Bonnie blue risky sexual behaviour whilst pregnant

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A lot of us will know who Bonnie Blue is. The porn star who slept with 1000 men and various other stunts. Loves to rage bait especially to women.

She’s now pregnant, probably around 4-6 months.

If she’s to be believed she’s still working and filming and her latest stunt was to hold a baby shower in which she invited strangers to urinate over her and then have sex with her.

Obviously this has created a lot of outrage and disgust and there are comments everywhere online saying that she is not only sexualising her baby but that social services should be involved.

I’m not completely convinced that she actually doing these things for real. She has an X page showing clips, but it could all be fake or AI.

But let’s say for a moment that she really is having sex with strangers and letting them urinate on her. Where is the line drawn between her body her choice and saying that she’s putting the baby at risk and social services should be involved?

I’m very much usually of the opinion of women having autonomy and choice, but it seems like very risky behaviour and the child is going to have to endure a lot of negative comments and attention because of the choices the mother is making. She doesn’t need to do these things whilst pregnant she is a millionaire.

Yabu - her body her choice
Yanbu - it’s a social services case

It’s mad isn’t it? Horrific.

There’s always someone who posts and says ‘I don’t get why you are outraged by this’ no matter the topic. I always imagine that they like to think of themselves as the most laid back, permissive, philosophical person but in reality they lose their shit with GPs receptionists and queues in the Post Office. 😂

Then either she's had a course of IVF or the "not be able to conceive naturally" was a lie.
She has such a tenuous relationship with the truth, it's difficult to know..🙄

@WhatWouldDianeLockhartDo She may not find it degrading but I’d comfortably bet the man urinating on her thinks he is degrading her and is getting off on it. All fair game if you’re into it… until a baby is involved and it’s public fodder.

Nope. You're assuming the men are finding it degrading, because you're projecting your own psychology onto those men and assuming they think the same way you do. The fact that they're happy to piss on a pregnant woman as a group should be a clear indication that they don't think the way you do.

I'm fairly certain that they're getting off on pissing on her... not "degrading" her, whatever that means.

Also, no baby is involved. Bonnie Blue is pregnant, so that means there is no baby present.

Why are they getting off on it? What about it brings them joy? They may not think like me (you don’t know if I have a thing for golden showers myself) but I’m confident it’s along those lines. I’m genuinely interested as to what other reasons there are.

yes, no baby now but it will be. And it will know. And that not yet baby is still at risk of being sexualised, the mother getting a sexually transmitted disease and other stuff.

Oops sorry @shuggles

I judge the men more. There are hundreds of them, actually thousands because she had to whittle down her 1000 in one day applications due to so much "interest". These are people's sons, husbands, bank managers, someone’s father.
There is one disturbed woman and many, many, more morally corrupt disgusting men involved and prepared (seemingly) to violate a pregnant woman (whether they are invited or not is immaterial). On the basis of numbers and danger to society, I focus my disgust on the men.

@WhatWouldDianeLockhartDo Why are they getting off on it? What about it brings them joy?

Because watching people urinate, or being urinated on, is sexually arousing for many men. It has nothing to do with "degradation."

but I’m confident it’s along those lines.

Again, you're assuming they think the same way you do. Why are you so convinced that men's psychology around sex is the same as yours?

yes, no baby now but it will be. And it will know. And that not yet baby is still at risk of being sexualised, the mother getting a sexually transmitted disease and other stuff.

I don't think I've ever heard of a case of a baby being born with an infection because the mother was urinated on.

@shugglescan’t copy and paste in the app.

its not that men’s psychology is the same as mine, more that I think I know how they think. And although I’m willing to accept I’m wrong, I don’t know really why else someone would get off on it other than degradation or superiority.

i mean infection from sleeping with them, which she has said that she will be doing. I don’t know about the natural protections in place to stop infection passing through but I would imagine it’s a risk. I’m not too fussed about the golden showers. It’s not for me and I don’t like the reasons from those involved but it’s likely harmless, mentally and physically, to Bonnie. Not so much for baby blue. And isn’t baby blue the one we are concerned for?

Yeah but most men aren’t aroused by urine play (?) so of they are, it’s probably her being so… down for anything. Essentially slutty, even in pregnancy. Which is degrading. But also, she clearly doesn’t care, so is it degrading then?

*Im not using the word slut to be derogatory but not sure how else to explain it.

Frankly, she is both damaged and disgusting, and that poor child should be removed from her at birth. It wont be though, because Murica, where porn stars are heroes.

You confidently say ‘it has nothing to do with degradation’ but how do you know that it isn’t about degradation for some of the men? How do you know that isn’t the key element of it for some of them?

She's British and lives in Britain.

There absolutely will be lactating involved in a future stunt. I'm sure she's planning it already.

The problem with focusing too much on infection risk, is that its something that can be proven against. If she's able to produce all the right screenings etc then there's no case.

In general it's makes people feel icky and I think its okay to say

Theres loads of lactation porn out there currently, I cant see why she would be different

She thinks because she’s making a lot of money and because it’s her ‘choice’ that it’s not degrading. But she is making money BECAUSE it’s degrading. Sadly, some men like to degrade women or will pay to watch them getting degraded. They see the women involved as less than nothing, but that’s what they get off on. It’s just horrible.

No one can stop her though if she wants to behave so disgusting. But she seems to think the child will be ok with it as they will be travelling on a private jet etc. She is so naive, there are lots of children of rich parents who disown them for much less.

I don’t care about lactation, it’s in the same category as pregnancy sex.

Unless she posts videos of herself actually breastfeeding her child for “educational purposes” to her audience. Or does some other weird sex stunt to connect it to the baby :/

Oh absolutely. There is one Bonnie Blue, but thousands of men who are willing to be involved - and they’re not even getting money out of it.

There's no evidence for that.

I'm sure that she will figure out some weird depraved angle on lactation to get the outrage and publicity - eg how many 18 year boys or 70 year old men she can breastfeed in 24 hours or something weird like that.

It's not even shocking anymore- it just looks like a sad woman desperately trying to get attention in order to make money. Bit pathetic really.

If it turns out she’s a psychopath or sociopath or similar I don’t think anyone would be surprised, but her baby won’t be removed because she’s a slapper, the threshold to remove a child is very high, too high in my opinion. There are drug addicts and alcoholics that get to keep their children, people who make poor choices and put their children in the public eye get to keep their children. I’m sure there will be staring and whispering and very few play dates when the poor child goes to school, but that won’t be enough to remove it from her care. People can make poor choices if they want to. The men that enable and take part in her stunts ought to be ashamed of themselves, the fact they wear masks shows they’re not proud of themselves.

Men, as a class, supply women with plenty evidence that they enjoy degrading women.

I somehow doubt it's the more enlightened ones fucking BB.

@InconvenientlyMaterial Men, as a class, supply women with plenty evidence that they enjoy degrading women.

Men enjoy doing things, which women find degrading.

Men don't go out of their way to degrade women but obviously, this is not an excuse because virtually all men know that women will perceive it that way. But this does not change the fact that the degradation is incidental.