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To tell you that from midnight, you'll have to upload ID to watch porn???!!!

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youreactinglikeafunmum · 24/07/2025 23:41

Not a troll post

Here's the link: https://www.independent.co.uk/tech/uk-porn-age-verification-b2795354.html

I heard about this happening in france and thought 'thank fuck its not happening here'

What will I do on those late nights or mid afternoons before pick up?? Just use my imagination, like a prehistoric cave woman???

😡🙈😡

The UK is launching ‘porn age checks’. This is what will happen

The UK is about to launch some of the strongest checks on pornography in the world.

https://www.independent.co.uk/tech/uk-porn-age-verification-b2795354.html

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GreenIsMyFavoriteColour · 25/07/2025 14:35

ElonGates666 · 25/07/2025 11:54

The porn industry was moribund because sites like Pornhub let people see it for free. Those who actually make pornography found it difficult to make a profit. Pornhub and the others like it don't make porn films.

Now that people think they need to set up accounts to see porn, they might as well set up an account with one of the companies that makes pornographic videos. They will have to pay, but that's a short step from having to identify yourself. Their business will pick up. It could save the porn industry.

It's called unintended consequences. The other thing they will do is move onto one of the large number of other sites that offer the same as Pornhub. Some of them offer downloading too. So people will either start paying for their porn which means more porn made, or they will move onto worse sites.

This. Overnight they've normalised giving details to dodgy people. I really can't see how the dodgy people don't benefit from it.

And it's a terrific way to blackmail women into the porn industry. Naive girl types in her details or uses a photo to prove her age... Then they get back to her with "Provide us with content or we tell all your peers."

VikingLady · 25/07/2025 16:07

So, if I want to seek support online for a sex related topic, I’ll have to upload ID without being able to have any faith in the security of the image (if banks and government departments can be hacked, anything can), or use a vpn?

So does that mean using things like DuckDuckGo? Is that why I’ve seen so many ads for them recently?

Separately to that, does the clumsy approach to this mean my kids could still use that same DuckDuckGo to access porn?

This seems a little badly planned.

Christinapple · 25/07/2025 19:41

VikingLady · 25/07/2025 16:07

So, if I want to seek support online for a sex related topic, I’ll have to upload ID without being able to have any faith in the security of the image (if banks and government departments can be hacked, anything can), or use a vpn?

So does that mean using things like DuckDuckGo? Is that why I’ve seen so many ads for them recently?

Separately to that, does the clumsy approach to this mean my kids could still use that same DuckDuckGo to access porn?

This seems a little badly planned.

Google is terrible for privacy so I would recommend people make the switch to duckduckgo for searches regardless.

A user earlier mentioned some porn sites permit downloads and some don't. Whether a porn site specifically offers a download directly is irrelevant since you can easily use a browser extension or 3rd party software to download any video you want from any site.

youreactinglikeafunmum · 25/07/2025 20:00

becausewecancan · 25/07/2025 00:16

Considering that easy, instant access to porn is one of the worst things to come of the Internet Age, I can't say that I mind it being even slightly more restricted. I do wonder if it will creep into other non-pornographic areas of the internet, though.

I think its a sign of things to come for sure

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youreactinglikeafunmum · 25/07/2025 20:03

Christinapple · 25/07/2025 00:33

"you'll have to upload ID to watch porn"

Only if complying websites (yes, websites need to comply) think you're from the UK. Get a VPN and set it to any other country (that doesn't have age verification). Have no idea what a VPN is? Just download a browser with a free one built in (e.g. Brave) and Bob's your uncle.

Pornhub is compliant but some people seem to think PH is the only porn site on the internet. Guess what? There are hundreds of thousands of porn sites. Over 99% of them aren't going to give a damn about the UK's age verification (each site has to add a landing page for UK visitors). PH is blocked and no VPN set up? No prob just go back to Google and search (and end up on a lesser known and more dodgy porn site probably).

From a discussion I just saw it's also apparently easily fooled by using a stock image from image search of someone holding a driving licence.

Then we have the security and privacy risk. Everyone who is foolish enough to verify their ID is going on a porn user database. It's not a "if" this database will be leaked it will be a when.

The UK has been considering this idea since 2013, scrapped it in 2019 but then brought it back with the Online Harms Bill. It's the sort of law that looks good in paper but is a train wreck in reality.

That must be why I had no idea it passed!? I like to consider myself relatively switched on but until I saw a tiktok, I had no idea!

And tbf pornhub is the only site I use 😅😅

Agree, this isnt the end, more and more sites will do this

Personally, I think its to stop people exposing celebs and politicans for crimes from anonymous twitter accounts 🤷‍♀️

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youreactinglikeafunmum · 25/07/2025 20:06

GrandTheftWalrus · 25/07/2025 00:55

Might bring back magazines and hedge porn.

Gonna have to Google hedge porn

Edit - no need 😄😄, thanks for the laugh

90s born so missed hedge porn - got mine from Limewire and gave the family computer a virus 🙈

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Frodshamsuggest · 25/07/2025 20:06

Dare I ask who Owen Gray is?

youreactinglikeafunmum · 25/07/2025 20:08

SleepyRic · 25/07/2025 01:43

Oh dear, presumably because I've been talking about VPN and porn on here the cookies are working and these are the sponsored links on Google:

Edited

Wow 😭

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EmeraldShamrock000 · 25/07/2025 20:09

Hopefully it will have an impact on human trafficking too.
Porn is exploitation.

New2you · 25/07/2025 20:10

It’s a good thing

youreactinglikeafunmum · 25/07/2025 20:10

Plasticwaste · 25/07/2025 03:18

Imagine being distraught over not being able to watch porn. Absolute loser behaviour.

Take a look at yourself, and maybe do the slightest research into how damaging it is for those on the screen as well as those viewing it.

🙄🙄 god forbid a woman have a whirl with the vibrator from time to time

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youreactinglikeafunmum · 25/07/2025 20:21

IberianBlackout · 25/07/2025 06:02

I googled Owen Gray and I’m still confused. Is that an actor?

😄😄 he's a porn star with a big willy

And, hes very focused on the women he sleeps with, very much porn for women

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Plasticwaste · 25/07/2025 20:21

youreactinglikeafunmum · 25/07/2025 20:21

😄😄 he's a porn star with a big willy

And, hes very focused on the women he sleeps with, very much porn for women

Good news - you can still have a whirl with a vibrator and whatever other toys you fancy without watching trafficked women being raped and assaulted on screen for entertainment 👍

pinkglitter12 · 25/07/2025 20:24

Just upload your ID like everyone else who wants to will?
Or do you care more about yourself and possible data breaches more than young people being exposed to that crap?

youreactinglikeafunmum · 25/07/2025 20:25

Plasticwaste · 25/07/2025 20:21

Good news - you can still have a whirl with a vibrator and whatever other toys you fancy without watching trafficked women being raped and assaulted on screen for entertainment 👍

What about the women who make a career out of this? They aren't all being trafficked

I dont think that this will do anything really, its just another way for our data to be harvested (like it is already)

A real attempt to protect female porn stars would be a union or body regulating filming sites and a ban on 'home made' porn being distributed or hosted by porn hub 🤷‍♀️

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youreactinglikeafunmum · 25/07/2025 20:27

Agree that our kids need protecting from porn - but given how easy it is to bypass this, its not for me

And i wonder what the rich and famous are doing in the face of this ban - they must have a way around it 🤔

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KeepcalmandtellthemtoFoff · 25/07/2025 20:29

I discovered this last night! I think it is a good thing but I wouldn't be putting my ID in.

Sundaymorningcalla · 25/07/2025 20:40

Download Opera VPN, it's free.

Velmy · 25/07/2025 21:16

Ddakji · 24/07/2025 23:54

Good.

Not sure why anyone wants to whack off to a trafficked abused woman.

Same.

But I can see why people might enjoy consuming the vast amount of content that isn't made by people in those circumstances.

TooBigForMyBoots · 25/07/2025 21:27

GreenIsMyFavoriteColour · 25/07/2025 14:32

...and if they use their GFs bank details or e-mail? Or their mum's?

Those men will be guilty of theft and identity fraud perpetrated on the women they claim to love.

Im not sure what your point is here @GreenIsMyFavoriteColour.Confused

GreenIsMyFavoriteColour · 25/07/2025 21:39

TooBigForMyBoots · 25/07/2025 21:27

Those men will be guilty of theft and identity fraud perpetrated on the women they claim to love.

Im not sure what your point is here @GreenIsMyFavoriteColour.Confused

It's not fraud or theft.

My point is Pornsites do not have our best interests at heart.

Most women will use a VPN. Some will hand over personal details. And that is going to impact very badly on many of them.

HeyThereDelila · 25/07/2025 21:39

This doesn’t go anywhere near far enough.

Pornography is making men in to monsters, hugely harmful for children and damaging to society all round.

It needs to be banned completely.

Sundaymorningcalla · 25/07/2025 21:41

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Meltedbrains · 25/07/2025 21:52

Reddit has already made some mental health subs unavailable unless you provide id

It seems anything marked nsfw (which is a wide range of things) seems to now need id verification

Posters have no discovered they can't see their own threads because they contain a lot of swearing, discussion of things like sexual health, discussion of true murder docs
Etc all because it's nsfw

You have to verify and alot of the verification is done by shady 3rd parties with limited info about how they store

I think reddits is American and fall under their patriot act where American companies legally have to give up user data to the American government if asked

I'm not overly comfortable with having my data stored by dodgy companies, overseas companies etc

This is completely prime for a massive leak

ChrisMartinsKisskam · 25/07/2025 21:57

Kids will just use a vpn
hide my ass was popular with teens till they started charging for it - teens liked the name 😂

opera browser will work perfectly well free to get as an app and take no time at all to install on your phone - job done

most people have a few email address that they use so they can email verify

porn hub just wanted an email address and nothing else to age verify took less than a minute they obviously have a way of knowing how old an email address is
I’ve had most of mine for 15 plus years so unless I was 3 when I set them up I’m clearly over 18

they offered facial scan and ID & banking and text verification as well so very helpful of them 😂

reddit offered various ways but a face scan was easy to do and took less than a minute but they also offered email address banking & iD verification

some websites offer mobile text verification
so again dead easy to use and no trace
and you can use a texting app or hush to get a fake number if your phone isn’t a contract and therefore already age verified

most sites offer different ways to access them
all of them are dead easy and take less than a minute to do

porn is a multi billion dollar business they aren’t going to let a stupid law stop them from making money

if anyone really thinks that porn won’t be accessible they are naive and sadly mistaken

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