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DH and I disagree about Soap 😳

630 replies

anotherdaytosmile · 13/06/2026 12:27

DH has put a fresh bar of soap out today, his trusty Imperial Leather. He thinks it’s a classy soap based on his childhood perspective in the late 1970s. I think it’s one step up from carbolic. I want Jo Malone soap 😢

AIBU - imperial leather is pure luxury
AINBU - what next, waxy toilet paper?

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anotherdaytosmile · 13/06/2026 12:28

Please be careful how you vote. I’m going to use this as evidence to ban the stuff from the house

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TellMeDinosaurFacts · 13/06/2026 12:29

I remember that campaign. That's some highly effective marketing if all these years later your DH thinks that Imperial Leather is classy soap!

dementedpixie · 13/06/2026 12:30

Have a soap each. Dh has his coal tar stuff and I use whichever one I like

DoAWheelie · 13/06/2026 12:30

Just get a double sided soap dish and have a bar each. There is no reason why you can't both have what you prefer.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 13/06/2026 12:31

Look its soap, it does the job it's supposed to do. Not sure I'd want to spend on Jo Malone just to rinse it down the sink.

gamerchick · 13/06/2026 12:31

Why can't you have both?

Husband loves IL but we won't buy it as the cat goes mad licking the bath after his shower. Doesn't happen with any other soap.

ColdAsAWitches · 13/06/2026 12:31

You buy yours and let him use his. Ffs.

Borborygmus · 13/06/2026 12:34

Imperial Leather is fine.

123teenagerfood · 13/06/2026 12:34

FinallyHere · 13/06/2026 12:31

Came here to say this!

TotHappy · 13/06/2026 12:34

I like Pears. It turns you into a beautiful princess.

Marycontrarygarden · 13/06/2026 12:35

anotherdaytosmile · 13/06/2026 12:27

DH has put a fresh bar of soap out today, his trusty Imperial Leather. He thinks it’s a classy soap based on his childhood perspective in the late 1970s. I think it’s one step up from carbolic. I want Jo Malone soap 😢

AIBU - imperial leather is pure luxury
AINBU - what next, waxy toilet paper?

Bar soap? That everyone uses? Ugh

UhOhRatPoo · 13/06/2026 12:35

Your husband should know that the properly classy 1970s soap was Camay, not Imperial Leather. I used to love those ads with the ladies all covered in foam!

MyballsareSandy2015 · 13/06/2026 12:36

I’ll never even consider giving DH a BJ unless he’s used imperial leather on his nethers … so I’m team DH. Sorry!

anotherdaytosmile · 13/06/2026 12:36

DoAWheelie · 13/06/2026 12:30

Just get a double sided soap dish and have a bar each. There is no reason why you can't both have what you prefer.

I genuinely never thought of that. You should work in the diplomatic core

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Flannelfeet · 13/06/2026 12:36

I absolutely love the smell of pears soap, reminds me of my childhood 🥰.

Keep meaning to buy that French soap, it looks lovely.

Squirrelchops1 · 13/06/2026 12:36

You are being unreasonable spunking all that money on Jo Malone.

tarheelbaby · 13/06/2026 12:36

Poor chap, do let him have his own soap at least.
DH was an IL man and I have found it to be excellent for shifting stains on laundry.
Just buy the kind of soap you like and put it where you want it. If your DH dares to use some of your soap, generously share with your life partner ...

anotherdaytosmile · 13/06/2026 12:37

Marycontrarygarden · 13/06/2026 12:35

Bar soap? That everyone uses? Ugh

Just me and him in the bath. Are we mingers?

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UhOhRatPoo · 13/06/2026 12:38

gamerchick · 13/06/2026 12:31

Why can't you have both?

Husband loves IL but we won't buy it as the cat goes mad licking the bath after his shower. Doesn't happen with any other soap.

Well, that is not a reply I was expecting to see!

anotherdaytosmile · 13/06/2026 12:38

MyballsareSandy2015 · 13/06/2026 12:36

I’ll never even consider giving DH a BJ unless he’s used imperial leather on his nethers … so I’m team DH. Sorry!

Well, not showing him this. Might give him ideas.

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ClaudiaWankleman · 13/06/2026 12:38

Marycontrarygarden · 13/06/2026 12:35

Bar soap? That everyone uses? Ugh

  1. It is self-cleaning.
  2. They are a married couple. The other things they probably do together are inevitably messier.
tarheelbaby · 13/06/2026 12:39

Is @imperialblether still on MN? ...

Lexy2345 · 13/06/2026 12:39

I wouldn’t share a bar of soap with anyone.

ruethewhirl · 13/06/2026 12:40

Marycontrarygarden · 13/06/2026 12:35

Bar soap? That everyone uses? Ugh

Yes, to get their hands clean. And your problem is…?

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