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Bring back the death penalty in this case

162 replies

ThisWiseRobin · 17/07/2026 11:04

AIBU to wish for the death penalty. How a mother can kill her baby with a hairdryer.
I read this to my husband who asked me to stop and was crying.
I'm Christian and am taught that all but one sin is forgivable.
BUT Our Lord also said that to harm one little one , you are better to have a millstone tied around your neck and be thrown into the sea.
While some interpretations claim it means misleading them, I think it's much more than this.
Today I feel bereft of love for the human race.
Of course this monster will claim Domestic violence, drugs , mental health etc.
I hope, as there is no death penalty, that she spends the rest of her life begging to die.
Sorry right now, all I can say is "Father forgive them. For they know not what they do".....because right now I Can't.

OP posts:
XDownwiththissortofthingX · 17/07/2026 13:44

TheCurious0range · 17/07/2026 13:43

Why so many death penalty threads lately?!

Perfectly in keeping with what a rage-baiting, Right-wing troll-infested cesspit MN has become.

randomchap · 17/07/2026 13:48

TheCurious0range · 17/07/2026 13:43

Why so many death penalty threads lately?!

There's been some horrific cases is the press recently. Some people believe that the death penalty is appropriate in these cases. They're wrong but they think that

Backedoffhackedoff · 17/07/2026 13:53

TheCurious0range · 17/07/2026 13:43

Why so many death penalty threads lately?!

Fundamentalist Christian bots

Wordsmithery · 17/07/2026 13:55

Are you a Reform voter, OP, or maybe an American bot for the Westboro brigade?

An ancient book may have proposed chucking miscreants into the sea with a millstone around their neck (although I think you may have misinterpreted that one). Fortunately our legal system is based on more rational thought.

We absolutely do not need the death penalty in the UK. No exceptions.

Gengha · 17/07/2026 13:58

It’s a horrible case but there have been much worse cases of child abuse than this one. Preston Davey being a recent example. Seems odd you’d think this was worse, given it wasnt even murder but culpable homicide.

Also, the death penalty is abhorrent.

YABU

Ipsevenenabibas · 17/07/2026 13:58

I think every Christian can understand that immediate emotional reaction. Reading about the abuse or murder of a child is heartbreaking, and anger is a natural response. Jesus Himself showed righteous anger in the face of evil.

But as Christians we're called to be careful not to let grief become a desire for vengeance. The child deserves justice, and society must be protected from someone capable of such evil. A whole-life sentence may well be appropriate. Wanting justice is not wrong.

The passage about the millstone (Matthew 18:6) is indeed a severe warning about the gravity of harming "little ones," but Jesus isn't giving us permission to delight in someone's death or suffering. Elsewhere He tells us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44), and on the Cross He prayed for those who were killing Him.

The Church teaches that no sin is beyond God's mercy if there is genuine repentance, however unimaginable that may seem to us. That doesn't remove the need for punishment or lessen the horror of the crime. Mercy and justice are not opposites.

It's perfectly understandable to say, "I can't forgive this right now." Forgiveness is often a process rather than a feeling. We can ask God to do in our hearts what we cannot yet do ourselves, while praying for the innocent victim, for those left grieving, and even—however difficult—for the sinner's conversion.

Gettingbysomehow · 17/07/2026 14:01

I cannot agree with the death penalty. If it's wrong to murder then we should not be murdering no matter how heinous the crime. It doesnt make it ok if its state sanctioned.
I am not a christian Im pagan but christian values are as good as any.
But sometimes the things I hear make me feel that the entire human race should be eliminated in one fell swoop.

randomchap · 17/07/2026 14:01

Ipsevenenabibas · 17/07/2026 13:58

I think every Christian can understand that immediate emotional reaction. Reading about the abuse or murder of a child is heartbreaking, and anger is a natural response. Jesus Himself showed righteous anger in the face of evil.

But as Christians we're called to be careful not to let grief become a desire for vengeance. The child deserves justice, and society must be protected from someone capable of such evil. A whole-life sentence may well be appropriate. Wanting justice is not wrong.

The passage about the millstone (Matthew 18:6) is indeed a severe warning about the gravity of harming "little ones," but Jesus isn't giving us permission to delight in someone's death or suffering. Elsewhere He tells us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44), and on the Cross He prayed for those who were killing Him.

The Church teaches that no sin is beyond God's mercy if there is genuine repentance, however unimaginable that may seem to us. That doesn't remove the need for punishment or lessen the horror of the crime. Mercy and justice are not opposites.

It's perfectly understandable to say, "I can't forgive this right now." Forgiveness is often a process rather than a feeling. We can ask God to do in our hearts what we cannot yet do ourselves, while praying for the innocent victim, for those left grieving, and even—however difficult—for the sinner's conversion.

Edited

You Shalt Not Kill

LaughingCat · 17/07/2026 14:02

YourOliveBalonz · 17/07/2026 11:09

I don’t agree with the death penalty under any circumstances, I don’t believe the state should have the power to murder its citizens. It’s easy to be morally consistent too, as individuals all have their opinions on who deserves it and who doesn’t. If you fundamentally disagree that the state should not have that power then there’s nothing to grapple with.

As a human being we can all feel like we would happily have some horrible individuals killed - wouldn’t you want to do that to anyone who even harmed your own children somehow - but I think law and justice should be above that, protecting everyone from our more primal instincts.

I’m not sure you are as Christian as you would like to believe by the way.

As usual, first post nails it. Awful case but no government should have the power to execute whichever citizens they please. You might agree with who today’s authorities decide should die but not with future governments’ choices. So no, obviously not. Thanks for making my day a little darker and bleaker, OP.

asatelliteisnttoofarright · 17/07/2026 14:02

YABU. You’re not emotional because you’re a Christian its because you’re a human

exultingcrocs · 17/07/2026 14:03

I’m a Christian too OP but I don’t believe in the death penalty. I just don’t think that humans have the moral right or ‘authority’ to take a life - yes, even if it’s been ordered by a judge and jury.

I don’t know the case you’re referring to but I do know that people who harm children get a particularly difficult time in prison. Losing their liberty and rights, not to mention the constant looking-over-your-shoulder, is a just punishment.

EssCarGo · 17/07/2026 14:04

No we cannot bring back the death penalty. Would anyone genuinely trust any of our successive governments to ensure it was implemented properly and fairly? Prime Minister Farage wouldn’t try to intervene to get more racist points? Come on.

The state should never have the power to kill its citizens. End of.

SaySomethingMan · 17/07/2026 14:10

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 17/07/2026 11:24

BUT Our Lord also said that to harm one little one , you are better to have a millstone tied around your neck and be thrown into the sea.

Yet in psalm 137
Happy is the one who seizes your infants and dashes them against the rocks.

I don't believe in the death sentence under any circumstances - whether mandated in the Bible or not.

Edited

Do you know that Psalm is about the people lamenting about their suffering and about the people who were oppressing them? I don’t understand your quote? Are you implying that The Bible says people who bash infants against rocks will be happy?

@ThisWiseRobin if you’re Christian, then surely you should be willing to forgive this person hoping they gain salvation? And leaving judgement only to God?

Happyjoe · 17/07/2026 14:10

LadyTable · 17/07/2026 11:20

BUT Our Lord also said that to harm one little one , you are better to have a millstone tied around your neck and be thrown into the sea.

So why does 'your lord' put babies on earth just to suffer in pain from cancer and other horrible diseases only to die a few months later?

And you can't randomly apply the death sentence just because it may suit certain public outcries.

Edited

This is exactly why I hate religion. If there is a god he is a cruel bastard.

soddingspiderseason · 17/07/2026 14:18

The death penalty does not reduce murder rates, look at the US. So if it doesn’t deter, it would be to exact revenge on the woman for her actions. Which is a reasonable position, but for every 100 people who may deserve vengeance, there will be at least 1 wrongly convicted person, and the state therefore commits murder of an innocent.

Mydogisagentleman · 17/07/2026 14:22

Capital punishment is wrong.
Not for any religious reasons, it's just wrong.
Civilised societies must never consider voting to reinstate it.
I don't believe it's presence would reduce crime in any way.

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 17/07/2026 14:28

SaySomethingMan · 17/07/2026 14:10

Do you know that Psalm is about the people lamenting about their suffering and about the people who were oppressing them? I don’t understand your quote? Are you implying that The Bible says people who bash infants against rocks will be happy?

@ThisWiseRobin if you’re Christian, then surely you should be willing to forgive this person hoping they gain salvation? And leaving judgement only to God?

I know exactly what this psalm means. The last two verses are an exhortation to the Jewish people to enact vengeance against the children of the Babylonians - their oppressors.
I was simply pointing out that the Bible is rarely consistent in its teaching.

allthiscarryon · 17/07/2026 14:32

Death penalties verdicts are political and often unjust. They solve nothing. They’re use disproportionately against minorities and the poorer people in society.
If Britain had the death penalty in the 70s 80s 90s there would be an awful Lot of dead Irish people, most of them innocent.

KrazyKatty · 17/07/2026 14:34

Another thread started by an unimaginative Yankee bible basher? 🤔

DozyCrow · 17/07/2026 14:40

I thought you Christians were all about forgiveness, or have you not got to that chapter in the bible yet?

asatelliteisnttoofarright · 17/07/2026 14:48

KrazyKatty · 17/07/2026 14:34

Another thread started by an unimaginative Yankee bible basher? 🤔

I strongly suspect this is the same OP who’s recently started a lot of threads on this topic

randomchap · 17/07/2026 14:49

DozyCrow · 17/07/2026 14:40

I thought you Christians were all about forgiveness, or have you not got to that chapter in the bible yet?

I don't think they've got the the ten commandments yet

JMSA · 17/07/2026 14:52

Shouldn’t an OP like this have a trigger warming, as it contains child abuse?

Allseeingallknowing · 17/07/2026 14:55

Gengha · 17/07/2026 13:58

It’s a horrible case but there have been much worse cases of child abuse than this one. Preston Davey being a recent example. Seems odd you’d think this was worse, given it wasnt even murder but culpable homicide.

Also, the death penalty is abhorrent.

YABU

Every case is equally horrific

BEAchDays2 · 17/07/2026 14:57

Hard no on the death penalty. You cannot plan to kill a person, because they killed someone else.

However hard that is. You just can’t.