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DH and I disagree about Soap 😳

579 replies

anotherdaytosmile · Yesterday 12:27

DH has put a fresh bar of soap out today, his trusty Imperial Leather. He thinks it’s a classy soap based on his childhood perspective in the late 1970s. I think it’s one step up from carbolic. I want Jo Malone soap 😢

AIBU - imperial leather is pure luxury
AINBU - what next, waxy toilet paper?

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TeenLifeMum · Yesterday 13:30

Marycontrarygarden · Yesterday 12:35

Bar soap? That everyone uses? Ugh

Tell me your level of science knowledge without telling me your gcse results 😂😂😂 sharing soap isn’t gross due to how soap works.

Get a dish of water, sprinkle in pepper then add a tiny bit of soap and watch how it behaves. My dc did this age 9 so maybe you had chicken pox that day but always good to keep learning.

Carouseloflife · Yesterday 13:30

Don’t they both have similar ingredients

tinyspiny · Yesterday 13:30

We have a mix of hand wash and bar soap on our basins , currently using L’Occitane cherry blossom , which is lovely . Of the soap available in supermarkets imperial leather is one of the better ones .

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 13:31

likeafishneedsabike · Yesterday 13:17

I assumed that everybody had left their soap bars in the 80s and now used shower gel. And yet everyone here is behaving as if bars of soap are normal, not retro. Mind blown.

Edited

Look in any shops that sell any kind of bathroom products- whole shelves of soap! Somebody obviously buys it. We have bar soap in the shower, DH likes Dove because he has sensitive skin, and refillable hand-wash in the washbasins. Bar soap doesn't spread germs in a domestic setting, it rinses off.

NoWordForFluffy · Yesterday 13:31

RealEagle · Yesterday 12:51

Are we married to the same man ? my husband is exactly the same with imperial leather soap.I have my dove .

Dove isn't actually technically soap.

We have soap here. DH prefers it, so two of our three loos have soap. The en suite only has hand wash. He uses the washing up liquid in the kitchen while I also have hand wash in there.

We also have soap in the shower. He uses bog standard supermarket soap, I use shower gel first all over, and then Dettol soap for my underarms as it's great for weird peri-related sweat issues (tip I read on here).

Tonissister · Yesterday 13:31

It's boy soap. You buy Jo Malone and he can have Imperial Leather. IMO bar soap is worth spending £££ on, as it lasts for ages.

likeafishneedsabike · Yesterday 13:31

FatRosie · Yesterday 13:27

Shower gel is detergent, as is hand wash. Soap is soap. Look at the ingredients.

Soap: Ingredients

Sodium Palmate, Aqua, Sodium Palm Kernelate, Glycerin, Palm Kernel Acid, Tetrasodium Etidronate

Handwash: Ingredients
Vegan formula. Find out more.
Water / Aqua / Eau, Sodium Laureth Sulfate, Cocamidopropyl Betaine, Propylene Glycol, Laureth-7 Citrate, Glycerin, Coco-Glucoside, Fragrance / Parfum, Citrus Aurantium Dulcis (Orange) Peel Oil, Polyquaternium-7, Lonicera Caprifolium (Honeysuckle) Flower Extract, Lonicera Japonica (Honeysuckle) Flower Extract, Ethylhexyl Salicylate, Butyl Methoxydibenzoylmethane, Diethylhexyl Syringylidenemalonate, Limonene, Linalool, Hexyl Cinnamal, Amyl Cinnamal, Hydroxycitronellal, Eugenol, Tocopherol, Sodium Phytate, Tetrasodium Glutamate Diacetate, Sodium Benzoate, Phenoxyethanol, Citric Acid, Sodium Hydroxide, Peg-18 Glyceryl Oleate/Cocoate, Sodium Chloride, Hydrogenated Palm Glycerides Citrate, Alcohol Denat., Yellow 5 / C.I. 19140

Off to buy soap then 😊

BitOutOfPractice · Yesterday 13:31

I absolutely LOVE coal tar soap. Love it!

Sunnyyetnotsunny · Yesterday 13:32

You need to up your game. We have 4 different bar soaps + few shower gels.

No arguments at all

TheFarriersDaughter · Yesterday 13:32

likeafishneedsabike · Yesterday 13:17

I assumed that everybody had left their soap bars in the 80s and now used shower gel. And yet everyone here is behaving as if bars of soap are normal, not retro. Mind blown.

Edited

Shower gel is bad for the planet and usually really awful for your skin.

I’m sorry to think you’ve been so misled.

FatRosie · Yesterday 13:33

My pp compared a pure unfragranced soap with a fancy handwash, but the unfragranced shower gel from the same brand as the soap has the following ingredients:
INGREDIENTS: Aqua, Sodium Laureth Sulfate, Sodium Chloride, Cocamidopropyl Betaine, Glycerin, Sodium Benzoate, Citric Acid, Tetrasodium EDTA, Dipropylene Glycol, Panthenol, Pelargonium Graveolens Flower Oil, Anthemis Nobilis Flower Oil, Cucumis Sativus Juice

How much are you paying for the plastic bottle and water content?

The brand doesn't do handwash.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · Yesterday 13:33

25mini7 · Yesterday 13:19

What was the soap in an irredesent box called? I loved that stuff in the 80's

Err? Don’t know but can recall it?

Shedmistress · Yesterday 13:33

TheFarriersDaughter · Yesterday 13:32

Shower gel is bad for the planet and usually really awful for your skin.

I’m sorry to think you’ve been so misled.

Stop finger wagging.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Yesterday 13:34

dementedpixie · Yesterday 12:30

Have a soap each. Dh has his coal tar stuff and I use whichever one I like

@dementedpixie is tight, @anotherdaytosmile - you each get your own soap.

I have a fondness for Imperial Leather soap because my late dad used it, so it reminds me of him.

Andsoitbeganagain · Yesterday 13:34

Child of the 70s here so I'm team DH. Unless you can lay your hands on the pink pearl soap. Can't remember what it smelt like but remember the shiny pink box felt awfully fancy.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · Yesterday 13:35

25mini7 · Yesterday 13:19

What was the soap in an irredesent box called? I loved that stuff in the 80's

Cussons Pearl?

2msoundsright · Yesterday 13:36

Every day is a school day on MN- I never imagined that people existed who thought soap was unhygienic. Soap!

Maybe they should keep a second bar of soap for washing the first bar of soap. And a third bar for washing the second bar, natch.

TeaAndStrumpets · Yesterday 13:36

Anything smells better than Swarfega.

I only have liquid soap out for visitors or in the kitchen to for DH to wash his hands. Left to himself he would use neat washing up liquid. I like Ecover lavender scent, because you can buy 5litre containers to refill the dispensers. In bathroom and shower room I like Dr Bronner bar soap because the label amuses me and it's quite smooth.

I can still remember the TV soap adverts from my childhood. "Cadum for Madam" anyone?

Stompythedinosaur · Yesterday 13:36

I think Imperial Leather is fine. Not worth spending a lot on expensive soap imo.

diddl · Yesterday 13:37

We have been known to share soap.

All four of us.

We've always put lather on our hands & washed ourselves.

Are we doing it wrong?

Foundress · Yesterday 13:37

Thanks for that @Futurehappiness I am going have a look at that I love the smell of Eau De Cologne.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · Yesterday 13:37

cussons pearl pink came in an iridescent box

https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/168117301195?chn=ps&_ul=GB&mkevt=1&mkcid=28&google_free_listing_action=view_item

FlipthelidSid · Yesterday 13:37

My parents have Imperial Leather and I have to admit to liking the smell after I’ve washed my hands there. It takes me straight back to my childhood!

2msoundsright · Yesterday 13:37

I love nice soap, btw. I am desperate for this set https://www.ortigiasicilia.com/en/bath-shower/soaps/green-assorted-box-9-glycerine-soaps and drop hints every Christmas but as yet no luck- I suspect people think soap is too boring, but for me it's anything but.

Green Assorted Box - 9 Glycerine Soaps

https://www.ortigiasicilia.com/en/bath-shower/soaps/green-assorted-box-9-glycerine-soaps

Walker1178 · Yesterday 13:38

I thought soap was a man thing? DP insists on IL to wash with, I buy a multipack to keep him happy. There was mutiny when I picked up an alternative brand and it was even worse when he ran out of bar soap altogether and had to use my Treacle Moon shower gel. He complained all day that he smelt like a girl!

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