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Bonnie blue risky sexual behaviour whilst pregnant

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Jellysweets13 · Today 17:22

If you’re not interested in discussing this then feel free to scroll on by.

A lot of us will know who Bonnie Blue is. The porn star who slept with 1000 men and various other stunts. Loves to rage bait especially to women.

She’s now pregnant, probably around 4-6 months.

If she’s to be believed she’s still working and filming and her latest stunt was to hold a baby shower in which she invited strangers to urinate over her and then have sex with her.

Obviously this has created a lot of outrage and disgust and there are comments everywhere online saying that she is not only sexualising her baby but that social services should be involved.

I’m not completely convinced that she actually doing these things for real. She has an X page showing clips, but it could all be fake or AI.

But let’s say for a moment that she really is having sex with strangers and letting them urinate on her. Where is the line drawn between her body her choice and saying that she’s putting the baby at risk and social services should be involved?

I’m very much usually of the opinion of women having autonomy and choice, but it seems like very risky behaviour and the child is going to have to endure a lot of negative comments and attention because of the choices the mother is making. She doesn’t need to do these things whilst pregnant she is a millionaire.

Yabu - her body her choice
Yanbu - it’s a social services case

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MagnesiumBathSalts · Today 17:23

I’m pretty sure she said the pregnancy was a publicity stunt and she was wearing a fake bump?

Jellysweets13 · Today 17:24

MagnesiumBathSalts · Today 17:23

I’m pretty sure she said the pregnancy was a publicity stunt and she was wearing a fake bump?

She did do that but she definitely is very obviously pregnant.

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LuckyHazelFox · Today 17:25

YANBU.

Imaginary86 · Today 17:25

Is she actually pregnant for real this time? She has said she was pregnant before and it was fake

dartmoordays · Today 17:26

She’s vile. Everything that baby does will be monetised and posted on social media for weirdos to view.

LuckyHazelFox · Today 17:28

It's not knowing the medical history of the father either that's going to be problematic.

WhatWouldDianeLockhartDo · Today 17:28

Watching with interest. She faked it before but appears to be real this time. It feels really dangerous to me and imagine being that baby and finding out! Was not keen on all the previous stuff but thought it’s up to them, thought the comments about women were rage bait so just sighed but this is quite sad. especially as she can’t need the money now.

Jellysweets13 · Today 17:29

She did pull a stunt wearing a fake bump but she is an absolute rage baiter.

She is pregnant and is much further along now and unless it’s a very elaborate AI stunt there are loads of videos and interviews of her now sporting a very large and very real bump, she’s also out on very obvious weight on her arms, hips, boobs.

She is having a baby I’ve no doubt.

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Slushies · Today 17:29

Her and the other one, Lily Philips? Have done pregnancy stunts a couple of times and it’s always been a lie.

Zov · Today 17:30

She needs the baby taking off her as soon as its born. Grim, vile article she is. She seems to have disappeared of the face of the planet pretty much now. Probably isn't even pregnant really.

Florally · Today 17:31

I don’t think it’s a lie this time and YANBU - imagine being that baby when you get to school age and beyond. Unbelievable.

RoseField1 · Today 17:31

The baby is not at risk until it's born. But afterwards - I don't know if social services would get involved. It's icky, being a parent who is also a porn star but does it directly harm the child? At least while they are a baby? Unclear.

Ablondiebutagoody · Today 17:31

She is grim.....but can do what she likes. I don't watch her stunts.

dartmoordays · Today 17:32

RoseField1 · Today 17:31

The baby is not at risk until it's born. But afterwards - I don't know if social services would get involved. It's icky, being a parent who is also a porn star but does it directly harm the child? At least while they are a baby? Unclear.

The baby is at risk now - if she catches any sort of infection it could harm the baby. The baby is at risk the second it’s born in that she’ll post it all over the internet for pedos to look at.

Jellysweets13 · Today 17:32

RoseField1 · Today 17:31

The baby is not at risk until it's born. But afterwards - I don't know if social services would get involved. It's icky, being a parent who is also a porn star but does it directly harm the child? At least while they are a baby? Unclear.

But could the baby be at risk if she’s having unprotected sex with strangers? Also letting them pee on her.

Surely there is a high risk of STIs.

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Frequency · Today 17:35

On the one hand, it's her body, her choice. On the other hand, I can't help thinking some complex psychological issues are going on with her.

My judgment is mostly reserved for the vile men who take part in the stunts.

Boomer55 · Today 17:36

Poor child, if she’s actually pregnant. 🙄. She’s just vile, as are the men who encourage her.

Jellysweets13 · Today 17:39

Frequency · Today 17:35

On the one hand, it's her body, her choice. On the other hand, I can't help thinking some complex psychological issues are going on with her.

My judgment is mostly reserved for the vile men who take part in the stunts.

I must admit I’ve got a morbid fascination with this woman. A bit like watching a serial killer documentary.

I am absolutely fascinated at how she’s got the stomach to do what she does.

But there’s something that crosses a line doing all of that while pregnant and quite heavily pregnant at that.

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Noshadowsinthedarkness · Today 17:40

I think amongst this it makes me feel really disgusted thinking of the men doing this and the men who want to watch a pregnant woman being urinated upon.

Jellysweets13 · Today 17:43

Noshadowsinthedarkness · Today 17:40

I think amongst this it makes me feel really disgusted thinking of the men doing this and the men who want to watch a pregnant woman being urinated upon.

Yes I agree.

I’m fairly open minded I know people have fetishes but fetishes involving pregnant women and particularly degrading a pregnant woman.

Just why?

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LAhousingrepairs · Today 17:43

RoseField1 · Today 17:31

The baby is not at risk until it's born. But afterwards - I don't know if social services would get involved. It's icky, being a parent who is also a porn star but does it directly harm the child? At least while they are a baby? Unclear.

SS can do a pre birth assessment and I think it’s probably necessary in this case

LaliqueSaltGrinder · Today 17:50

It's not true though that babies are only in danger once they are born. Social services can and do get involved with mothers making risky choices such as using intravenous drugs when they are pregnant, or who have had previous children taken into care.

Pieceofpurplesky · Today 17:55

The poor child. Whilst it's her body, her behaviour will impact on the kid. Imagine the parent's evening! Some of the dads may have been part of her publicity stunt and the kids will know who she is. The bullying will be relentless.
I wouldn't put it past her to flog the daughter to the highest bidder at 16, as the 'harlots'* of old used to do.

  • and did in the TV show of the same name
Jellysweets13 · Today 17:56

She did an interview on LBC and the interviewer asked if she was worried about SS. BB said no because there are worse families out there than me being paid to pop out kids.

But I don’t think that she understands she thinks all her money puts her above anyone else. But you can be rich and still putting your child at harm.

If she was a pregnant young woman from a council estate and was prostituting herself to local men im
certsin that SS would be all over it.

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