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Bloody sick of men. Oh it’s the immigrants raping and stabbing, NO it’s men. Always fucking men

429 replies

00K · 12/06/2026 19:02

That’s my Friday rant.
Far right men thinking they’re sorting everything out with their riots to protect the women. Maybe women should riot about just men.

also I know it’s not all men, but it is men.

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LittleJustice · 13/06/2026 12:04

EnterQueene · 13/06/2026 11:56

The horrible thugs rioting generally have convictions for domestic abuse and violence against women. They don't care about women, they just want a bit of violence. They are more of a threat to women than your average immigrant.

Bit of a sweeping statement and I would love to see your proof of this.

Just because men are from lower income backgrounds, and have the usual lower level criminal convictions (often relating to poverty such as shoplifting or drugs) doesn't always correlate with abuse of the women in their lives.

QuintadosMalvados · 13/06/2026 13:53

@LuckyHazelFox I agree.
There's more to it than that, though.
I think that some women believe they can save even the worst specimens of men with their love.
Having maybe failed with a few native British men, they want to try with another set of men.
Seen it a lot of times.

And no I am not being sexist here as I say some women.
Some men may be like this too.

Also, it's very trendy to be left-wing about this.

QuintadosMalvados · 13/06/2026 14:00

LittleJustice · 13/06/2026 12:04

Bit of a sweeping statement and I would love to see your proof of this.

Just because men are from lower income backgrounds, and have the usual lower level criminal convictions (often relating to poverty such as shoplifting or drugs) doesn't always correlate with abuse of the women in their lives.

Agree. I think I'd rather take my chances with the average British bloke-at least he won't be able to claim that he thought that rape was just 'normal' sexual activity and that it was part of British culture.

QuintadosMalvados · 13/06/2026 14:23

I wonder where @00K is.

Having enlightened us all that is it is men who are responsible for the vast majority of horrible crimes (shock horror. I had no clue. Sarcasm obviously) with her self - stated rant.

Maybe the fact that not everybody agrees (well only a quarter but still) with her has deflated her hubris a bit.

Oh OP, we had no idea it is the men. We bow down to your superior insight on this topic. Just like, you know, some have thought about it a bit further.

ilovebrie8 · 13/06/2026 16:13

@QuintadosMalvados she’s busy getting posts removed by those she doesn’t agree with.

Pinkflamingo10 · 13/06/2026 16:14

Not all men. But it’s always men.

LlynTegid · 13/06/2026 16:15

Jimmy Savile was not a migrant.
Harold Shipman was not a migrant.
Peter Sutcliffe was not a migrant.

The most high profile people accused recently of sex offences, Russell Brand and David Sullivan, are not migrants.

The OP is right to think that it is men, and not the friends of Reform who single out migrants.

SleeplessInWherever · 13/06/2026 16:21

ilovebrie8 · 13/06/2026 16:13

@QuintadosMalvados she’s busy getting posts removed by those she doesn’t agree with.

You keep bringing that up.

I saw that post, and we both know why it was removed.

The language used in it was disgusting and generalised migrants as scumbags, aliens, etc.

If you want a message to stay up, don’t be so offensive in it.

You have freedom of speech, and other people have the freedom to not want to read racist crap. You don’t have freedom of consequence, and the consequence of that post was that it was rightfully deleted.

QuintadosMalvados · 13/06/2026 16:51

ilovebrie8 · 13/06/2026 16:13

@QuintadosMalvados she’s busy getting posts removed by those she doesn’t agree with.

I think you had your post removed? I'm late to the thread so it was deleted before I saw it.
Obviously I'm NOT going to ask you to repeat it.

The tone of OP's opening post irritates me.
As if it's a flipping revelation to any of us that:
A, men commit the vast majority of violent crime.
B, 'Native' British men are often responsible for this crime.

I mean we ALL know this. It's as if she's seeking diversity validation points or something.

But here's the thing: 'just' because we have our fair share of home grown bastards, it does not mean we should allow more men who hail from notably misogynistic cultures that treat women terribly in.

It does not make sense to me why anybody would want to.

It's like somebody who's broken their leg in an accident deliberately throwing themselves down the stairs to break their other leg IYSWIM.

Blooming heck, I don't even consider myself to be right-wing. 😁

CruCru · 13/06/2026 17:12

I must admit that this has been on my mind too. A little while ago, I read this story about some dude who decided to pull the handbrake up while his girlfriend was driving, causing her to crash. Now, it doesn’t say why - maybe he was “in a mood” or they were quarrelling - but he felt entitled to endanger everyone around him.

https://www.countypress.co.uk/news/26152495.isle-wight-man-caused-ex-girlfriend-crash-car/

Women, on the whole, don’t usually feel entitled to bugger up everyone else’s day in the same way.

Freshwater man caused ex-girlfriend to crash car by pulling handbrake

The 39-year-old's case went before Isle of Wight magistrates.

https://www.countypress.co.uk/news/26152495.isle-wight-man-caused-ex-girlfriend-crash-car/

BeenThere90 · 13/06/2026 17:24

When the 'protection' rhetoric comes in, I always feel these scenes look like power demonstration 'we've more right over our women and children than you'.

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 17:30

BeenThere90 · 13/06/2026 17:24

When the 'protection' rhetoric comes in, I always feel these scenes look like power demonstration 'we've more right over our women and children than you'.

Oh dear. Yet the men they are protesting against think so highly of females don't they.

ilovebrie8 · 13/06/2026 17:35

SleeplessInWherever · 13/06/2026 16:21

You keep bringing that up.

I saw that post, and we both know why it was removed.

The language used in it was disgusting and generalised migrants as scumbags, aliens, etc.

If you want a message to stay up, don’t be so offensive in it.

You have freedom of speech, and other people have the freedom to not want to read racist crap. You don’t have freedom of consequence, and the consequence of that post was that it was rightfully deleted.

Oh do stop with making things up please.

I don’t know why it was removed as there are a far worse on here. You and the OP didn’t like the facts being pointed out.

I didn’t call them aliens …I said alien cultures which is cultures alien to ours.

i.e. we don’t believe in child marriage or stoning women to death or women being treated like the lowest of the low.

I gave my facts based on what I’m seeing every day around me. People are scared.

Nothing racist but factual, and calling people names because you don’t agree with them won’t work.

MellowZebra · 13/06/2026 17:44

QuintadosMalvados · 13/06/2026 14:23

I wonder where @00K is.

Having enlightened us all that is it is men who are responsible for the vast majority of horrible crimes (shock horror. I had no clue. Sarcasm obviously) with her self - stated rant.

Maybe the fact that not everybody agrees (well only a quarter but still) with her has deflated her hubris a bit.

Oh OP, we had no idea it is the men. We bow down to your superior insight on this topic. Just like, you know, some have thought about it a bit further.

Maybe the fact that not everybody agrees (well only a quarter but still) with her has deflated her hubris a bit

Or maybe the fact that three quarters of the almost 500 people who voted agree with her has reassured OP she is right in her thinking and she feels no need to argue the toss further?

ilovebrie8 · 13/06/2026 17:49

SleeplessInWherever · 13/06/2026 16:21

You keep bringing that up.

I saw that post, and we both know why it was removed.

The language used in it was disgusting and generalised migrants as scumbags, aliens, etc.

If you want a message to stay up, don’t be so offensive in it.

You have freedom of speech, and other people have the freedom to not want to read racist crap. You don’t have freedom of consequence, and the consequence of that post was that it was rightfully deleted.

I’ll tell you what is disgusting kids and women not feeling safe when people from migrant hotels exposing themselves in the park and dropping their trousers! Following people, making lewd comments. Being chased home from work.
Very soon locals will take the law into their own hands. Which is not a way to live.
That is disgusting 😡 And your wonder why I have an issue. Unbelievable.

LuckyHazelFox · 13/06/2026 18:07

ilovebrie8 · 13/06/2026 17:49

I’ll tell you what is disgusting kids and women not feeling safe when people from migrant hotels exposing themselves in the park and dropping their trousers! Following people, making lewd comments. Being chased home from work.
Very soon locals will take the law into their own hands. Which is not a way to live.
That is disgusting 😡 And your wonder why I have an issue. Unbelievable.

It's just a way to shut you down brie. It's not working x

UniquePinkSwan · 13/06/2026 18:09

🙄

QuintadosMalvados · 13/06/2026 18:29

MellowZebra · 13/06/2026 17:44

Maybe the fact that not everybody agrees (well only a quarter but still) with her has deflated her hubris a bit

Or maybe the fact that three quarters of the almost 500 people who voted agree with her has reassured OP she is right in her thinking and she feels no need to argue the toss further?

Yeah possibly, but as Margaret Thatcher famously pointed out: you can be in a minority of one but still be right.

SleeplessInWherever · 13/06/2026 18:34

ilovebrie8 · 13/06/2026 17:49

I’ll tell you what is disgusting kids and women not feeling safe when people from migrant hotels exposing themselves in the park and dropping their trousers! Following people, making lewd comments. Being chased home from work.
Very soon locals will take the law into their own hands. Which is not a way to live.
That is disgusting 😡 And your wonder why I have an issue. Unbelievable.

No issue with you having an issue, that sounds awful.

It was obviously the way that post was worded, considering that’s the only one that’s been deleted.

Like I said. I saw it, and it was objectively vile. I didn’t personally report it, but others obviously did and MNHQ obviously agreed.

Maybe reflect on that rather than repeatedly saying it was deleted. It was, because it obviously broke guidelines, or it wouldn’t have been.

ilovebrie8 · 13/06/2026 19:08

Sorry but I’ve still got the post and there is nothing vile at all 🙄. That is just exaggerating.
What has happened to common sense.
We will have to agree to disagree on this.
I said alien cultures.
I pointed out the Afghan culture of child brides, bachi bazi.
Anyway the OP took an ill will at plain speaking and reported it.
Now she’s disappeared it seems.

HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits · 13/06/2026 19:15

HobGobblynne · 12/06/2026 20:43

That doesn’t really hold up. Immigrants in the UK are generally more likely to be in work than UK born people, so there’s no evidence that their children are inherently more likely to stay on welfare to “copy” their parents.

"Generally more likely...."
Seriously you people pull out made-up stats from thin air to justify your crazed open borders policy.

Dandelionsalad · 13/06/2026 19:54

Immigrants in the UK are generally more likely to be in work than UK born people

why are any immigrants, who were not refugees/asylum seekers out of work at all? Why have they been granted leave to stay if they are not in work (in a job that no one in the UK is skilled to fill)?

MellowZebra · 13/06/2026 19:55

HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits · 13/06/2026 19:15

"Generally more likely...."
Seriously you people pull out made-up stats from thin air to justify your crazed open borders policy.

In 2025, the employment rate of working-age migrant men was higher than that of UK-born men (83% and 77%, respectively) (Figure 3). Most region-of-birth groups had higher employment rates than UK-born men. Among women, the employment rate for working-age migrants was 72%, slightly lower than for the UK-born (73%). EU-born women had significantly higher employment rates (79%) than non-EU-born women (69%)

From the Migration Observatory. Not thin air.

Walkyrie · 13/06/2026 20:31

MellowZebra · 13/06/2026 19:55

In 2025, the employment rate of working-age migrant men was higher than that of UK-born men (83% and 77%, respectively) (Figure 3). Most region-of-birth groups had higher employment rates than UK-born men. Among women, the employment rate for working-age migrants was 72%, slightly lower than for the UK-born (73%). EU-born women had significantly higher employment rates (79%) than non-EU-born women (69%)

From the Migration Observatory. Not thin air.

That’s fine but it’s meaningless unless they sort into immigrant groups. If there are differences between British men and immigrants, why not differences between Japanese immigrants and Sudanese immigrants for example?

MellowZebra · 13/06/2026 21:07

Walkyrie · 13/06/2026 20:31

That’s fine but it’s meaningless unless they sort into immigrant groups. If there are differences between British men and immigrants, why not differences between Japanese immigrants and Sudanese immigrants for example?

They do, but they are estimates with "substantial uncertainty".

Bloody sick of men. Oh it’s the immigrants raping and stabbing, NO it’s men. Always fucking men
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