To feel weird about being second woman on sex chair

[TheBloomingDahlia]

I don’t think I am BU but interested in whether other people would just get over it.

Been with my boyfriend for two years, we don’t live together yet and he has just got some furniture out of storage after moving house. One item that he has recently mentioned is a curvy foam chair/sofa thing made for sex. I will add a photo of similar. Although he originally bought it new I think it’s fairly likely he has had sex with his ex on it.

I am not usually jealous at all but I feel really weird about this - I guess because it’s specially made for sex? And because it’s foam I feel like if it wasn’t covered it has probably absorbed some juices 🙈. Although surely any bacteria will be dead after two years. I just don’t want to be lying on this thing knowing his ex was in the same positions, thinking maybe she was face down in the same spot and we would be basically cheek to cheek!

These feelings are all new to me as I don’t usually think about exes and I’ve never been confronted with sex furniture/toys/accessories that weren’t my own or bought new. AIBU to feel weird about this? Would you just put a waterproof sheet down and try to get over it, or refuse to use it because you don’t want to feel uncomfortable during sex?

I think folks think you’re unreasonable to even want to do this.

I should think the woman’s arse cheeks on those stick out metal latter type bits.

christ, why do people need this paraphernalia?

Greenwitchart
Frankly a man talking about/buying a ''sex chair'' would be an instant turn off for me in the first place.

Same here. Ew! And totally different to a bed because they have sheets and aren’t made especially with sex in mind. Ew again😅😅😅

“I really don’t want to have sex on this chair after someone else has - anyone else want it”

🤔🤣

But is that because it has been used with someone else, or just because it’s a sex chair full stop?

When I saw the title I honestly thought it would be something like this.

😂

Both. 🤢

There must be tones of that in the mattress. Did he buy new sheets after he met you or is he still using the same ones. You sound gross 🤮

Does it come with a penis beaker ?

I get the ick about hotel beds so it’d be a no from me!
The poster above saying is it for the elderly…just you wait until you are the owner of 40yr old knees! 😂

Yes, it does seem odd.

Mine are older, and I still don’t need a sex chair…😂

Why can't you just have sex in a normal chair like any normal person?

Yeah, no, I couldn't.

It does look way more comfy than using a few pillows for support tho

Same!! I have clearly led too sheltered a life.

Throw a sheet or towel over it and give it a go. Find out if it’s comfortable. Find out if it allows different positions more easily. If you like it then he can get an upholstery vacuum cleaner shampoo-er thingy and give it a good clean. If you don’t like it then ask him to put it back into storage or sell it.

Personally I’d love to try one of these chairs. I have dodgy hips and knees and DH isn’t exactly very flexible so it would probably allow us to be in positions that just aren’t possible.

Not sure how I’d feel about the chair being used previously. Isn’t that part of what comes with being with someone who has had sex with others before you? His body has been inside other women. Not sure if a chair is such a big deal compared to that.

That’ll be interesting given that RightMove is for selling your home 🤣

Because beds are where you sleep, and other stuff is...other stuff.....! But a sex chair is for SEX! Urgh. I would need this to be binned off, for sure!

Well Quite!

😂 yes it’s really rather practical in that regard

Surely you could find a more suitable group to chat about your niche interests OP than this one. It's tedious.

You are absolutely NBU for not wanting to use it.

It would give me the ick

IIRC that was built to accommodate three.

for helpful (stick figure) examples of how it could be used:

www.buzzfeed.com/alexalisitza/king-edward-viral-love-chair-fs