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Bloody sick of men. Oh it’s the immigrants raping and stabbing, NO it’s men. Always fucking men

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00K · Yesterday 19:02

That’s my Friday rant.
Far right men thinking they’re sorting everything out with their riots to protect the women. Maybe women should riot about just men.

also I know it’s not all men, but it is men.

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00K · Yesterday 19:29

KitTea3 · Yesterday 19:26

The only thing I'll say on the matter is this

I agree these crrimes are commited by men. And I think ANY man who commits such crimes should be punished regardless of fucking race or ethnicity.

And yes I'm sorry for all the people out there who don't want to admit it but...THAT INCLUDES WHITE BRITISH MEN!!! I'm sick of seeing them get off lightly, had excuses made for them etc. I mean look at America?! Their president is a goddamn criminal. And named more times in the damn files than jesus was mentioned in the bible...and yet..meta away with his crimes scott free. Would he if he wasn't a rich white man?! 🤔 Any time a white man is accused of or hell actually found guilty of a crime there are a million comments defending them? I mean if we are going down the route of blaming an entire demographic for a proper toon of crimes (as is clearly happening) maybe don't focus on race but the actual common denominator that they are mostly men..?

Take race out of the equation. Start acting on EVERY man that is a danger to women and children. You could removed every migrant man from this country and guess what, we would STILL have a huge issue with violence against women and girls.

(And for the record before anyone brings up some thing of "but how would you feel if you were at risk) the 2x I've been sexually assaulted in my life...was not by migrant men 👀🤦🏻‍♀️)

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You’re missing my point. Of course this is wrong.
As another poster said, I’ve been raped and sexually assaulted. I was also beaten up by a group of men. All white men.
I don’t care about race though. The common denominator is that it’s men who are a risk to me and my daughters

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KitTea3 · Yesterday 19:31

00K · Yesterday 19:29

You’re missing my point. Of course this is wrong.
As another poster said, I’ve been raped and sexually assaulted. I was also beaten up by a group of men. All white men.
I don’t care about race though. The common denominator is that it’s men who are a risk to me and my daughters

Thats exactly what I was saying....🤷🏻‍♀️

That the issue isnt race, it's men...which was agreeing with you unless I'm wildly wrong and that's not what you meant. 🤔

LittleJustice · Yesterday 19:31

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:07

If you can acknowledge men are more likely to commit certain crimes than women, then it shouldn’t be beyond the realms of your capabilities to understand some men are more likely to commit certain crimes than other men.

Hence some countries being far more dangerous.

Exactly 💯

And disenfranchised angry young men from cultures that don't value Western women, see them as lesser, who don't have any stake in our Society or anything to lose frankly by behaving as they wish.

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:31

00K · Yesterday 19:29

You’re missing my point. Of course this is wrong.
As another poster said, I’ve been raped and sexually assaulted. I was also beaten up by a group of men. All white men.
I don’t care about race though. The common denominator is that it’s men who are a risk to me and my daughters

You don’t care about race because you’re in the West, OP. You’re privileged enough not to be surrounded by men in Afghanistan. If you were, you would see how upbringing and culture is highly relevant to the treatment of women.

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 19:31

Theworldsgonemadagain · Yesterday 19:15

@Wannabeblueysmum What is your husband doing to protect you and your daughters then? Is he sitting on his sofa?! Allowing undocumented migrants asylum and then those going on to rape and stab citizens is fucking madness. Yes we have problems with white males so why the fuck are we adding more monsters to the mix?? At least our own citizens we know thier convictions we don't know who the hell is coming in. We can not ignore these evil attacks that keep happening all over the UK because some white men also rape women that's fucking ridiculous. You don't know who is marching, just because they are white doesn't mean they are far right, they probably, unlike your husband, give a fuck what is happening in this country and care about thier daughters.

Marching?
There is no marching happening, let’s be clear about what is happening right now in NI as a result of the attack - it’s cordinated violence and thuggery. It’s not marching or demonstrating.
Again for people on the mainland who wilfully ignore facts, this was arranged with the text “men of fighting age, come wearing dark clothes, cover your face and be prepared to fight or go to jail.”
Its complete scum and anyone who’s husband is out burning children out of their homes during the night, attacking innocent nurses or hijacking busses with people just trying to go about the day in the name of protecting women and children should be disgusted.

00K · Yesterday 19:31

Moveoverdarlin · Yesterday 19:27

And that’s just the ones that have been reported in the press. Hundreds won’t have had media coverage and hundreds won’t have even been reported. It’s definitely not the odd crime. It’s so far from that. It’s a huge problem.

And women are killed every day by their husbands. Who are not big bad immigrants.

i have clients who are scared to leave their. House. Afghani woman and her three kids for fear of racist people

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RoadTripDiary · Yesterday 19:32

It is men, but it’s bad enough that we have to deal with bad British men, without having to cope with bad men from elsewhere.

Puppalicious · Yesterday 19:32

And by white British people I should say. The British identification is very important to them.

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:33

Puppalicious · Yesterday 19:32

And by white British people I should say. The British identification is very important to them.

There’s already a football thread going where the anti English are posting, you could try that one.

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 19:33

LittleJustice · Yesterday 19:31

Exactly 💯

And disenfranchised angry young men from cultures that don't value Western women, see them as lesser, who don't have any stake in our Society or anything to lose frankly by behaving as they wish.

In what way do the men rioting, who contribute to the numbers of women attacked and killed making NI one of the least safe countries for women value women or see them as equal?

HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:34

Fillies4DeclanRice · Yesterday 19:17

Maybe that's because she shouldn't be in this country and wasn't trying to behead random people on the street, despite people voting for people like her to not be in this country?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/crmpejxlm7do

this one was “meant to be here” and trying to behead someone in the street - don’t remember the riots for her crime.

When did we have a vote on amending the refugee convention?

Alina Burns is a young woman with a shaved head. The image is a police mugshot.

Neo-Nazi teenager jailed for attempting to murder man with an axe

A 19-year-old approached the victim from behind and swung an axe at his neck.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/crmpejxlm7do

00K · Yesterday 19:34

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 19:33

In what way do the men rioting, who contribute to the numbers of women attacked and killed making NI one of the least safe countries for women value women or see them as equal?

Thank you exactly

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HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits · Yesterday 19:35

00K · Yesterday 19:22

You can try to belittle me all you like.
I work on the front line. I see what men do. You might think the balaclava boys are doing a great job to protect the women by burning buses. I don’t

But you don't 'work on the frontline' do you. `Frontline' of what, exactly?

You are a middle class woke warrior who has set up a goady thread to establish your right-on credentials, parroting the usual `diversity is our strength' bollox which people are rightly calling out.

I have no time for rioters either, but your suicidal empathy in welcoming unvetted men from violent cultures that despise and degrade women, is partly why we are in this mess.

00K · Yesterday 19:35

RoadTripDiary · Yesterday 19:32

It is men, but it’s bad enough that we have to deal with bad British men, without having to cope with bad men from elsewhere.

Wow really? I’m actually quite stunned at the way things are changing in the uk. Such a shame and not what we hoped for back in the 90s

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EmeraldShamrock000 · Yesterday 19:35

SleeplessInWherever · Yesterday 19:08

Couldn’t agree more.

I told my partner in a mega rant a few months back that when the menfolk have sorted out Simon, Graham, Michael and Bob, they can come back to me about immigrants.

I also really, really resent random bin throwing thugs telling me they’re “protecting their women and children” like we’re under private ownership of them and they’re saving the day.

I despair.
Two things involving men can be true. Men rape, Men from certain cultures think that it is their right to rule over women. Two types of men, very different backgrounds, shall we wait till they sort Simon and Bob Etc. I’m sure the various women raped around the beaches or roadside in England by foreigners will be happy.

00K · Yesterday 19:35

HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits · Yesterday 19:35

But you don't 'work on the frontline' do you. `Frontline' of what, exactly?

You are a middle class woke warrior who has set up a goady thread to establish your right-on credentials, parroting the usual `diversity is our strength' bollox which people are rightly calling out.

I have no time for rioters either, but your suicidal empathy in welcoming unvetted men from violent cultures that despise and degrade women, is partly why we are in this mess.

Well I do actually

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HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:36

HelpHedgehogsByFeedingThemCatBiscuits · Yesterday 19:19

You don't see a lot, do you OP.

I don’t see it either, could you help out those less intellectually superior than yourself by explaining how literally deatorying the country we live in is effecting change?

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:36

HobGobblynne · Yesterday 19:36

I don’t see it either, could you help out those less intellectually superior than yourself by explaining how literally deatorying the country we live in is effecting change?

Did anyone say it is?

Pugdogmom · Yesterday 19:37

Drives me nuts seeing all those protestors saying they want to protect women and girls. They couldn't care less

LittleJustice · Yesterday 19:37

Honeyhonay · Yesterday 19:33

In what way do the men rioting, who contribute to the numbers of women attacked and killed making NI one of the least safe countries for women value women or see them as equal?

What I'm saying is, some men from our culture are terrible. And that is even when they have a stake in our Society which should theoretically make them behave better because they have more to lose.

So why would we let in a flood of men who have nothing to lose, weren't brought up with any attempt to pretend that they saw women as equals. Who hate our culture. Who are homophobic and misogynistic?

Dandelionsalad · Yesterday 19:38

It is men, so why allow more in?

00K · Yesterday 19:38

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:36

Did anyone say it is?

No you’re right. It’s not effecting change. It’s protecting the women and children isn’t it. God knows how when the woman and children are too scared to leave the house because the balaclava boys are burning shit

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Puppalicious · Yesterday 19:39

Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:33

There’s already a football thread going where the anti English are posting, you could try that one.

I’m not talking about the English am I? I’m talking about those protesting in NI. Such lovely people. Do you support those men?

00K · Yesterday 19:40

So all the people saying it’s good that they are rioting and burning buses etc. what exactly do you think it’s achieving? Do you feel protected as a woman but these men who do this? Or what?

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Walkyrie · Yesterday 19:40

00K · Yesterday 19:38

No you’re right. It’s not effecting change. It’s protecting the women and children isn’t it. God knows how when the woman and children are too scared to leave the house because the balaclava boys are burning shit

Op just have the courage to admit this thread isn’t really about male violence, you just wanted to post how anti racist you are and how you disagree with wanton destruction and arson. Which is fine; as we all agree.

What we disagree with is the notion that right wing violence is, overall, a bigger threat than that of terrorism, overseas hostile ideology or men from even more misogynistic countries coming here en masse with no checks.