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Confused how neighbour not impacted by hosepipe ban and I am...

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Confused876196 · 18/07/2026 13:26

Hose pipe ban - neighbour doesn't seem impacted...confused?!

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NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/07/2026 16:14

Confused876196 · 18/07/2026 13:58

Ooo, love to know what this is?

The ones online show them as being connected to the pressure washer by a hosepipe.

ThisSereneGoose · 18/07/2026 16:30

StarCourt · 18/07/2026 15:37

No idea why you think that’s funny and I think thousands of families would disagree with your viewpoint

It's not funny, I was being sarcastic, it destroys the countryside, but it's a complete lie that there's the shortage of houses people pretend there are.

People are fighting over locations, not actual properties. People also want the biggest properties without paying for them. Nothing to do with shortage.

Which "thousands of families" are living in the street right now?
If you pay market price, you find anything you want.

Ump · 18/07/2026 16:30

TurquoiseDress · 18/07/2026 13:40

How do you get an exemption from the hosepipe ban?

Asking for a friend 👀

You could read any of the numerous/repetitive threads about bans/exemptions from the last few days, or just look up the regulations that apply to where you live.

RampantIvy · 18/07/2026 16:31

HesterLeggatt · 18/07/2026 15:04

Disabled people who do still need to use the hosepipe aren’t arseholes either 🙄 Children with sensory needs might not be willing to wear a hat or stay in the shade but they will almost always be willing to splash in a paddling pool. People with mobility needs who can’t lift a watering can to water their plants aren’t arseholes. People who are immunocompromised so need to wash their car more regularly to make sure it’s a sanitary environment aren’t arseholes either. It’s great for you that your DH doesn’t need this adaptation but it doesn’t make you better than people who do need it, or make them arseholes for not choosing to go without something that helps them.

You have taken this completely the wrong way.

I am fully aware that disabled people have different needs, but the fact is that DH using a CPAP machine is not affected by being able to use a hosepipe. So we felt we were doing the right thing by complying with the ban, and therefore allowing those who would benefit from being able to use a hosepipe to do so.

Please don't make assumptions about me.

WeekendFreedom · 18/07/2026 16:32

StarCourt · 18/07/2026 14:54

If you don’t build the houses where are the people going to live ?

If the country stopped accepting everyone that crosses the border we’d have houses to home our own citizens

kortneyxzgilda · 18/07/2026 16:34

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shuggles · 18/07/2026 16:53

frenchnoodle · 18/07/2026 13:35

There is a lack of water, and it's absolutely not helped by labour building more and more houses, for more and more people.

There's supposed to be more houses, because there's supposed to be enough houses that everyone can buy one, provided they want to buy one and are able to do so.

There isn't supposed to be a housing shortage. That's an artificial situation intentionally created by the greedy trying to profit off of land and homes.

The average house price should probably be a fifth or a quarter of what it actually is - the rest of the cost is just artificial inflation. If houses were priced normally, living standards would actually be very high - the difficult living standards are caused by the wealthy creating artificial situations to squeeze money out of people.

NotMaysileeDonner · 18/07/2026 16:55

Hose pipe ban FAQ here -

https://www.water.org.uk/water-supply/hosepipe-bans-faqs

WimbyAce · 18/07/2026 17:02

How do you get notified about the ban?

ThisSereneGoose · 18/07/2026 17:03

WeekendFreedom · 18/07/2026 16:32

If the country stopped accepting everyone that crosses the border we’d have houses to home our own citizens

funny how there are places for these "foreigners" you seem to hate,
citizens could find properties if they wanted to , they just don't want to pay the market rate!

OttersOnAPlane · 18/07/2026 17:12

JudgeJ · 18/07/2026 15:58

If a watering can is filled from a regular tap then how is that supposed to save water? At the moment I'm still able to dunk a bucket into the water butt and fill the watering can that way but I can't see it going on much longer, either the butt will give up or I will, I'm 78 with knee problems!

Because filling watering cans to water the garden is hard work, so people only do the absolute essentials.

Whereas standing with the hose is a doddle so people water more of their garden, and for longer.

Ditto paddling pools - when schlepping 5l buckets down the garden over and over, one tends to fill to pool much shallower than when leaving a hose to do it

That's the point of a ban, to reduce some of the water usage before it gets to crisis point. Not to say no one can water a garden.

ThreadGuardDog · 18/07/2026 17:16

Thelonelyshrew · 18/07/2026 13:32

Fail to see why someone being disabled means the can use a hosepipe.

Because someone disabled may not be able to carry a bucket of water or a watering can. There is no ban on watering things as such, just the manner in which you do it, and if you have mobility problems or similar, a hosepipe is easier.

Yetone · 18/07/2026 17:18

Mydogisagentleman · 18/07/2026 13:30

My parents are allowed because mum has a blue badge

In most ( but not all) areas exemptions are only for essential things like health.

ThreadGuardDog · 18/07/2026 17:19

RampantIvy · 18/07/2026 16:31

You have taken this completely the wrong way.

I am fully aware that disabled people have different needs, but the fact is that DH using a CPAP machine is not affected by being able to use a hosepipe. So we felt we were doing the right thing by complying with the ban, and therefore allowing those who would benefit from being able to use a hosepipe to do so.

Please don't make assumptions about me.

Agree. I think the thing to keep in mind here is just because you can, doesn’t mean you should. Which is what you appear to be doing. Shame more people don’t take note.

Negroany · 18/07/2026 17:19

Swiftie1878 · 18/07/2026 15:40

To be clear, the government has built ZERO houses. Developers do that. The government is trying to make getting planning permission easier for developers, is all.

But then the developers just sit on that land (granted permission) as its value is raised by being able to be built upon. Then they get loans against the value of that land. Tax free.

It’s astonishing how naive every politician is who talks about bloody housing. If the houses were built that have already been approved, we wouldn’t have a housing crisis.

I'm aware that house builders build houses, thanks. (Not developers in fact)

ThreadGuardDog · 18/07/2026 17:19

Yetone · 18/07/2026 17:18

In most ( but not all) areas exemptions are only for essential things like health.

And a blue badge denotes exactly that. In a lot of areas the blue badge is suggested as proof you are exempt if challenged.

hypnovic · 18/07/2026 17:20

Thelonelyshrew · 18/07/2026 13:32

Fail to see why someone being disabled means the can use a hosepipe.

Because they cant lift a full watering can perhaps?!! Or bend to use it?! Or walk all way up and down the garden. Think yourself lucky you don't understand

Yetone · 18/07/2026 17:22

ThreadGuardDog · 18/07/2026 17:19

And a blue badge denotes exactly that. In a lot of areas the blue badge is suggested as proof you are exempt if challenged.

What I meant is that you can only use your exemption for essential things. Not for pressure washing a car etc.
A lot of people qualify for exemptions. Some on age alone.

ThreadGuardDog · 18/07/2026 17:24

ilovesooty · 18/07/2026 14:24

Unfathomable to you.

Pretty unfathomable to me too to be honest. I can understand those on disability/sickness benefits being exempt, or those with blue badges, but generally someone on benefits because they’re not working would be perfectly able to carry a bucket or a watering can for their needs. Why would they be exempt form a hosepipe ban ? Some areas only exempt those on the Watersure scheme, which to my mind is unfair because it only applies to those on means tested benefits, so wouldn’t cover all needs.

ThreadGuardDog · 18/07/2026 17:25

Yetone · 18/07/2026 17:22

What I meant is that you can only use your exemption for essential things. Not for pressure washing a car etc.
A lot of people qualify for exemptions. Some on age alone.

Ah, yes, see what you mean. I agree - as I said upthread, just because you can, doesn’t mean you should. We all need to consider others, whether exempt or not.

Swiftie1878 · 18/07/2026 17:25

Negroany · 18/07/2026 17:19

I'm aware that house builders build houses, thanks. (Not developers in fact)

In planning terms, house builders ARE developers.
Semantics.

SylvanMoon · 18/07/2026 17:27

RampantIvy · 18/07/2026 13:31

We had a lengthy hosepipe ban last summer but received a letter from Yorkshire Water to say that we are exempt.

DH is on the priority list with npower as he uses a CPAP machine so I think they must share data. However, a hosepipe ban doesn't affect him negatively so we stopped using our hosepipe because we aren't self entitled arseholes (and we live near several reservoirs which were scarily low and could see the impact of using too much water).

Yorkshire Water currently isn't imposing a hosepipe ban (at least not in my area) ...

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 18/07/2026 17:27

HollyGolightly4 · 18/07/2026 13:30

Stop being passive aggressive! You aren't confused, you're irritated/annoyed by your neighbour.

A lot of people seem to be confused about what confused actually means.

lljkk · 18/07/2026 17:30

We use a pressure washer fed off a water butt, husband bought some kind of connecting gismo.

Your water butt still has water in it???????????

WeekendFreedom · 18/07/2026 17:32

ThisSereneGoose · 18/07/2026 17:03

funny how there are places for these "foreigners" you seem to hate,
citizens could find properties if they wanted to , they just don't want to pay the market rate!

Why are you quoting (incorrectly I might add) foreigners? I didn’t use that word.
I also didn’t say I hate anyone