I think there are better things to spend public money on.

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