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Original poster

to call of my wedding...

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SmallShips · 12/06/2008 22:58

As my partner has pooed himself in public, infront of his work mates, after one too many. I am revolted, absolutely revolted..

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notjustmom · 12/06/2008 22:58

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SmallShips · 12/06/2008 22:58

off my wedding sorry

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whatdayisit · 12/06/2008 23:01

One too many? Flipin' heck!

Is the wedding iminent? Was this a one off (stag do perhaps?) or is he regularly incapable?

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SmallShips · 12/06/2008 23:03

5 weeks away, he is often an embarrassment when drunk, but this is way too much! How can i look at him... urghhh!!

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lazarou · 12/06/2008 23:03

LMAO!!!!!!

QueenBhannae · 12/06/2008 23:04

pmsl at you being all pedantic when dh not-to-be has shit his pants in public

hellish · 12/06/2008 23:04

call it off, he'll do it again and you'll hate him for it within 18months

hertsnessex · 12/06/2008 23:04

thats disgusting. his drinking need to be talked about - think calling the wedding off on this alone isnt a good idea but it sounds as though he may have a problem.

buntyjajas · 12/06/2008 23:05

On purpose or by mistake? Was there a curry involved perchance? Not sure would cancel nuptuals over it

lazarou · 12/06/2008 23:06

I thought everyone had shit their pants in public at some point!

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SmallShips · 12/06/2008 23:06

no curry, apprentely he farted and followed through, much like my 2 year old son!

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saggyhairyarse · 12/06/2008 23:06

Hope he doesn't drink too much on his wedding night...

lazarou · 12/06/2008 23:07

He sharted!

Quattrocento · 12/06/2008 23:07

You cannot marry this man. Incontinence is something for twilight years.

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SmallShips · 12/06/2008 23:07

i may have to enforce a drinking ban!

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SmallShips · 12/06/2008 23:08

lol at lazaou

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jessiesmummy · 12/06/2008 23:08

Does he drink and humiliate himself often? The poo thing shouldn't justify calling off the wedding, but if he has a drink problem it needs to be addressed before you tie the knot. How did he react to the poo thing?

QueenBhannae · 12/06/2008 23:09

Is this drink related (if so, call it off NOW because as soon as you are married and he relaxes a bit, you will be getting a golden shower in bed everytime he has a few lol ) or does he have a tummy upset

hatwoman · 12/06/2008 23:09

farted and followed through? doesn;t that mean a bit of a smudge? not sure I'd count that as cacking your pants

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SmallShips · 12/06/2008 23:10

he doesnt have a drink problem, rarely drinks, thankfully, as this or vomiting on people is often the result.

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lazarou · 12/06/2008 23:10

LOL @ Queenie!

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SmallShips · 12/06/2008 23:10

according to the one of the guys he was with he saw the "package" gag.

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dilbertina · 12/06/2008 23:11

Could you get something inserted into wedding vows promising no re-occurence?

S1ur · 12/06/2008 23:11

ah for better and in your case worse eh?

S1ur · 12/06/2008 23:11

did he share this information with the pub?