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Bloody sick of men. Oh it’s the immigrants raping and stabbing, NO it’s men. Always fucking men

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00K · Yesterday 19:02

That’s my Friday rant.
Far right men thinking they’re sorting everything out with their riots to protect the women. Maybe women should riot about just men.

also I know it’s not all men, but it is men.

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northernspanishlass · Yesterday 19:51

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CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:52

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:48

It’s so tiring arguing with people with no critical thinking skills whatsoever.

Huh! You're telling me! I really can't be bothered.

RoadTripDiary · Yesterday 19:53

00K · Yesterday 19:35

Wow really? I’m actually quite stunned at the way things are changing in the uk. Such a shame and not what we hoped for back in the 90s

Yes really. It’s common sense. It really shouldn’t be controversial that we should put British people first in Britain. We can’t take away all dangers that British people, men, pose to us, we are stuck with them living here. All we can do is educate them to behave better and put them in prison if they break laws. But we shouldn’t have to accept the danger than non British men bring to us. They are not our problem and we clearly can not vet them properly. Who the fuck wants to have non British bad men here? We have enough of our own to deal with.

ItsPickleRick · Yesterday 19:54

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Why aren’t you safe to go out at night?

EilonwyWithRedGoldHair · Yesterday 19:54

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:12

These were all asylum seekers. Asylum seekers make up a small minority of men, so it’s very concerning every week there seems to be a rape case, and often far more than 1, if not an attempted/completed murder.

We need proper stats from the government to put an end to this debate.

Well the media has an interest in pushing a particular narrative.

I've read various things about the actual statistics - from they back up the view that certain men are violent towards women at a higher rate than white British men to when adjusted for age etc that difference disappears - but I've not looked into them myself.

HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:54

@Theworldsgonemadagain

We live in a culture where it's not acceptable to sexually assult a woman.

Do we? Why do we have such a diabolical conviction rate for rape and other sexual violence then?

EmeraldShamrock000 · Yesterday 19:55

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:50

Saying that all members of a particular ethnic group are all murderers and rapists is pure racism. It's almost as if you don't personally know any members of those groups. If you did you wouldn't believe that crap.

No one said anything like that as that wouldn’t be true. Unfortunately the ones who take the opportunity don’t come with labels.

00K · Yesterday 19:55

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This is incredibly ignorant. You should be protecting your daughters from men, just men.

most women I know have been assaulted or abused in some way. I’m pretty sure that most of those men were not the scary immigrants. It’s like people are forgetting that people are far more likely to be assaulted by someone in their own family. The immigrant has become the monster stranger danger person.

people will always fear what they don’t know. But the monster is the man they already know

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Honeyhonay · Yesterday 19:55

Theworldsgonemadagain · Yesterday 19:47

Referring to unite the kingdom rallys where thousands of women and men went out marching peacefully. For the record I think it's ridiculous to burn cars and damage properties and assaulting police is totally unacceptable. There will be people there that want to demonstrate peacefully but it got hijacked by people that just want an excuse to cause trouble. The same happened with the BLM riots. There seems a lot of nonsense about the threat of the 'far right', although 75% of terror threats are islamist and all those Jewish attacks were perpetrated by islamists too. All we get is 'but white men' of course e there are a percentage of men that do bad things but some cultures are much more likely to do so. We live in a culture where it's not acceptable to sexually assult a woman. We should all be out marching.

There will be people there that want to demonstrate peacefully but it got hijacked by people that just want an excuse to cause trouble

Nonsense, who goes along to something when the agenda is men of fighting age, cover your face, dark clothes, be prepared to fight or get arrested and no recording if they are interested in a peaceful demonstration?

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:56

RoadTripDiary · Yesterday 19:53

Yes really. It’s common sense. It really shouldn’t be controversial that we should put British people first in Britain. We can’t take away all dangers that British people, men, pose to us, we are stuck with them living here. All we can do is educate them to behave better and put them in prison if they break laws. But we shouldn’t have to accept the danger than non British men bring to us. They are not our problem and we clearly can not vet them properly. Who the fuck wants to have non British bad men here? We have enough of our own to deal with.

So anybody not British then? What about second or third generation immigrants (including Italian, Irish etc)? How will you tell the difference?

HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits · Yesterday 19:56

00K · Yesterday 19:40

So all the people saying it’s good that they are rioting and burning buses etc. what exactly do you think it’s achieving? Do you feel protected as a woman but these men who do this? Or what?

Ireland has a long and bloody history.

Do you think that allowing millions of undocumented males from misogynistic cultures would go down well there, OP?

And no, I don't think Irishmen rioting is a `good thing' but what do you expect them to do in the face of unprovoked violence to their own. The young man with special needs had both his eyes gouged out by the Somalian he had helped move in next door. Rinse and repeat.

We have enough violent males in our own culture. Why do you think that importing millions more from even more violent cultures will be accepted?

The days of middle class do-gooders like you telling us to light a candle and offer `hopes and prayers' as our culture is erased and violence becomes mainstream are long gone. This is what you voted for so suck it up buttercup.

Just be thankful you live in your nice middle-class enclave which will never be affected by what is really going on.

Ibi · Yesterday 19:57

Maybe we should think about banning football too as football ‘fans’ are statistically more likely to commit assault.

Dweetfidilove · Yesterday 19:57

What's fantastical about these Defenders of Women and children, is that a huge proportion of them abuse their own women. And, they're more than happy to rape and burn other women and children.
They are pretty much the same calibre as the ones they're protecting 'women' from.

00K · Yesterday 19:57

RoadTripDiary · Yesterday 19:53

Yes really. It’s common sense. It really shouldn’t be controversial that we should put British people first in Britain. We can’t take away all dangers that British people, men, pose to us, we are stuck with them living here. All we can do is educate them to behave better and put them in prison if they break laws. But we shouldn’t have to accept the danger than non British men bring to us. They are not our problem and we clearly can not vet them properly. Who the fuck wants to have non British bad men here? We have enough of our own to deal with.

So sort out the rape conviction rates then. Men are free to rape as far as I can see.

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RoadTripDiary · Yesterday 19:57

00K · Yesterday 19:55

This is incredibly ignorant. You should be protecting your daughters from men, just men.

most women I know have been assaulted or abused in some way. I’m pretty sure that most of those men were not the scary immigrants. It’s like people are forgetting that people are far more likely to be assaulted by someone in their own family. The immigrant has become the monster stranger danger person.

people will always fear what they don’t know. But the monster is the man they already know

But the less men that we need to protect our daughters from, the better. We are stuck with the shitty British men, let’s not add to them by adding in bad men from other countries.

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:58

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:51

Who said this and when?

The person I quoted.

RoadTripDiary · Yesterday 19:58

00K · Yesterday 19:57

So sort out the rape conviction rates then. Men are free to rape as far as I can see.

Tell the government. No one is going to argue with you on that one. But adding more bad men into Britain will only mean more rapes and more women at risk.

Ilovecoffeeme · Yesterday 19:59

Mrsjohnsmith · Yesterday 19:14

Today I read that when the England national team play, domestic violence rises by 38% if they lose. Shockingly, it still rises by 26% even if they win. Given that women are five times more likely to experience domestic violence than men, this is a massive increase in violence against women, that will largely be perpetrated by men. Presumably English men. I am so sad that we still live in this kind of world.

statistics are from a study by Lancaster University

Can I just say, the research relates to football not any other sport. What does that tell you.

Bluehouse14 · Yesterday 19:59

People don't realise that countless murders and rapes happen every week. The headlines pick up the most controversial or the most likely to give them clicks - ie immigrants funnily enough.

When a black man murders someone, the problem is all black people. When a brown man murders someone, the problem is all brown people. When an immigrant murders someone, the problem is all immigrants. But when a white man murders someone - the response is 'not all men'.

The perpetrators are ALL men. What are we doing to fix the ACTUAL issue?

00K · Yesterday 20:01

HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits · Yesterday 19:56

Ireland has a long and bloody history.

Do you think that allowing millions of undocumented males from misogynistic cultures would go down well there, OP?

And no, I don't think Irishmen rioting is a `good thing' but what do you expect them to do in the face of unprovoked violence to their own. The young man with special needs had both his eyes gouged out by the Somalian he had helped move in next door. Rinse and repeat.

We have enough violent males in our own culture. Why do you think that importing millions more from even more violent cultures will be accepted?

The days of middle class do-gooders like you telling us to light a candle and offer `hopes and prayers' as our culture is erased and violence becomes mainstream are long gone. This is what you voted for so suck it up buttercup.

Just be thankful you live in your nice middle-class enclave which will never be affected by what is really going on.

why do you keep saying I’m middle class? I work for a charity. I earn £28,000. My husband earns £25,000 in a trade
Is it okay to have ideas and values that don’t fit with your idea of working class?

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Theworldsgonemadagain · Yesterday 20:01

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 19:55

There will be people there that want to demonstrate peacefully but it got hijacked by people that just want an excuse to cause trouble

Nonsense, who goes along to something when the agenda is men of fighting age, cover your face, dark clothes, be prepared to fight or get arrested and no recording if they are interested in a peaceful demonstration?

I would have attended if I were in NI and that happened in my street so yeah not a balaclava in my wardrobe!

00K · Yesterday 20:01

Bluehouse14 · Yesterday 19:59

People don't realise that countless murders and rapes happen every week. The headlines pick up the most controversial or the most likely to give them clicks - ie immigrants funnily enough.

When a black man murders someone, the problem is all black people. When a brown man murders someone, the problem is all brown people. When an immigrant murders someone, the problem is all immigrants. But when a white man murders someone - the response is 'not all men'.

The perpetrators are ALL men. What are we doing to fix the ACTUAL issue?

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Exactly

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HobGobblynne · Yesterday 20:02

HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits · Yesterday 19:56

Ireland has a long and bloody history.

Do you think that allowing millions of undocumented males from misogynistic cultures would go down well there, OP?

And no, I don't think Irishmen rioting is a `good thing' but what do you expect them to do in the face of unprovoked violence to their own. The young man with special needs had both his eyes gouged out by the Somalian he had helped move in next door. Rinse and repeat.

We have enough violent males in our own culture. Why do you think that importing millions more from even more violent cultures will be accepted?

The days of middle class do-gooders like you telling us to light a candle and offer `hopes and prayers' as our culture is erased and violence becomes mainstream are long gone. This is what you voted for so suck it up buttercup.

Just be thankful you live in your nice middle-class enclave which will never be affected by what is really going on.

“What do you expect them to do”

Lobby the government, go to the media… not destroy other peoples property (who are in no way related to the awful crime) and make them too terrified to leave their houses. I’m still yet to get any sort of understanding of the link there?

If I set fire to your house after my family experienced a crime, would you shrug and say “fair enough - I understand you were fed up, nothing else you could do given the circumstances”

MellowZebra · Yesterday 20:02

HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits · Yesterday 19:56

Ireland has a long and bloody history.

Do you think that allowing millions of undocumented males from misogynistic cultures would go down well there, OP?

And no, I don't think Irishmen rioting is a `good thing' but what do you expect them to do in the face of unprovoked violence to their own. The young man with special needs had both his eyes gouged out by the Somalian he had helped move in next door. Rinse and repeat.

We have enough violent males in our own culture. Why do you think that importing millions more from even more violent cultures will be accepted?

The days of middle class do-gooders like you telling us to light a candle and offer `hopes and prayers' as our culture is erased and violence becomes mainstream are long gone. This is what you voted for so suck it up buttercup.

Just be thankful you live in your nice middle-class enclave which will never be affected by what is really going on.

And no, I don't think Irishmen rioting is a `good thing'

Irishmen? Are you from the UK? Do you know much about NI? I have a feeling you don't.

RedRosesParmaViolets · Yesterday 20:03

Yeah I ain't arguing there, but if men are the issue which they are ; how does it help to import all these young men from places where it's common to treat women differently?

How does that help. Here in the west we have worked on this