To feel weird about being second woman on sex chair

[TheBloomingDahlia]

I don’t think I am BU but interested in whether other people would just get over it.

Been with my boyfriend for two years, we don’t live together yet and he has just got some furniture out of storage after moving house. One item that he has recently mentioned is a curvy foam chair/sofa thing made for sex. I will add a photo of similar. Although he originally bought it new I think it’s fairly likely he has had sex with his ex on it.

I am not usually jealous at all but I feel really weird about this - I guess because it’s specially made for sex? And because it’s foam I feel like if it wasn’t covered it has probably absorbed some juices 🙈. Although surely any bacteria will be dead after two years. I just don’t want to be lying on this thing knowing his ex was in the same positions, thinking maybe she was face down in the same spot and we would be basically cheek to cheek!

These feelings are all new to me as I don’t usually think about exes and I’ve never been confronted with sex furniture/toys/accessories that weren’t my own or bought new. AIBU to feel weird about this? Would you just put a waterproof sheet down and try to get over it, or refuse to use it because you don’t want to feel uncomfortable during sex?

My mate dated a guy in a wheelchair once, they had a hoist thing like a sex swing but for disabled people. I guess it isn’t so dissimilar to this? He will have moved on since, I don’t know how easy it is or isn’t to thoroughly clean…

I don’t think “sex juices” last years though. I’m also a bit unsure how or why this chair is necessary, seems easy enough to do those positions on a bed. I’ll leave.

I’m worried about my future Insta ads - DON’T LISTEN, ALGORITHMS

I know I am old but I had never heard of a sex chair until the last few days !

Ha! Yeh! I just assumed it was an old chair he used to have sex with his gf on. I’ll get back under my rock

The reviews on Amazon are excellent value, although it’s sadly out of stock.

OP, it had slip covers!!! Whip them off and Mrs Hinch them.

I've been thinking far too much about the waterproof sheet/waterproof cover problem:

Wouldn't a sheet just...slide off? They're sort of like rain jacket material, aren't they? Or can you get fitted ones specifically for sex chairs?

Wouldn't you (or the person on the sex chair) just...slide off? Or would it have special clammy properties that would sort of keep you glued in place? But then there'd be a different kind of squelch as you remove yourself I suppose.

I bet that even if there was a special fitted sheet it would pop off one corner mid-gyration anyway.

Sunday mornings used to be about church when I was growing up. How times change.

I was thinking that position would kill my back 🤣

No I would not want to use a 2nd hand "sex...." anything. Bed sheets etc can be washed.

Guessing OP's ex hasn't cleaned his one.

@TheBloomingDahlia If it feels weird, that matters even if you cannot articulate precisely why.

It’s starting to sound really appealing now. Apart from the sex bit.

It reminds me of one of one of those vinyl covered shapes you find in toddler soft play areas.

Quite frankly any man who bought a sex chair in the first place would not be coming any where near me. And secondly again. I assume it’s for the very elderly. If that’s the case, then say, as I’m not very elderly and I can see if you struggle physically it maybe a needs must thing.

You can get big waterproof throws that are fleece on one side and velvet on the other side so they’re not plasticky or slippy and you can shove in the washing machine. They are technically/originally for dogs. I regretted mentioning a waterproof sheet when I saw someone link to a tarpaulin upthread!

I’m shocked by some of the comments OP. I completely understand that you don’t want to reuse an item that was solely used for sex with an ex partner. Is not the same as bed, or a sofa. Different purpose and memories, plus the bed at least you change the bed sheets. I would tell him that I don’t feel comfortable with that and you won’t be using, he can get rid of it. If he and you want, you can get a new one - together. Is completely reasonable and he should understand.

I think the weirdness might be because it is specifically for sex, so it gives a feeling if you just having been swapped out with his ex like a removable part for an appliance - whereas everyone has a bed and a sofa and they aren’t sex-specific.

Am I the only one who's never heard of a sex chair before? Its not very multi functional is it, do you have a suite of them for different positions?

It says it flips. Hmm. Personally I would like to see all the possible ways it can be arranged before I fork out on one.

fork out you grubby minded people.

My friend always said that the main purpose of Sunday school was getting all the children out of the house so that parents could have a quickie. Or have a cup of tea in peace.

Anyway, I think that chair, with the addition of some appropriate straps, might be handy for reformer pilates.

Thinking more, why I have no idea, does this mean you could end up pregnant with her babies?

I’d like to think her sex chair was a sex throne, at least.

Ha ha ha me too!!

Ick!!

The op may want to be careful if she puts a load on

Washing!!! sex machine people's

I was thinking how comfy for watching TV when i do my back in .....

I don’t know why youre worried about a sex chair considering his penis will have been goodness knows where with previous partners.

You’ve made my day with that gem ❤️

The comments on this have not disappointed 😂😂