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Why does Taylor Swift fall out with everyone?

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ladybirdsanchez · 17/10/2025 09:39

I've never known anyone so famous for ditching people and then writing songs about them. Why is she so popular? She seems utterly toxic to me.

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NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 10:17

Bluebottlerecycling · 17/10/2025 10:11

In America that’s really, really hard to do.

As a pp pointed out as unbelievable as it seems to us, Trump was democratically elected. Plenty of otherwise sensible, educated people voted for the Republican option.

It’s not healthy to only have one type of friends or to exist in a vacuum.

As far as I can see Taylor Swift puts her money where her values are regarding treating her staff well, giving large amounts to charity in the cities where she performs etc.

Objectively she is a talented, successful and powerful woman. Historically society doesn't treat powerful women well, regardless of who they are friends with.

Not when you’re a billionaire.

MAGA aside, she is incredibly exploitative of her fans and she flies everywhere in a private jet.

TheatricalLife · 17/10/2025 10:17

I'd take most of what you read with a very generous pinch of salt.
My friend had to put up the media writing about her for years (good and bad), and I would say 70% of it was total fiction and 20% was heavily embellished and somewhat based on reality.

AliceMaforethought · 17/10/2025 10:18

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 10:05

Kelce is MAGA.

Mahomes and her family are MAGA.

she’s MAGA by association

No, he isn't. I don't know about Mahomes, that is possible I suppose, but Travis is not.

MoreIcedLattePlease · 17/10/2025 10:19

Because she's obviously hard work... and/or holds ridiculously high standards of other people.

Incidentally, she is not 'young.' She's in her mid thirties!! I am 37 in a few weeks, she's a year younger than me. Much as I'd like that to be young, and in my head I feel only about 27, it's not actually young at all, is it?

AliceMaforethought · 17/10/2025 10:19

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 10:17

Not when you’re a billionaire.

MAGA aside, she is incredibly exploitative of her fans and she flies everywhere in a private jet.

How is she 'exploitative of her fans'? Because she releases different versions of the same album? Nobody is making her fans buy them, they choose to.

AgentPidge · 17/10/2025 10:20

I was interested to hear recently that Dolly Parton has always refused to discuss politics - if she's asked, she says "Oh, you know I don't talk about that stuff". In this way she keeps all of her fans happy. She's not daft, is she?! Maybe it's what TS is doing now. I would find it hard not to speak out if I had her platform. But shrewd business people don't alienate their customers.

Krylek · 17/10/2025 10:21

I think she’s talented but aside from a couple of absolute bangers, most of her other songs just merge together into one (for me). That said, her style of music isn’t really my cup of tea.

Bottom line, none of us know her, and “Taylor Swift” the marketable personality / commodity is probably different to Taylor Swift, the actual person.

I know a couple of people who’ve met her and they said she was lovely.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 17/10/2025 10:22

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 10:05

Kelce is MAGA.

Mahomes and her family are MAGA.

she’s MAGA by association

You sound unhinged.

Catpiece · 17/10/2025 10:24

She strikes me as an odd character

Bluebottlerecycling · 17/10/2025 10:24

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 10:17

Not when you’re a billionaire.

MAGA aside, she is incredibly exploitative of her fans and she flies everywhere in a private jet.

Which Billionaires don’t use private jets?

boxofbuttons · 17/10/2025 10:24

TheAutumnCrow · 17/10/2025 10:02

I thought so, too.

Just because she has a fiancé who plays American football doesn’t make her a MAGA supporter (and nor does it make him one - no idea tbh).

She’s one of the most famous women on the planet so she’s going to be gossiped about, frequently inaccurately.

Her fiance also famously knelt with Colin Kaepernick during the Black Lives Matter movement and his brother & his wife (who has a successful podcast in her own right) have both spoken about being Democrats, and in Kylie's case been quite clearly anti-Trump.

Taylor is definitely less outspokenly political these days than she used to be - and that's a fairly low bar, considering she did basic 'go vote for this Dem candidate' stuff. But just because she happens to have a partner whose teammate's girlfriend is a Trump supporter and therefore she attends events with her does not a MAGA princess make.

boxofbuttons · 17/10/2025 10:25

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 10:17

Not when you’re a billionaire.

MAGA aside, she is incredibly exploitative of her fans and she flies everywhere in a private jet.

Relevant tweet (which didn't attach, ffs)

JadziaD · 17/10/2025 10:26

Who has she supposedly fallen out with now? Her latest album includes a track specifically about the point that she's NOT going to fall out with people just because other people don't like them. An awful lot of shit is written about her (and other celebs, especially women) and most of it is bollocks. For all her song writing etc, she's surprisingly good at keeping the day to day of her private life exactly that - private.

I have nothing but admiration for Taylor Swift. At a cynical level, i think that she's a classic example of a woman with lots of advantages from the start who has leveraged those. I think her music is catchy but not incredible. But that doesn't change the fact that she has become incredibly successful, appears to have stayed very true to herself and her family and is well known for treating the people around her well. She's intelligent, surprisingly funny and clearly an astonishingly good business woman. I love that DD loves her - I want her to aspire to funny, smart, successful women.

boxofbuttons · 17/10/2025 10:26

@NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands

Why does Taylor Swift fall out with everyone?
Folkwhore · 17/10/2025 10:36

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 10:05

Kelce is MAGA.

Mahomes and her family are MAGA.

she’s MAGA by association

Kelce is not MAGA. Taylor has spoken out against Trump and there’s a whole video online where she is discussing going public with her views with her family. Quite honestly she can write about what and who she likes. Its not a new phenomenon….

BatchCookBabe · 17/10/2025 10:39

AliceMaforethought · 17/10/2025 10:05

No, she isn't. That is an absurd false narrative. Kelce is not Maga, nor are his family. I'm not a Swiftie but the way she is talked about is absurd.

This!

It's the weekIy Taylor Swift bashing thread. 😂

We get it @ladybirdsanchez you don't like her and are envious of her, and a little bit bitter that she is enormously successful. No-one who's famous gets as much shade as Taylor Swift for her success. NO-ONE. Even on Mumsnet some people have an irrational disliking of her. It's so weird! Some people dislike her and they don't even know why!

There's a heck of a lot of 'just how DARE a beautiful, upper middle class, white woman be so powerful, successful, rich, and talented?!' 😱

An awful lot of bitterness and jealousy against her from some people. And she does not 'fall out with people.' She just doesn't take any shit, and deals with people who try and fuck her over.

So what the actual heck are you on about?! 😆

She is smart and savvy and fucking ballsy and assertive. And some people don't like this from a woman. Wink

BatchCookBabe · 17/10/2025 10:41

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 09:49

She was very much endorsing the democrats and is now strongly associated with multiple MAGA supporters.

Wrong. 😂

BatchCookBabe · 17/10/2025 10:41

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 09:49

She was very much endorsing the democrats and is now strongly associated with multiple MAGA supporters.

Wrong. 😂

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 10:42

BatchCookBabe · 17/10/2025 10:41

Wrong. 😂

No, it’s not.

she is strongly and closely associated with multiple MAGA cult members. She is a multi billionaire which is an inherently unethical thing to be. She exploits her fans and uses marketing to take on other women in the industry because she’s obsessed with being the biggest and best thing.

FOJN · 17/10/2025 10:43

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 09:55

She used to be vocally anti Trump.

she now spends a lot of time with a lot of people who vocally support Trump.

I'm generally pretty indifferent to her but this makes me warm to her a bit. Not because I'm a Trump fan but I'm sick of living in a world where adults behave like children and are incapable of tolerating anyone with a different view. People that vote for Trump are not Trump, they are simply choosing between two options, both of which require compromise for most people.

I don't think she does fall out with everyone but her name makes money for anyone who wants to gift off it.

RedToothBrush · 17/10/2025 10:46

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 09:55

She used to be vocally anti Trump.

she now spends a lot of time with a lot of people who vocally support Trump.

I once ate a sandwich in a cafe with someone who said something positive about Hamas /Israeli online.

I am therefore a Palestine Action supporter / a full on Zionist Nazi who wants to kill all Jews/Palestians.

Please delete as appropriate whilst working out what a load of sheer drivel it is to say that you cant associate in any way with people who have political views which may not reflect your own.

I am so over this dogshite braindead logic of 'guilt by association'.

Get a grip.

VegemiteOnToast · 17/10/2025 10:48

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 09:55

She used to be vocally anti Trump.

she now spends a lot of time with a lot of people who vocally support Trump.

Like who? her boyfriend's teammate's wife? Bit awkward to avoid them.

VegemiteOnToast · 17/10/2025 10:48

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 10:42

No, it’s not.

she is strongly and closely associated with multiple MAGA cult members. She is a multi billionaire which is an inherently unethical thing to be. She exploits her fans and uses marketing to take on other women in the industry because she’s obsessed with being the biggest and best thing.

Who? Name them.

Dolphinnoises · 17/10/2025 10:48

Well, judging by some of these posts, she’s definitely right about one thing: haters really are gonna hate, hate, hate…

She has ex-boyfriends and has mentioned them in her songs. She seems on pretty good terms with Harry Styles. No-one’s on great terms with all their exes. I believe she tried to keep out of politics until Trump told everyone she was a supporter so she felt she needed to say no, actually, she wasn’t - which is why she was booed by the MAGA lot at that football game.

NoOneToTextWhenThePlaneLands · 17/10/2025 10:48

RedToothBrush · 17/10/2025 10:46

I once ate a sandwich in a cafe with someone who said something positive about Hamas /Israeli online.

I am therefore a Palestine Action supporter / a full on Zionist Nazi who wants to kill all Jews/Palestians.

Please delete as appropriate whilst working out what a load of sheer drivel it is to say that you cant associate in any way with people who have political views which may not reflect your own.

I am so over this dogshite braindead logic of 'guilt by association'.

Get a grip.

Theresa difference between spending some time with someone and repeatedly appearing with them, knowing those pictures will be everywhere.

Don’t forget Kelce said he thought it was a great honour to play in front of Trump.