Stag do plans and suspect abbreviations

[WestlieJ]

DP is joint best man for a close friends Wedding in early summer and the stag is abroad next month. DP sorted the logistics of booking, chasing everyone for payment etc (there is 16 people going). The other best man has put together a ‘plan’ for the long weekend and sent to DP for his approval.

I’ve seen this because it’s saved to iCloud and we can jointly access that through the iPad we share to watch Netflix etc.

It’s all fairly standard stuff, but the final section is titled ‘expected costs’ and lists things such as a beer, meal in restaurant, etc, to help people budget. Within this section there are abbreviations, which I’ve taken to be ‘dodgy’ given they are not written in full and one is fairly obviously a strip club, although no idea on ‘MP’.

Ive got it in front of me as took a photo so have written out exactly:

SC - Ent: €10-20 / PD: €50-70
MP - €50 / HR +€30 / OWO + €40 / PM,SO +€50 / FS €100

I have already asked DP who said he scanned over the main itinerary and didn’t even realise that last section was on there and has no idea what it means. He also said he never has and never will step foot in a strip club.

Am I being naive to think DP was unaware? And does anyone know what the last part means?

My guess is ‘Massage Parlour’

I think he will probably know as it would have been mentioned in chat amongst them I would imagine however you will know if he’s telling the truth about never stepping foot in one.

no idea about MP?

Am I being naive to think DP was unaware?

Your DP is naive for sharing iCloud access with you.

Is he unaware he can change the password?

PD is private dance!

If MP is massage parlour, is FS “full service” ?
And if SC is strip club then PD must be private dance?

I think FS is Full Sex. Not sure about others but it looks like some seedy menu of services.

What a weird thing to take from this post 🤨

So you're happy for the OP to be kept in the dark about her dp going to a strip club?

Are you one of the stag party members?! You must be... Surely!!!

Yeah he saw it, I mean you don't organise flights and whatnot for 16 people then miss a bit at the bottom of an email I can assume some of it means Strip club and massage parlour, it doesn't mean your husband would go to any or part of it, I would be dissapointed that they think a stag do should involve women to "entertain them" .

SC - Strip Club
Ent: - Entry
PD - Private dance
MP - Massage Parlour
HR - Hand relief
OWO - Oral with orgasim
FS - Full Sex

Definitely strip club, private dance and massage parlour. I wonder what the others are.

It's in these sorts of situations we find out that we are at a disadvantage being women and not knowing what specifically goes on.

Ewww !

Ah ha!!!! Well done.

Yuk

Really? You think I’d be providing these services to men? You really don’t like women do you?

It’s just a guess. But I can’t think of a more innocent explanation for a stag weekend 🤢

Eeewwwwwwww
i don’t think I’d want to go to the wedding

No you must be one of these men who doesn't want their partners finding out about what these seedy fuckers are getting up to!!!

If the OP didn't have access to this information she would be waving her dp off for his holiday none the wiser...

Thank god for her having a joint iCloud.... She now has to decide what she's going to do with this information...

OWO- oral without (without condom).

I think you must be right. Otherwise he wouldn't have written in acronyms.

PM, SO. Penis massage, suck off? Maybe they wouldn't call it a penis though??

Oh I think you are right, men honestly why can't they just go to the pub and sit about the pool if they are on a stag abroad!

Bloody hell.
I think you need to talk to your partner again and tell him you know what the abbreviations mean. I would not be happy at all.

He knows.....

OWO is “oral without” as in without a condom.

Otherwise this is it.

You’d be very naive to think your partner isn’t at least aware this is happening, OP.

How is that your takeaway?

They don't like women?

I’ve just sent him a screenshot of this list with - ???

Will await his reply!

My DP hasn’t been on a stage weekend as it’s not his thing. I think he’d run a mile if this was on the itinerary (at least I hope so)