To worry more about adult DC than I ever did when they were little

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I was never an anxious parent. But now I think a combination of menopausal anxiety and no control over what they do, I worry constantly and think the worst possible outcomes. Both are lovely capable mostly responsible girls.
DD1 is 24 and travelling. I worry about her constantly. Haven't heard from her for 12hrs/she hasn't posted on SoMe and my brain worm is thinking all sorts. She's 6hrs ahead so is obviously asleep.
DD2 is 18 and out for a friend's birthday. Now in the pub and am having to sit on my hands not to message her.
This is never going to stop is it ?

Her youngest has AuDHD. Recently diagnosed. Idk what the issues for her, which led to seeking diagnosis, but they will have affected op and her parenting considerably, the amount of support she needs to give her dd and input into her life.

Oops quoted the wrong post somehow. See comment above.

I have 2 DDs and the worse worry was when they gave birth to their own children

Don't be rude @SabrinaThwaite

Oh sorry. Maybe I should have just offered bonus points for being smug?

Have respect and faith in them and give them privacy. Tracking 40 year old children on phones, what the actual fuck. Does no one have any hobbies?

How do you feel about friends tracking each other on Snapchat - is that incredibly intrusive?

Yes.