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To be furious at my ‘supposedly’ best friend?

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missblueberrypie · 12/01/2026 23:35

My ‘’best friend’’ is getting married in a few months. We’ve known each other since primary school and we always had an agreement that when we get married we would have each other as our maid of honours. I kept up my end of the bargain when I married my DWife three years ago. I fully expected that I would receive the same honour but apparently not. I found out that I will be a bridesmaid whilst her sister is the maid of honour. I might be overreacting but I am quite upset and frankly furious. I thought we knew each other better than this and I don’t know if the relationship will ever be the same tbh. I was even more heartbroken when she said that the reason behind this snub is the fact that I am pregnant and would not be able to put 100% effort into wedding planning. What should I do going forward?

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ktopfwcv · 15/01/2026 22:01

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Oh my goodness.

ktopfwcv · 16/01/2026 04:01

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Yet here you are, troll hunting against the guidelines.

ktopfwcv · 16/01/2026 04:06

Iloveyoubut · 13/01/2026 08:10

I have in the past but there’s no point is there. Let’s face it. It’s not harming anyone is it. But sometimes post like this, you see people genuinely trying to help and it can be quite infuriating, don’t turn it on me here though, I’m not the problem here so I’m not getting baited into anything.

Oh, you are.

ktopfwcv · 16/01/2026 04:10

ThatGreatMember · 13/01/2026 08:28

It shows. You need to grow up.

Huh?

TittyGajillions · 16/01/2026 10:21

ktopfwcv · 16/01/2026 04:10

Huh?

What's confusing about that post?

OP I can't believe you brought this up with your friend, what did you want her to say, did you think she'd drop her sister for you?

Catsbreakfast · 18/01/2026 00:06

DidIJustHearWhatIThinkYouSaid · 13/01/2026 00:45

And here we have it …

That’s an insult to only children.

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