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AIBU… invite to the wedding

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AmIReallyOCD · 24/01/2026 22:31

My nephew has invited myself, my partner, my teenage son but NOT my partner’s teenage son to his wedding. I feel really irritated by it.. I’ve clarified the invite and it’s not a mistake but haven’t asked why my ‘stepson’ has been excluded. I need to reply in the next week!!

OP posts:
123123again · 26/01/2026 19:45

Changingtimes81 · 26/01/2026 18:29

Married or not he is her stepson & part of her household & family. To leave him out is wrong & basically an insult to blended families who live together. If her stepson was a younger child who lived with her as part of the family unit & her nephew left him out would people say that's ok just get a baby sitter 🤔Unbelievable.

It won’t be long before neither boy will be at home and “ part of the household” . Ops son will still be a cousin regardless . DSS will probably never see him again given their current relationship
The nephew has already given Op a plus one. Plus two is unnecessary.

CKN · 27/01/2026 22:55

freakingscared · 26/01/2026 00:41

I would reply “ since the invite was not made to our whole family we feel it would be unfair to “ your step sons name “ .
wish you all the best ….

😳😳

OP, don’t even think of stooping this low!

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