Why was Adam Peatys mum disinvited from the wedding?

[Thatonenight]

I can’t see anything that gives a clear reason.

I don't know but Peaty splitting with his partner and the mother of his child to marry into celebrity life leaves a nasty taste in the mouth.

I was wondering this too. Having said that, I hadn’t heard of him or Holly Ramsey until yesterday, so I don’t know why I’m interested.

Who's mum , to what wedding?.

I know..

But who fucking cares?

She wasn’t invited to the hen do, so her sister posted something on instagram aimed at the bride.

I didn’t know who either of these people were until it all kicked off. I’m kinda embarrassed that I know this much.

Hey, I think there's a thread about broccoli in the cooking section, where you could go and post that you don't care about broccoli?

I was aware he was an Olympic champion but had no idea who she was/what she did until I read the background. Olympian marries influencer with rich father.

I wish people wouldn’t speculate on these things. I have no idea what’s going on in this particular situation but dh is completely non contact with his whole family and the amount of people that judge him for it, without knowing the whole story, is ridiculous. Everyone thinks the sun shines out of his mums arse when in reality she laughed in his face when he went to her after a serious sexual assault. However, he would never disclose that to anyone in real life unless he was very close to them (and obviously it’s anonymous here) so everyone thinks he’s awful and feel sorry for his “poor Mum”. You just never know what’s happening behind closed doors.

I don't care enough 😂

I just want to know why it's the main top story on every online newspaper. Who cares about the ins and outs of the family of barely known celebs... One is literally the daughter of a TV chef!! Why should I care? Everyone's families are weird/complicated in some way. I don't know why she wasn't invited because I don't care enough to actually click on the news story!

My understanding is, his mum wasn’t invited on the hen do…which I personally think is fair enough. But she (and her sister, and other members of the family) really took umbrage to it and started posting loads of tweets and things about it, making a bit of a public show of themselves. Cue a big family fallout.

Mum was not invited to hen do, mum upset, so aunt tells the papers. Then it kicked off and mum was uninvited from wedding although I think his sister may have been a bridesmaid.

Lots of rumours

1. mum wanted to wear white to the wedding
2. family couldn’t afford to stay were wedding was
3. supported his brother James and said it was just his mental health when Adam had to get him attested for threatening to kill him (the arrest is fact) having poor mental health doesn’t mean you can be an arsehole constantly and get away with it and accord to reports it’s been a few years of him using this as a reason and the parents keep defending him

his auntie then aired their laundry all over Instagram which is embarrassing!! i think it’s telling that his sister was still a bridesmaid and is rumoured to be sick of the brothers behaviour

as someone who has caused a lot of trouble in our family for refusing to bend to my BIL being a dickhead cos “he has struggles” (MIL words) I can fully understand if the 3 reason was the truth and the siblings had just had enough

Yes, I'm sure the online newspapers are wasting their above-the-line space on a story that nobody cares about, and nobody is clicking on.

His dm broke the most basic rule of being an in law.
Don’t comment on your kids and their partners.

I think some women can't deal with their partners mum. I'm sure I will get slated for this, but I see it all the time on MN.

The MIL is always the demon, they can't bear the fact that their partner has another woman that is important in their life. It is encouraged by other women and on sites like this.

See also Brooklyn Beckham.

And don't go shouting the odds to the newspapers/Instagram.

I feel for the mum but fear she’s not the sharpest tool in the box. She’s done exactly the wrong thing at every stage. As a pp says criticising the partner and also going to the press.

Looks like the brothers can be aggressive and volatile so some sympathy for the couple who likely didn’t want issues and a potential scene / fight at their wedding. There was lots of security - friends were in town doing errands and came across it and Dd works next to the abbey they saw it all.

I can’t deal with my partners mum, because she is a pain in the ass. She lies, she interferes, she manipulates. I’ve always got on with the mothers of my ex’s but this one is a nightmare. She thinks she has a say in my house and goes in a huff when her advice is ignored.

By any chance are you a mother in law?

You are aware that Peaty has won Olympic golds, is globally recognised in his field and has done various bits on TV whereas Ramsey has zero status other than being someone's child? I'm not sure your theory holds much water!

I know that. But it still doesn't alter the fact he left his partner and child for showbiz glitz.

No, not a MIL. Just old enough to have seen all situations play out.

Nobody really cares.

And yet here you are...

So it was about her going to the press and writing stuff on social media?