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Bloody sick of men. Oh it’s the immigrants raping and stabbing, NO it’s men. Always fucking men

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00K · Yesterday 19:02

That’s my Friday rant.
Far right men thinking they’re sorting everything out with their riots to protect the women. Maybe women should riot about just men.

also I know it’s not all men, but it is men.

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Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:41

00K · Yesterday 19:40

So all the people saying it’s good that they are rioting and burning buses etc. what exactly do you think it’s achieving? Do you feel protected as a woman but these men who do this? Or what?

Who said this?

Can you quote even 1 person?

And third question, are you drinking right now?

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:41

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:09

It’s not ‘the odd crime’. Over the last week we’ve had an attempted beheading, 5 men on trial for rape, and the jailing of another for raping a woman in a park. That’s in 1 week.

BBC News - Natalie McNally: Stephen McCullagh sentenced to 31 years for murder - BBC News
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/crmpyy4gkdyo?app-referrer=deep-lin

I don't remember the riots after this horrific murder.

Natalie McNally. She has long blonde hair and is wearing a long khaki coat and standing on a beach.

Natalie McNally: Stephen McCullagh sentenced to 31 years for murder

McCullagh murdered his pregnant girlfriend Natalie in 2022 and was found guilty in March.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/crmpyy4gkdyo?app-referrer=deep-lin

EmeraldShamrock000 · Yesterday 19:41

00K · Yesterday 19:38

No you’re right. It’s not effecting change. It’s protecting the women and children isn’t it. God knows how when the woman and children are too scared to leave the house because the balaclava boys are burning shit

As you’re in agreement with a certain poster you’re a loss cause in the situation.
Has anyone at all on these threads supported the riots? No, there is not need to complicate two different issues.
Mass immigration is destroying Europe. Not all immigrants but you should do some research into the women and the children who been impacted by this influx over the last 5 years, their lives destroyed, the ones that survived, don’t be so ignorant.

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:41

Puppalicious · Yesterday 19:39

I’m not talking about the English am I? I’m talking about those protesting in NI. Such lovely people. Do you support those men?

No, do you? The lady doth protest too much and seems desperate to discuss them at any opportunity.

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:42

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:41

BBC News - Natalie McNally: Stephen McCullagh sentenced to 31 years for murder - BBC News
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/crmpyy4gkdyo?app-referrer=deep-lin

I don't remember the riots after this horrific murder.

Why would there be riots? Was the murder enabled by government policy?

Cel77 · Yesterday 19:42

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:09

It’s not ‘the odd crime’. Over the last week we’ve had an attempted beheading, 5 men on trial for rape, and the jailing of another for raping a woman in a park. That’s in 1 week.

Look at the statistics for women murdered by your pure blood British Joe Blogg...Give your head a bit of a wake up call ...

EmeraldShamrock000 · Yesterday 19:43

00K · Yesterday 19:40

So all the people saying it’s good that they are rioting and burning buses etc. what exactly do you think it’s achieving? Do you feel protected as a woman but these men who do this? Or what?

Feel free to quote the post that you are referring to in your post?

HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:43

EmeraldShamrock000 · Yesterday 19:35

I despair.
Two things involving men can be true. Men rape, Men from certain cultures think that it is their right to rule over women. Two types of men, very different backgrounds, shall we wait till they sort Simon and Bob Etc. I’m sure the various women raped around the beaches or roadside in England by foreigners will be happy.

Yeah - men from this culture think that too, which is why so many women in this country are still being abused by partners.

My daughter was sexually assaulted by an English white man, I’d be pretty happy if they addressed their attitude to those men. The asylum seekers that I’ve seen convicted in the news have all received prison sentences. My daughter’s attacker was allowed to serve a community order as he was “the family breadwinner”.

Totaldramallama · Yesterday 19:44

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:09

It’s not ‘the odd crime’. Over the last week we’ve had an attempted beheading, 5 men on trial for rape, and the jailing of another for raping a woman in a park. That’s in 1 week.

How many white men have committed crimes in that week? Also wasn't the attempted beheading some kind of drug row?

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 19:44

LittleJustice · Yesterday 19:37

What I'm saying is, some men from our culture are terrible. And that is even when they have a stake in our Society which should theoretically make them behave better because they have more to lose.

So why would we let in a flood of men who have nothing to lose, weren't brought up with any attempt to pretend that they saw women as equals. Who hate our culture. Who are homophobic and misogynistic?

I’m not saying we should let any random unvetted person in but you don’t add value to the debate when you phrase it as a clash of cultures, but also tie in the current events because I don’t know what culture you think you’re talking about protecting but the men rioting right now certainly don’t have it.
Loyalists by and large vote for the DUP, they are misogynistic, homophobic, regularly blocked same sex marriage, and do not respect women hence the statistics on female violence, sexual assault and femicide in these areas being incredibly high.

EmeraldShamrock000 · Yesterday 19:45

HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:43

Yeah - men from this culture think that too, which is why so many women in this country are still being abused by partners.

My daughter was sexually assaulted by an English white man, I’d be pretty happy if they addressed their attitude to those men. The asylum seekers that I’ve seen convicted in the news have all received prison sentences. My daughter’s attacker was allowed to serve a community order as he was “the family breadwinner”.

Yes, well if they stopped spending millions on immigration, hotel, food and pocket money to the 1000’s of boat arrivals then they might have money to focus on the country that they are employed to keep safe, domestic abuse, more prison space, women and children’s education, but they’ve no money left.

HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:46

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:36

Did anyone say it is?

Yeah the person I quoted said it was.

I’ll walk ya through it -

OP said I don’t see how rioting/burning is helping

and then @HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits said “you don’t see a lot do you”

thereby stating that the OP is blind for not seeing how it’s helping.

so im asking for a bit of expansion on how it’s helping. Obviously because myself and @00K are too stupid to see it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Theworldsgonemadagain · Yesterday 19:47

MellowZebra · Yesterday 19:23

You don't know who is marching

Marching? Funny way to describe men setting light to buses, cars, people's houses. Assaulting police officers.

Referring to unite the kingdom rallys where thousands of women and men went out marching peacefully. For the record I think it's ridiculous to burn cars and damage properties and assaulting police is totally unacceptable. There will be people there that want to demonstrate peacefully but it got hijacked by people that just want an excuse to cause trouble. The same happened with the BLM riots. There seems a lot of nonsense about the threat of the 'far right', although 75% of terror threats are islamist and all those Jewish attacks were perpetrated by islamists too. All we get is 'but white men' of course e there are a percentage of men that do bad things but some cultures are much more likely to do so. We live in a culture where it's not acceptable to sexually assult a woman. We should all be out marching.

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:47

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:42

Why would there be riots? Was the murder enabled by government policy?

Maybe the government should have stopped recruiting white men to the Met Police. That's the same argument.

EmeraldShamrock000 · Yesterday 19:47

Totaldramallama · Yesterday 19:44

How many white men have committed crimes in that week? Also wasn't the attempted beheading some kind of drug row?

No it wasn’t. The attacker hadn’t a word of English. The victim has special needs. Ffs. Disgraceful.
Show me the evidence for that statement??

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:47

HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:46

Yeah the person I quoted said it was.

I’ll walk ya through it -

OP said I don’t see how rioting/burning is helping

and then @HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits said “you don’t see a lot do you”

thereby stating that the OP is blind for not seeing how it’s helping.

so im asking for a bit of expansion on how it’s helping. Obviously because myself and @00K are too stupid to see it 🤷🏻‍♀️

I didn’t read that as meaning that at all. Feel free to ask the poster to clarify.

Puppalicious · Yesterday 19:47

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:41

No, do you? The lady doth protest too much and seems desperate to discuss them at any opportunity.

My experience of English men is very nice (though that’s mostly when visiting London on travelling and I’m not really meeting far right types - but I find them very polite and nice). When Irish travel I think we tend to get on best with the English. It’s not an English thing. You’re just absolutely refusing to listen to us when we tell you what these protesters are like - presumably because they’re British and white. Sheer racism.

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:48

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:47

Maybe the government should have stopped recruiting white men to the Met Police. That's the same argument.

It’s so tiring arguing with people with no critical thinking skills whatsoever.

HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:48

EmeraldShamrock000 · Yesterday 19:45

Yes, well if they stopped spending millions on immigration, hotel, food and pocket money to the 1000’s of boat arrivals then they might have money to focus on the country that they are employed to keep safe, domestic abuse, more prison space, women and children’s education, but they’ve no money left.

I wouldn’t have thought so.

we spend less than 0.5% of our GDP on foreign aid (the budget that asylum support comes from, along with a multitude of other things).

Rape conviction/punishment in this country has always been appallingly low - long before hotels and boat crossings were an issue.

EmeraldShamrock000 · Yesterday 19:48

HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:46

Yeah the person I quoted said it was.

I’ll walk ya through it -

OP said I don’t see how rioting/burning is helping

and then @HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits said “you don’t see a lot do you”

thereby stating that the OP is blind for not seeing how it’s helping.

so im asking for a bit of expansion on how it’s helping. Obviously because myself and @00K are too stupid to see it 🤷🏻‍♀️

so im asking for a bit of expansion on how it’s helping. Obviously because myself and are too stupid to see it I agree with you completely.

WestwardHo1 · Yesterday 19:48

Quine0nline · Yesterday 19:24

Yes the common denominator is that a large number, vast majority of perpetrators are male. Some are white, some black, some brown. Some came over with William the conqueror, some last week.

There is a problem.
It did not start last week, last year or last decade.

Let's look for solutions. It will not be sorted on a week, a month or a year. If only.

We as women are more likely to be the sole parent, the teacher, the social worker, the lawyer, the journalist, the broadcaster etc - how can we as women start to act in cohesion to effect change.

The alternative is to drone on - aren't men bastards? Yes bastards, all of them. Yes yes oh let's live without them. Run off and hide out heads under the covers in a feminist enclave?

Women can't solve this on their own.

The more they try and solve it, the more men whine about misandry and NAMALT, and the more kickback there is.

HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:49

EmeraldShamrock000 · Yesterday 19:48

so im asking for a bit of expansion on how it’s helping. Obviously because myself and are too stupid to see it I agree with you completely.

And yet can’t offer an explanation with your superior intelligence…how odd

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:49

Puppalicious · Yesterday 19:47

My experience of English men is very nice (though that’s mostly when visiting London on travelling and I’m not really meeting far right types - but I find them very polite and nice). When Irish travel I think we tend to get on best with the English. It’s not an English thing. You’re just absolutely refusing to listen to us when we tell you what these protesters are like - presumably because they’re British and white. Sheer racism.

You’re zooming in on their British roots and using this as proof they’re awful but I’m the racist?

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:50

Theworldsgonemadagain · Yesterday 19:47

Referring to unite the kingdom rallys where thousands of women and men went out marching peacefully. For the record I think it's ridiculous to burn cars and damage properties and assaulting police is totally unacceptable. There will be people there that want to demonstrate peacefully but it got hijacked by people that just want an excuse to cause trouble. The same happened with the BLM riots. There seems a lot of nonsense about the threat of the 'far right', although 75% of terror threats are islamist and all those Jewish attacks were perpetrated by islamists too. All we get is 'but white men' of course e there are a percentage of men that do bad things but some cultures are much more likely to do so. We live in a culture where it's not acceptable to sexually assult a woman. We should all be out marching.

Saying that all members of a particular ethnic group are all murderers and rapists is pure racism. It's almost as if you don't personally know any members of those groups. If you did you wouldn't believe that crap.

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:51

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 19:50

Saying that all members of a particular ethnic group are all murderers and rapists is pure racism. It's almost as if you don't personally know any members of those groups. If you did you wouldn't believe that crap.

Who said this and when?