Things I haven't said out loud this week

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I will go first!
You are literally the only person that thinks you are amazing! I had to suffer you for years until I wised up! Even your own kids are starting to see you are a dick. You think giving them money makes you a good dad? Try actually spending time with them and getting to know them you you lazy prick!

You must think we’re all stupid. I know I should have better things to do but it’s so obvious what you’re up to. It’s not even discreet. Hope the police raid the gaff.

Your stress at work is entirely of your own making. If you did your work when it was allocated instead of pretending to work or completing self-assigned projects that no one needs, you wouldn’t be feeling overwhelmed and anxious that you’re about to be put on a performance plan. Again!

GET OUT OF BED AND DO SOMETHING

This place (my work) is F'ed. How it manages to make such a profit is beyond me, and it could make double if it did things 'properly'. It seems to be the elephant in the room in the time I've been here, and way before then.

I’m so done with helping people and some need to grow the fuck and get over themselves…yes I know I sound like I am burn out but ffs some people

I don’t want to talk to you about my current situation FIL because I can’t fucking stand you. Your lazy and entitled and a nasty spiteful human being despite the front you try and put on. Knobhead!

Will you please just go to the doctor's about your sodding memory loss and confusion before I have a nervous breakdown worrying about you!!!

Thank you for saying this! It saved me typing the exact same. Just to add "You need to understand that when you and your manager have a difference of opinion on what should be your priority, whether you like it or not, their opinion is the one that counts if you want to keep your job"

The damage your bullying did to me was unforgivable.

How did you survive to adulthood??

Ok i said that out loud....

I stopped 'being there' for you because whenever I did a favour for you or checked in on you, all you did was complain about how no one was helping you or supporting you. And if I did one thing for you there was always this disappointment that I hadn't done three other things that a 'real friend' would have done.

It was exhausting. I was trying my best but in the end I realised that you don't even like me. No wonder I couldn't be the friend you wanted. Friends have to like one another.

You do have time to read. You may choose to prioritise other things, and that is fine, but I’m so bored of hearing how you don’t have time to read but can send endless social media links.

Came to say the same and some wonder why I am they i am.

Seeing as this is my house and you're just staying here temporarily I think you're totally out of order insisting that the TV be so quiet I can't hear it with this cold. I don't believe you that it hurts your ears because you go to the cinema. I also don't like sitting in the dark in the evenings because the lamp "hurts" your eyes. Why doesn't light hurt your eyes when you're making your models? Why do you think should I not use my deodorant because you're sensitive to the particles? Stop being so fucking entitled!

And it's only Monday

Just stop giving him money. Does the fact that the police are involved really not make you realise he's a charlatan?

Stop going on about my sister. Our father’s chronic illness and early death affected me too.

You can't cope with dealing with Dad stuff but won't let anyone else help , i have to question why...
You lost those deeds.
Are you anxious or incompetent?

You are supposed to be training me in this job, but you are quite literally the worst teacher I have ever come across in my life.
You can't explain anything to save your life. You start a sentence, then just stop mid-sentence and start saying something else, over and over. Because you can't formulate a clear statement, you try to resort to demonstration, which means you clicking all over the screen, opening multiple screens, muttering to yourself, and giving me more half-sentences while you try to find an example.
I have to guess what you are thinking, then ask a direct question, for every step of the process. Even then you often fail to answer.

I told you in the same conversation last week to just run the bloody thing under the tap before you change the giving set! If you can't see any air in the set then chances are the sensor is dirty and needs a clean. I only get one giving set a day and you are eating through the bloody things!

Reading through these and I can’t think of an instance recently where I didn’t say what I was thinking! Think maybe I’m too blunt 🤣

Was it really necessary to come home at lunchtime to WFH? I was really enjoying the day off to myself.

Dont walk in to our workplace and ignore the three or four people stationed in the entrance area, then sit expectantly at break for those same people to make your tea to your liking and then wash up after you.
We are all volunteers, all the same status, and just because you chose the sit-down admin role and we chose the manual roles doesnt make you special.(And guess what.. we have to do admin too!)
... and breathe!

Empty handed as always.

I wish you would just fuck off .

If you smoked less weed you might have the money to repair your flat