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To be so fed up amd disheartened with all the xenophobia

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Nohqters · 04/08/2025 21:56

Honestly, I’m just feeling worn out and heartbroken lately. It seems like racism and xenophobia are becoming more and more mainstream again, wrapped up in the same tired scare stories, whether it’s splashed across a tabloid or coming straight out of Farage’s mouth. Then you see stupid threads on here about civil war trying to stir up more hate.

Even my own brother has started sounding like Tommy Robinson. Ten years ago, that would’ve been unthinkable. It’s like people have completely forgotten the lies we were sold during Brexit—by Farage, Tice and their crowd—and yet they’re still lapping up everything they say. No critical thought, just blind anger pointed in the wrong direction.
I’m so fed up with the endless nonsense about small boats, “white minorities,” and all the rest of it. It’s all designed to divide us, stoke hate, and distract from the real culprits—rubbish politicians, broken policies, and the ultra-wealthy hoarding resources while the rest of us struggle.

But instead of looking upwards, it’s always “blame Johnny Foreigner.” It’s exhausting, and frankly terrifying how quickly people fall for it.

Is anyone else feeling this? How are you managing conversations when even close family seem to be buying into this stuff? I’m trying to stay compassionate, but it’s getting harder to bite my tongue.

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Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:23

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:19

Oh look another liberal left wing break down thread 😭

Get a grip, people no longer are bowing to the woke tidal wave that drowned out common sense and pride years ago.

Who said I'm liberal/ left-wing / woke? I just don't worship Farage like you. I don't subscribe to any political party or ideology so don't came at me with that

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skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:19

Oh look another liberal left wing break down thread 😭

Get a grip, people no longer are bowing to the woke tidal wave that drowned out common sense and pride years ago.

Don't let the door hit you then

RoseofRoses · 04/08/2025 22:23

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skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:25

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:23

Who said I'm liberal/ left-wing / woke? I just don't worship Farage like you. I don't subscribe to any political party or ideology so don't came at me with that

There you go just proved my point before you know anything about me what so ever you are claiming i worship farage as i disagree with you. laughable, cannot handle opposing views so I must be one of them and stupid hahaha.

MissyB1 · 04/08/2025 22:25

I agree OP, my dh came to the UK nearly 30 years ago to work for the NHS. The last few years all he seems to hear in the media is how awful immigrants are. He's given 30 years service to the British public but he now feels unwelcome and unwanted here.

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 22:25

Nevertrustacop · 04/08/2025 22:22

This is really unhelpful.
In one tiny paragraphs you have managed to call people who disagree with you uneducated, lacking uncritical thinking and gullible to dog whistles.
It's almost as if you think the way to change people's minds is to piss them off.

Third Reich, fascists, Farage, Robinson etc. More Liberal luvvies pearl clutching. It's like a competition to see whose moral superiority can reach peak level. Pathetic. Critical thinking, my eye.

MathNotMathing · 04/08/2025 22:25

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Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:26

Hm17 · 04/08/2025 22:23

Wasn’t a woman working at a hotel housing asylum seekers murdered last year? By an asylum seeker? Do you just ignore the fact that the people coming on small boats are vast majority male?

And how many White British men murdered people last year? Loads probably, why do you only hone in on someone origin when discussing crime. The natives here commit crime on a much larger scale

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By stones down you mean dragging people to the ground and setting fire to hotels containing children

Jumpthewaves · 04/08/2025 22:27

I agree op, it's worrying and sad that people are so keen to believe such awful, disgusting, untrustworthy, creepy men like Farage and Robinson.

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:27

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:23

Don't let the door hit you then

Oh you would love that wouldn't you, silence opposing opinion, yet another liberal whom cannot abide by opposing views. its always the same someone disagree = shutdown/shame/label/cancel/ call racist/call a xenophobe/call a fascist (socialist left-wing 101 playbook)

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:28

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:27

Oh you would love that wouldn't you, silence opposing opinion, yet another liberal whom cannot abide by opposing views. its always the same someone disagree = shutdown/shame/label/cancel/ call racist/call a xenophobe/call a fascist (socialist left-wing 101 playbook)

Calm down

JamesMacGill · 04/08/2025 22:28

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:26

And how many White British men murdered people last year? Loads probably, why do you only hone in on someone origin when discussing crime. The natives here commit crime on a much larger scale

Can we deport those white British men? Were they actively let into the country and given access to their victim by the government, unvetted despite coming from a country with such appalling misogyny it makes the UK look like a feministic paradise?

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 22:28

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:26

And how many White British men murdered people last year? Loads probably, why do you only hone in on someone origin when discussing crime. The natives here commit crime on a much larger scale

Educate yourself on per capita - since you're so keen to dish out the obligatory educate yourself mantra.

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:30

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:28

Calm down

hahah why will you come at me with you megaphone and placards, chanting fascist if i don't. 😂

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:31

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I never said I was left.

There's a difference between having an opinion and just being full of hate for people purely because they are foreigners. That's what we're seeing more of

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skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:30

hahah why will you come at me with you megaphone and placards, chanting fascist if i don't. 😂

No

Dangermoo · 04/08/2025 22:32

skymagentatwo · 04/08/2025 22:30

hahah why will you come at me with you megaphone and placards, chanting fascist if i don't. 😂

They will set the gobby oaf, Steve Bray on you 😅 every bleeding heart liberal's dream.

VashtaNerada · 04/08/2025 22:32

Interesting that a post which is essentially saying “racism is bad” has got so many people’s backs up…

zeddybrek · 04/08/2025 22:33

It would be interesting to discuss why immigrants have formed clusters and live in their own communities in the first place.

People forget the racism when mass migration took place from the 1960's onwards. People from former colonies were invited here to rebuild the country. When they tried to integrate, they faced so many challenges, racism was rife. My parents are an example but I have heard of so many more. What caused minorities to form, well safety from racists was one of them.

It's a negative loop. They probably feel safe now again given the current climate and reinforces their belief that they are safer amongst their own people. Also people are tribalist in nature. Think of the expat British communities abroad in gated communities.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:33

VashtaNerada · 04/08/2025 22:32

Interesting that a post which is essentially saying “racism is bad” has got so many people’s backs up…

The racists seem most upset

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:33

VashtaNerada · 04/08/2025 22:32

Interesting that a post which is essentially saying “racism is bad” has got so many people’s backs up…

Exactly. People don't want to hear it. They want to keep hating the foreigners

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MincePiesAndStilton · 04/08/2025 22:34

I agree entirely. And what’s most terrifying, is the sane and sensible people getting caught up in it. However, there are some bad decisions being made which are playing into the hands of these people.

awkwardasfuck · 04/08/2025 22:34

Nohqters · 04/08/2025 22:33

Exactly. People don't want to hear it. They want to keep hating the foreigners

They're allowed to be racist now you see.

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