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Lodger concerns

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Hockorydickerydock · 16/01/2026 18:18

My lodger is having a hernia operation and there no sign of any family support

I work full time and don’t have time to be caring for my tenant who pays me rent, and for me it over steps the mark - he should be having family to help care for him or - or going to stay at family members where he can be helped and supported!

AIBU - to expect him To sort this out ?
AINBU - to leave him to it- as I be out working 8am to 6pm and have enough going on!
I feel like he expect me to sort his dinner and so on! Yet we don’t have any conversations or socialise - he rents a room games cooks and goes to work?

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SheilaFentiman · 22/01/2026 13:44

He’s 40.?! When you were talking about calling his mum or stepdad, thought he was 19 or something and had just left home

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