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To be so fed up amd disheartened with all the xenophobia

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Nohqters · 04/08/2025 21:56

Honestly, I’m just feeling worn out and heartbroken lately. It seems like racism and xenophobia are becoming more and more mainstream again, wrapped up in the same tired scare stories, whether it’s splashed across a tabloid or coming straight out of Farage’s mouth. Then you see stupid threads on here about civil war trying to stir up more hate.

Even my own brother has started sounding like Tommy Robinson. Ten years ago, that would’ve been unthinkable. It’s like people have completely forgotten the lies we were sold during Brexit—by Farage, Tice and their crowd—and yet they’re still lapping up everything they say. No critical thought, just blind anger pointed in the wrong direction.
I’m so fed up with the endless nonsense about small boats, “white minorities,” and all the rest of it. It’s all designed to divide us, stoke hate, and distract from the real culprits—rubbish politicians, broken policies, and the ultra-wealthy hoarding resources while the rest of us struggle.

But instead of looking upwards, it’s always “blame Johnny Foreigner.” It’s exhausting, and frankly terrifying how quickly people fall for it.

Is anyone else feeling this? How are you managing conversations when even close family seem to be buying into this stuff? I’m trying to stay compassionate, but it’s getting harder to bite my tongue.

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Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 22:43

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 04/08/2025 22:42

WTF is that even? Can you give an example?

Yes, the Original post.

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 22:44

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I prefer ‘suicidal empathy’.

OP - can you answer whether you think the factual statement that Afghan men are 20 times more likely to commit a sex crime is ‘hate speech’?

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 04/08/2025 22:44

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 22:43

Yes, the Original post.

I don’t see any ‘white self loathing’ in the OP. Can you expand?

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:44

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 22:43

Yes, the Original post.

Who said I'm white?

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MiloMinderbinder925 · 04/08/2025 22:44

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:38

Well seen as these magical illegal boat asylum seekers are made up of around 89% males then, they are such a great asset to the UK. Why not ask them?

I have no idea what you're talking about. I was responding to this:

if the men of this country have the stones for it.

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:45

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 04/08/2025 22:44

I don’t see any ‘white self loathing’ in the OP. Can you expand?

How do you even know I'm white?

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skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:45

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BuffetTheDietSlayer · 04/08/2025 22:45

Why don’t we just tag all males in this country? Place them under curfew. Would reduce crime dramatically.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:45

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:44

Who said I'm white?

The desperate xenophobes wanting to accuse you of self loathing as opposed to compassion for other humans, I think

Serpentstooth · 04/08/2025 22:45

Yes, all that's missing is a nice smart uniform and a call to Youth. Can't be far away.

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 22:46

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 22:44

I prefer ‘suicidal empathy’.

OP - can you answer whether you think the factual statement that Afghan men are 20 times more likely to commit a sex crime is ‘hate speech’?

Can I get an answer to this OP?

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:47

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:45

The desperate xenophobes wanting to accuse you of self loathing as opposed to compassion for other humans, I think

Clearly anyone with compassion and decency must have self-loathing issues it seems! What a warped view these people have

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lazyarse123 · 04/08/2025 22:47

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:26

And how many White British men murdered people last year? Loads probably, why do you only hone in on someone origin when discussing crime. The natives here commit crime on a much larger scale

We know white British men kill and rape. We also know Afghan men have a propensity to do the same so why invite them in? We need to sort out our home grown problems first before thinking of helping others.
You are right about politicians being the major issue this country has and a lot of this is engineered to deflect from the fact they don't have a clue.

XWKD · 04/08/2025 22:47

VashtaNerada · 04/08/2025 22:32

Interesting that a post which is essentially saying “racism is bad” has got so many people’s backs up…

I think it's terrifying.

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:47

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:45

The desperate xenophobes wanting to accuse you of self loathing as opposed to compassion for other humans, I think

MN Lefty Bingo, "xenophobes" gave me a full house, makes a change all the house by me are full of illegal immigrants. 😂

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:48

Serpentstooth · 04/08/2025 22:45

Yes, all that's missing is a nice smart uniform and a call to Youth. Can't be far away.

Im sure Nigel Garbage has been on it with his crayons already

Midnightlove · 04/08/2025 22:48

millymollymoomoo · 04/08/2025 22:07

Perhaps just look at the crime stats and the actual costs associated. Fed up of the racist card thrown out all the time instead of having rationale debate about social and economic impact of taking in tens of thousands of illegals and nearly a million legal immigrants a year !

Yep.. it's lost all effect now it's been used that much. Call me what you want 🥱

MiloMinderbinder925 · 04/08/2025 22:48

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:47

MN Lefty Bingo, "xenophobes" gave me a full house, makes a change all the house by me are full of illegal immigrants. 😂

Inform the HO.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:48

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:47

MN Lefty Bingo, "xenophobes" gave me a full house, makes a change all the house by me are full of illegal immigrants. 😂

Congratulations 💯

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 22:49

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:45

The desperate xenophobes wanting to accuse you of self loathing as opposed to compassion for other humans, I think

Ah I'm a xenophobe am I? What else is in your box of labels? I'm sure I can find a fresh bingo card.

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:49

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:48

Congratulations 💯

Thank you, do i get a "racist" badge now from you 😂

TheChippendenSpook · 04/08/2025 22:50

Yet another thread that has decended into people arguing with each other. It's getting boring.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:50

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:49

Thank you, do i get a "racist" badge now from you 😂

You get what you came for. Whatever that is.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 04/08/2025 22:50

I’m more upset by the rampant oikiophobia personally.

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 22:50

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:48

Im sure Nigel Garbage has been on it with his crayons already

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You're using infantile nicknames and talking about crayons 😆 🤣

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