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To tell you that from midnight, you'll have to upload ID to watch porn???!!!

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youreactinglikeafunmum · 24/07/2025 23:41

Not a troll post

Here's the link: https://www.independent.co.uk/tech/uk-porn-age-verification-b2795354.html

I heard about this happening in france and thought 'thank fuck its not happening here'

What will I do on those late nights or mid afternoons before pick up?? Just use my imagination, like a prehistoric cave woman???

😡🙈😡

The UK is launching ‘porn age checks’. This is what will happen

The UK is about to launch some of the strongest checks on pornography in the world.

https://www.independent.co.uk/tech/uk-porn-age-verification-b2795354.html

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TooBigForMyBoots · 25/07/2025 01:13

GrandTheftWalrus · 25/07/2025 01:01

Was my first venture into porn!

Mine too.

When I was 16/17 I caught my younger cousin and his bratty friend with hedge porn. I made them do all the housework and pay me £20 to buy my silence.Grin

TheSilentSister · 25/07/2025 01:21

PMSL, I didn't know there was a word/term for it. Saw plenty growing up in the 70/80s. Some kid found their Dad/Brother/Uncles stash, nicked it, looked at it and then stuffed/hid it in a field/hedge. Brilliant.

MrsSunshine2b · 25/07/2025 01:25

Having to use my imagination, upload ID or actually find my husband attractive, or alternatively accepting that my 5yo daughter is likely to be exposed to hard core pornography within the next 5 years. What a conundrum.

GrandTheftWalrus · 25/07/2025 01:32

Glad to have resurfaced some memories! We always called it hedge porn here in Scotland in early 90s.

ARichtGoodDram · 25/07/2025 01:32

You don't even need to upload ID on some sites anyway.

Accessing through a phone that is "adult unlocked" is enough for some.

This is something people who pass old phones onto their kids should be aware of for future issues if you access any sites you wouldn't want them to (even some of the reddits I wouldn't want my kids accessing tbh)

SleepyRic · 25/07/2025 01:33

AutumnFog · 25/07/2025 00:47

It will reduce the amount of younger teens able to access it though. Most 12 year olds won't be readily able to use a vpn.
It stops impulsive curiosity leading to watching it and means it has to really be planned out.

They won't really have to do anything really - the sites that don't have age verification will rise in the search rankings becoming easier to find. There are a multitude of web browsers/add on apps that circumvent the age checks too - these will just rise in the ranks/become the normal tools that will be advertised to people who are searching for porn.

For most it just means that they either the underage/privacy minded porn hunter will use a VPN/free browser to circumvent, or they'll avoid the 'mainstream' websites. The mainstream websites which will be the only ones that sign up to age/id checks are the ones that generally have some kind of standard that makes sure those features are not underage and are consenting.

This means that the kids actively looking for porn will be more like to access the worst sites plenty out their advertising ex-girlfriend vids, underage vids, drunk girl vids - they're not going to be asking for age verification are they.

It's all horrific. But this change will either be meaningless at best, most likely harmful. It's a massive boon for the worst of the porn sites because they're the ones going to be getting the extra traffic, extra money for them.

Robin67 · 25/07/2025 01:37

What is hedge porn please? I am scared to look it up.

GrandTheftWalrus · 25/07/2025 01:38

Robin67 · 25/07/2025 01:37

What is hedge porn please? I am scared to look it up.

Porn magazines left in hedges or bushes many years ago.

SleepyRic · 25/07/2025 01:43

Oh dear, presumably because I've been talking about VPN and porn on here the cookies are working and these are the sponsored links on Google:

To tell you that from midnight, you'll have to upload ID to watch porn???!!!
TheSandgroper · 25/07/2025 01:48

I’m so proud to be Australian sometimes. Huge congratulations to the Collective Shout ladies. They are just inexorable in their aims.

www.facebook.com/collectiveshout

TooBigForMyBoots · 25/07/2025 02:06

Robin67 · 25/07/2025 01:37

What is hedge porn please? I am scared to look it up.

Porn mags like Mayfair and Razzle that were hidden in hedges and other hidey holes, and found by teenage boys.

This was back in the day when you had to actually buy a porn mag, usually from a News Stand. None of the newsagents round our way stocked them.

OonaStubbs · 25/07/2025 02:39

I already had to do it to use Reddit. Even though I don't use the 18+ subreddits.

RigIt · 25/07/2025 02:46

Rreel · 25/07/2025 00:30

Just get a vpn, won’t be giving my id to Reddit to access various subreddits like stop drinking sub, that now needs ID.

Why does a stop drinking sub need ID?

2021x · 25/07/2025 02:56

I guess the alternative is to ban it all together.

I support it.

RigIt · 25/07/2025 02:57

RigIt · 25/07/2025 02:46

Why does a stop drinking sub need ID?

Don’t worry worked it out. Seems they want ID for all NSFW subs. How annoying. I’m on a few of them (not porn related) but am not providing ID or giving them a selfie.

RigIt · 25/07/2025 02:58

If it worked I’d be in support of it but it won’t. It’s a completely pointless policy that will just give social media companies even more of our data.

StopitnTidyup · 25/07/2025 03:01

Ddakji · 24/07/2025 23:54

Good.

Not sure why anyone wants to whack off to a trafficked abused woman.

Maybe 20 years ago. These days women are queuing up to be porn stars.

I think this is long overdue.. few clicks and you can see the most obscene things. It wasn't right and should never have been so freely available

HelpMeGetThrough · 25/07/2025 03:10

surely to get around this, people will just use a proxy server based outside the UK.

Plasticwaste · 25/07/2025 03:18

Imagine being distraught over not being able to watch porn. Absolute loser behaviour.

Take a look at yourself, and maybe do the slightest research into how damaging it is for those on the screen as well as those viewing it.

JMSA · 25/07/2025 04:21

You be never watched porn in my life and this sounds like a brilliant thing to me!

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 25/07/2025 05:03

Good. It's about time

MaggieBsBoat · 25/07/2025 05:48

It’s the least we can do to reduce the harm of porn. Let’s hope it’s just a first step! Try literotica instead.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 25/07/2025 05:50

You can get around this by not watching porn. HTH.

PoxyAndIKnowIt · 25/07/2025 05:59

Fragmentedbrain · 25/07/2025 00:32

There are a shocking number of women who don't really approve of sex so this isn't the venue to express concern about the ramifications.

The fact that you and possibly others think porn and sex are synonymous shows just how damaging porn is.
Sex will carry on just fine without unfettered access to porn to children. And everyone else, for that matter.

Tell me @Fragmentedbrain where have you come across this shocking number of women who disapprove of sex? It’s certainly not on here, and I personally have never met a single woman in real life who does.
Do you live in a convent?

IberianBlackout · 25/07/2025 06:02

I googled Owen Gray and I’m still confused. Is that an actor?