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To think that, under the threat of "Let the war begin", there should be specific laws against male's entering female private spaces (and vice versa)

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 08/08/2025 14:46

After being told they will not be allowed to enter female toilets, changing rooms, clubs and other private sexed spaces, men have vowed to "fight" or be arrested “multiple times

https://archive.ph/tdkd0

"Let the war begin. Fingers crossed. You need to fight for all of us globally. It’s a war."

I think it is reasonable to have a specific crime for this sort of violation of rights and privacy, rather than Outraging public decency, Voyeurism, Exposure/ indecent exposure.

It seems clear that without firm dealing with, men are going to violate these spaces again and again.

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Tandora · 11/08/2025 15:49

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 15:49

A good article or study that proves the things you are claiming. It’s not difficult with this abundance of evidence, surely?

Which things specifically would you like evidence of?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 15:55

Tandora · 11/08/2025 14:54

Again some basic lessons in logic required.

Eating apples is part of a healthy diet.

It doesn’t logically follow that if I eat apples my diet is healthy , or if I don’t eat applies my diet isn’t healthy,
or it is necessary for me to eat apples in order to have a healthy diet,

Then men aren’t “living as women” when they use female facilities then, are they 🙄 it’s your silly claim, not mine. Perhaps you should go back to your logic class, it failed you.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 15:58

Tandora · 11/08/2025 15:49

Which things specifically would you like evidence of?

Any one of your fanciful claims about “trans” please.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 15:59

You choose.

CohensDiamondTeeth · 11/08/2025 15:59

Tandora · 11/08/2025 13:52

i rest my case about my earlier assumptions 😂

This response from Tandora has a very childish "I know you are, but what am I?" feel to it.

There is no substance whatsoever to your arguments Tandora, there never has been.

Tandora · 11/08/2025 15:59

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 15:55

Then men aren’t “living as women” when they use female facilities then, are they 🙄 it’s your silly claim, not mine. Perhaps you should go back to your logic class, it failed you.

I said that using female facilities is part of living as a woman in society.

in the same way that eating applies is part of a healthy diet.

akkakk · 11/08/2025 16:00

Tandora · 11/08/2025 15:49

What utter medical nonsense - at no point does any competent medic pretend that such a patient has two original / normal / fully functioning limbs -

im not suggesting that. And in exactly the same way, no competent medic denies that trans women were assigned male at birth, or that they may have XY chromosomes etc. .

We can acknowledge those things, and also affirm the reality of trans experience including through facilitating social and medical transition,

Social transition involves changing names, pronouns, participating in society as a woman etc. of course this is possible, otherwise you wouldn’t be so wound up about trying to prevent it.

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the NHS is riddled with people who claim all sorts of inaccuracies around men being able to be women!

social transition is not possible - how can a man participate in society as a woman - whatever they do they are still a man - a man called she / a man in a dress / a man...

still a man!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 16:02

It’s part of living as a woman for women in society. For men it’s about accessing a female space because they want to, for a variety of reasons, some less palatable than others, but all selfish. Regardless of “identity”.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2025 16:02

ArabellaScott · 11/08/2025 15:18

And one must exclude paraphiliac disorders before diagnosing gender incongruence.

https://icd.who.int/browse/2025-01/mms/en#2110604642

6D30 Exhibitionistic Disorder
6D31 Voyeuristic Disorder
6D32 Pedophilic Disorder
6D33 Coercive Sexual Sadism Disorder
6D34 Frotteuristic Disorder
6D35 Other Paraphilic Disorder Involving Non-Consenting Individuals

How does that work in conjunction with the trans umbrella, no acceptance without exception and convicted sex offenders managing to get a GRC?

Only I'm a big confused seeing as it's quite clear that being transgender has been so monolithed by Stonewall.

Yet, somehow our friend here wants to pretend this is the case.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2025 16:04

Further than that how the heck does 'being a condition' work with Self ID where you don't have to go anywhere near a doctor to declare yourself the opposite sex and demand all these legal protections?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 16:06

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2025 16:02

How does that work in conjunction with the trans umbrella, no acceptance without exception and convicted sex offenders managing to get a GRC?

Only I'm a big confused seeing as it's quite clear that being transgender has been so monolithed by Stonewall.

Yet, somehow our friend here wants to pretend this is the case.

Indeed.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 16:08

Would like to be a fly on the wall if Tandora went to trans Reddit with this transmedicalist concept of “trans”

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2025 16:09

Further than that, how does that work with males who say things like they have a cervix, that sex is a nebulous dog whistle and they are biologically female and others still who insist that they have changed their biology cos they took some drugs.

Are actual females supposed to accept this condition that makes these males lie and insist that we go along with this lie?

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2025 16:11

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 16:08

Would like to be a fly on the wall if Tandora went to trans Reddit with this transmedicalist concept of “trans”

Tandora is dangerously close to a puritan true trans ideological line here. Which at times is somewhat Terfy in nature.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 16:12

Do you think biological sex is a “nebulous dog whistle”, @Tandora?

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2025 16:12

And one which isn't remotely reflected by the trans movement in the UK at present.

Tandora · 11/08/2025 16:13

akkakk · 11/08/2025 16:00

the NHS is riddled with people who claim all sorts of inaccuracies around men being able to be women!

social transition is not possible - how can a man participate in society as a woman - whatever they do they are still a man - a man called she / a man in a dress / a man...

still a man!

The NHs is absolutely not riddled with doctors who deny that trans women were registered male at birth, or May have XY chromosomes or testes etc etc. they can acknowledge these bodily factors while also recognising/ affirming the reality of trans experience and “treating” it in the best way they know how .

Tandora · 11/08/2025 16:15

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 16:12

Do you think biological sex is a “nebulous dog whistle”, @Tandora?

Depends on context and how it is used.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2025 16:17

Tandora · 11/08/2025 16:15

Depends on context and how it is used.

It the context of abeing under oath and insisting you are biologically female when you were born a man.

Tandora · 11/08/2025 16:18

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2025 16:11

Tandora is dangerously close to a puritan true trans ideological line here. Which at times is somewhat Terfy in nature.

The only people who have ever accused me of being “terfy” are gender critical feminists on mumsnet..

Tandora · 11/08/2025 16:20

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2025 16:17

It the context of abeing under oath and insisting you are biologically female when you were born a man.

I don’t understand what you mean here.

Do you mean DU insisting she is female? Do I think it’s a dog whistle for a trans woman to assert that she is female? No.

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2025 16:23

Tandora · 11/08/2025 16:20

I don’t understand what you mean here.

Do you mean DU insisting she is female? Do I think it’s a dog whistle for a trans woman to assert that she is female? No.

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Of course you don't.

The lengths you will tie yourself in knots to avoid the question and to spout utter bollocks is quite fascinating to watch.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 16:24

No, in the sense Upton claimed. Is the concept of biological sex a “nebulous dog whistle” as he asserted?

RedToothBrush · 11/08/2025 16:25

I have come to the conclusion that anyone willing to tell The Big Lie, hasn't read a lot at all.

Not general knowledge.
Not science.
Not history.
Not politics.

Or anything about anything much either really.

Tandora · 11/08/2025 16:25

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2025 16:24

No, in the sense Upton claimed. Is the concept of biological sex a “nebulous dog whistle” as he asserted?

Can you give me the full statement and it’s context?

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