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AIBU?

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To think they should have kept serving me?

309 replies

itsotoy · 10/06/2025 15:24

Went to collect 4 parcels from my local shop. I told her I had 4, she gave me 1 and said “thanks, bye” … I informed it again it was 4. It was taking ages and she claimed she couldn’t find it - but she’d already scanned my code and signed it in the book that it had been collected.

She said “yeah I can’t find it” and then the guy with her told me I would need to wait whilst they served the queue behind me.

Sorry I get there was a queue of 2 people but I was there first and was in the middle of being served and had already been patiently waiting. I don’t think I should have to wait even longer because they couldn’t find my parcel.

OP posts:
FrenchandSaunders · 10/06/2025 15:25

I thought this was going to be about being pissed in a pub ….

loropianalover · 10/06/2025 15:25

So what happened in the end?

Helpsremove · 10/06/2025 15:27

I’m on the edge of my seat Op…. Did you get your parcels in the end???

Helpsremove · 10/06/2025 15:27

A film could be made about this

saltinesandcoffeecups · 10/06/2025 15:28

I feel like we need some suspenseful music here

loropianalover · 10/06/2025 15:29

Helpsremove · 10/06/2025 15:27

A film could be made about this

itsotoy vs. The post office!

itsotoy · 10/06/2025 15:42

loropianalover · 10/06/2025 15:29

itsotoy vs. The post office!

Wasn’t the post office

OP posts:
Northerngirl821 · 10/06/2025 15:43

Why does every little minor annoyance need a mumsnet post/tiktok video these days?

loropianalover · 10/06/2025 15:44

itsotoy · 10/06/2025 15:42

Wasn’t the post office

It was a play on the name of a famous case….

Are you going to tell us what happened in the end?

Lmnop22 · 10/06/2025 15:45

But if they couldn’t find it, they couldn’t keep serving you so what can they do?!

Gizlotsmum · 10/06/2025 15:46

Ok but if you had been in that queue would you rather have been served whilst thy hunted for someone else’s parcel or patiently waited? Surely they still looked and found your missing parcels just got the queue served as well?

EllyRoff · 10/06/2025 15:48

YABU. You are a faffer and faffers should be made to wait until normal customers get served first.

everytime I go to post office I get stuck behind faffers and I wish the staff at ours made them wait like yours did.

purplecorkheart · 10/06/2025 15:48

Did they find the parcel in the end? To be fair to the other people it probably was better to serve them and then hunt for your parcel when the queue had cleared. To be fair other people don't care about your parcel. If the roles were reverse how would you feel?

itsotoy · 10/06/2025 15:50

EllyRoff · 10/06/2025 15:48

YABU. You are a faffer and faffers should be made to wait until normal customers get served first.

everytime I go to post office I get stuck behind faffers and I wish the staff at ours made them wait like yours did.

How am I a faffer? 😐

OP posts:
birdling · 10/06/2025 15:50

EllyRoff · 10/06/2025 15:48

YABU. You are a faffer and faffers should be made to wait until normal customers get served first.

everytime I go to post office I get stuck behind faffers and I wish the staff at ours made them wait like yours did.

It doesn't sound like the op was faffing...

notatinydancer · 10/06/2025 15:50

EllyRoff · 10/06/2025 15:48

YABU. You are a faffer and faffers should be made to wait until normal customers get served first.

everytime I go to post office I get stuck behind faffers and I wish the staff at ours made them wait like yours did.

How is she a faffer ? She went to collect her parcels and the staff couldn’t find them ? How is that her fault? Also she’s said it wasn’t the post office.

itsotoy · 10/06/2025 15:51

purplecorkheart · 10/06/2025 15:48

Did they find the parcel in the end? To be fair to the other people it probably was better to serve them and then hunt for your parcel when the queue had cleared. To be fair other people don't care about your parcel. If the roles were reverse how would you feel?

But you can reverse that too, why should I care about what people in the queue wanted?

OP posts:
EllyRoff · 10/06/2025 15:51

itsotoy · 10/06/2025 15:50

How am I a faffer? 😐

Holding the queue up messing around. Imagine how the person behind you feels knowing their exchange will take minutes but you’re stood there taking forever

SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 10/06/2025 15:51

FrenchandSaunders · 10/06/2025 15:25

I thought this was going to be about being pissed in a pub ….

Similar thinking but an all you can eat

K0OLA1D · 10/06/2025 15:53

EllyRoff · 10/06/2025 15:51

Holding the queue up messing around. Imagine how the person behind you feels knowing their exchange will take minutes but you’re stood there taking forever

It wasn't the ops fault was it? How is it the op is a faffer but the pillocks working there get away with it.

If there were 2 of them one could have continued to deal with ops parcels

purplecorkheart · 10/06/2025 15:53

itsotoy · 10/06/2025 15:51

But you can reverse that too, why should I care about what people in the queue wanted?

Fair enough.

I guess another way to look at it, is that they did the good for the majority rather than the one. Greater good I guess, not easy though being the one who was negatively impacted.

Did they actually find your parcel?

ObtuseMoose · 10/06/2025 15:54

Helpsremove · 10/06/2025 15:27

A film could be made about this

I can hear the Oscar acceptance speeches already!

itsotoy · 10/06/2025 15:56

ObtuseMoose · 10/06/2025 15:54

I can hear the Oscar acceptance speeches already!

You know when people try and be funny and it’s just … crickets.

The first comment was actually funny though.

OP posts:
WiddlinDiddlin · 10/06/2025 15:56

EllyRoff · 10/06/2025 15:51

Holding the queue up messing around. Imagine how the person behind you feels knowing their exchange will take minutes but you’re stood there taking forever

How is the OP holding up the queue?

She has 4 parcels to collect - she's made that clear - they've provided just one of the four so she's quite sensibly asked for the other items - it's the shop staff that are holding things up!

In what way is the OP 'messing around' ?

Was she supposed to dive behind the counter and find her parcels herself?

Ablondiebutagoody · 10/06/2025 15:57

Swings and roundabouts. I was buying a can off pop in the shop the other day and the PITA parcel collector interrupted their farting around so that I could be served. I paid with coins too and was gone, just like that. Bish, bash, bosh.

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