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I can't serve you, actually I will

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mumanger · 03/01/2026 18:57

I don't know if my mum rage is out of control but I went to Asda pizza counter and they were closing so I was told as soon as I joined the queue of 2 people that they were shut. They don't display time and the lights were on, so I was a bit annoyed.

I went to look at the premade pizzas, very annoyed but I didn't say anything to the lady. She then asked how many pizzas I wanted, I reminded her she was shut so why does it matter.

Aibu - either shut and be shut, or serve people?

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BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 04/01/2026 00:53

Asking how many pizzas you want isn't rude 🤣

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HeddaGarbled · 04/01/2026 00:57

Changing your name doesn’t make you any less daft.

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 04/01/2026 00:58

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No it's not

What was rude was your reply

She asked a question relevant to the situation

You were just a bitch

Coldsoreupnose2 · 04/01/2026 00:59

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You need help. Seriously 😳

shhblackbag · 04/01/2026 01:00

ColdAsAWitches · 03/01/2026 19:04

She was shutting, but tried to do you a favor. And you're still arguing that you were right and that you were right to be rude to her. You're unbelievable.

This is why I never, ever could work in a public-facing role.

Coldsoreupnose2 · 04/01/2026 01:02

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SisterMarie · 04/01/2026 01:03

shhblackbag · 04/01/2026 01:00

This is why I never, ever could work in a public-facing role.

I used to work in a public facing role. Customers like this provided us a laugh in the break room at least. 😁

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This has to be a wind up

You can't seriously be talking about people being rude when you were so obviously rude to her...

tachetastic · 04/01/2026 01:04

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So you genuinely think that having finished her shift she was simply enquiring as to how many pre-made pizzas you were planning to buy? Why would she care? Doesn't it just make more sense that she was trying to be nice?

Just admit you made a mistake. The assistant doesn't care. Nobody cares to be honest.

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 04/01/2026 01:06

SisterMarie · 04/01/2026 01:03

I used to work in a public facing role. Customers like this provided us a laugh in the break room at least. 😁

Telling newbies about the rude but mad customers is one of my favourite things to do

OP would definitely be on the list

SisterMarie · 04/01/2026 01:07

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It was a job i had as a teen but sure 🤷🏼‍♀️

SisterMarie · 04/01/2026 01:07

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 04/01/2026 01:06

Telling newbies about the rude but mad customers is one of my favourite things to do

OP would definitely be on the list

Top of the list🤣

Kimura · 04/01/2026 01:07

Unhinged thread about an absolutely pathetic situation.

Classic MN!

tachetastic · 04/01/2026 01:08

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Because the offer would have come next, after hearing your answer to her question. If you had said one or two she would have offered to make you them. If you had said twelve she would have said i can make you one or two but not twelve. As you were rude she didn't offer to make any.

FullOfLemons · 04/01/2026 01:11

This thread feels like a fight in the queue for a kebab van

Its just batshit.

Can we make it an MN classic ?

GarlicSound · 04/01/2026 01:24

mumanger · 03/01/2026 19:18

No
She already said she was shut. So why then ask how many pizzas I wanted?

Well, yeah. You don't seem to have asked yourself this question, though!

Why might she have asked?
... Because ...
... her only interest in life is knowing how many pizzas strangers want to buy, even when she isn't serving them
... she wasn't going to serve you, so she wanted to do a little pointy dance at you, going "Yah, sucker! Can't have three pizzas, can't have two, can't have one!"
... she hadn't got her bus fare home, and was going to tap you for however much you would've spent on pizzas
... OR, she was wondering if she could still squeeze your order in after hours?

I mean, you do you, but I cannot fathom how you realistically assumed she was being rude. Why DO you think she asked, then?

angelikacpickles · 04/01/2026 01:28

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Seriously, why on earth do you think she was asking you how many pizzas you wanted? Do you really think she was just being nosy? What possible further context could be needed? They only possible reason for her asking was so that she could make you your flipping pizzas.

GarlicSound · 04/01/2026 01:36

@Coldsoreupnose2 @mumanger You changed user accounts halfway through your thread. You're really not okay tonight, are you Brew Have a hot drink and go to bed.

serendippity · 04/01/2026 01:39

@frankie001 this is also not just anger

This is Mum Anger.

Op...i'm not sure what to say. Perhaps a gentle explanation of the way the world works would help?
There are reasons someone might say they couldn't help, but then offer to. Shockingly this might have been kindness. Even more shockingly people probably do this less because of customers like you who think they're being clever by reacting like you did...and then posting about it on the Internet.