Quote "Judges says an eye for an eye .....because its about punishment fitting the crime for law keepers. We are supposed to trust those in this position to carry out the punishment fitting the crime."
An eye for an eye is an interesting one. And please correct me if I am wrong, I am just an atheist. An ex Christian one though. So I do know some of the Bible.
" An eye for an eye" first appears in Exodus 21. The Mosaic slave laws, and it refers to slaves. People other people own. The OT is big on that. Owning people is ok. Indeed, it is ordered.
It is expanded in Lev 24:20 - breach for breach, eye for eye, tooth for tooth; as he puts a blemish in a man so it is done in him. (LSV). But it is a bit awkward to use the Leviticus version, because Leviticus is just stuffed full of capital offences. So if religious folk want to use that version, they really should follow all of Leviticus. And no pork allowed. Leviticus is big on that.
Deu 19:21 And your eye does not pity--life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot.. Thats about witnesses.
Going back to your quote " "Judges says an eye for an eye...". Nope, it's not in Judges.
Next Jesus mentions it in Mat 5. Sermon on the mount, And that is where he says turn the other cheek. It is one of the few Mosaic laws that Jesus specifically mentions and overrides.
So I reckon Christians should follow the Jesus version.
And as I mentioned above, if people decide to keep a select few of the 635 or so Mosaic laws, then really, they should keep them all. Including the real non fun ones, such as about women on their period , as described in Lev 15. So if anyone wants the OT "eye for an eye", it's off to the shed for a week during periods. No shell fish. And no garments of mixed material as per Lev 19:19. And lots of stoning.
So yup. If a Cristian wants " an eye for an eye", they should be prepared to do all the other stuff that comes with it. In my opinion anyway.